Episodes

  • 827. Why Dating Feels Harder Than Ever Today (+ The Mindset Shifts You Need)

    827. Why Dating Feels Harder Than Ever Today (+ The Mindset Shifts You Need)
    Dec 16 2025
    In this episode, K+L sit down with relationship expert, bestselling author, and acclaimed pastor Stephen Chandler. From the influence of dating apps + social media to what’s really holding people back from finding a partner, Stephen breaks down the mindset shifts you NEED for true love. Ahead, Stephen reveals empowering strategies for women to attract high-quality partners, how to deal with financial expectations, and why long-lasting love starts with crystal-clear self-awareness. Stephen also shares his own marriage insights + shocking truths about choosing the “one.” Stephen tackles some of the biggest questions of your dating life: when to have the “serious talks,” whether you can change someone, and the surprising ways childhood patterns affect your adult relationships. If you want to know what’s missing from today’s dating landscape, this one’s for you! We also talk about: Why so many relationships end because of dopamine addiction The truth about finances + work ethic in a partner How to figure out if your personal values (really) align The role of discipline + boundaries around sex before marriage—beyond just religion Why women are out-earning + out-growing the current dating pool How childhood + generational trauma shows up in your love life + commitment fears Setting a clear “dating timeline” so you don’t waste your time Powerful tips for not falling into the trap of rescuing or “fixing” a partner The importance of taking action (not just praying or hoping) to meet your person The difference between net worth + true legacy when building your dream life Resources: Website: https://www.stephenrchandler.com/ Book: Relationship Road Map: Step-By-Step Directions to Finding Your Spouse (Jan. 21, 2025) Instagram: @stephenrchandler TikTok: @stephenrchandler_ YouTube: weareunionchurch Facebook: stephenrchandler X: pastorstephen_ Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: LMNT | Go to DrinkLMNT.com/ALMOST30 and get a free sample pack with any order. That’s 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order. Ka’Chava | Go to kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. SKIMS | Shop my favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com/almost30. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. Revolve | Shop at REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner Aura Frames | Visit AuraFrames.com and get $45 off Aura’s best-selling Carver Mat frames by using promo code ALMOST30 at checkout. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • 826. Why ‘The Wait’ Is Worth It: How To Thrive in Life’s Hardest Seasons

    826. Why ‘The Wait’ Is Worth It: How To Thrive in Life’s Hardest Seasons
    Dec 11 2025
    In this episode, Lindsey sits down with powerhouse pastor + author DawnCheré Wilkerson for an unfiltered conversation on what it actually means to thrive in life’s waiting seasons. Discover how embracing the "slow burn" can transform your faith, your identity, and your relationship with God. Ahead, DawnCheré gets real about surviving eight years of infertility + how surrender, spiritual growth, and self-discovery helped her find meaning in the wait. If you’ve been wrestling with uncertainty or the tension between who you are + who you’re becoming, this is for you. Plus, DawnCheré shares how navigating doubt + deconstructing her faith ultimately brought her back to God with renewed clarity + purpose. She opens up about letting go of shame + labels to step fully into her truest identity, finding joy + freedom even in life’s waiting periods. We also talk about: The real emotional toll + spiritual lessons of infertility Why apologizing + repairing with your kids is game-changing parenting Practical strategies for intentional, quality time with family Building, maintaining, and investing in powerful adult female friendships Communication secrets that keep marriage resilient through change The surprising power of journaling for healing + clarity Celebrating your people + cultivating community—no matter how busy life gets Embracing the tension + joy of “living the dream” versus just chasing it Resources: Book: https://www.amazon.com/Slow-Burn-Work-Wonder-Wait/dp/1400345510 Instagram: @dawnchere Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: Ka’Chava | Go to kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. SKIMS | Shop my favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com/almost30. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. Revolve | Shop at REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner Aura Frames | Visit AuraFrames.com and get $45 off Aura’s best-selling Carver Mat frames by using promo code ALMOST30 at checkout. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 16 mins
  • 825. Move From Low Self-Worth to Inner Power with Radhi Devlukia-Shetty (Bonus)

    825. Move From Low Self-Worth to Inner Power with Radhi Devlukia-Shetty (Bonus)
    Dec 10 2025
    As 2025 winds down, we’re re-running some of our most impactful + memorable episodes. These conversations changed us but also deeply touched you, our community—and in many ways, put our show on the map. This is bonus episode #4 with the one and only: Radhi Devlukia-Shetty! Ahead, discover how Radhi + Jay built a foundation of intimacy, navigating conflict + supporting each other’s individuality. Radhi also opens up about feeling lost + unsure of her purpose, and how following tiny sparks like yoga training + Ayurvedic cooking brought her home to herself. She also shares how meditation helped her move through comparison, rebuild confidence, and trust her own timing. This episode is an invitation to release self-doubt, honor your path, and build the kinds of relationships—romantic or platonic—that make you come alive. We also talk about: Why true intimacy in relationships comes from conflict repair + growth How friendship transitions + letting go are a normal part of adult life Using love languages + Ayurveda to truly understand your partner The power of daily meditation for mental clarity + emotional stability Radhi’s journey from low self-worth to embodied confidence The healing potential of Ayurvedic food, herbs, and morning rituals Navigating jealousy, envy, and competitive comparison The importance of simplifying your friendships + holding space without attachment Strategies for curating your social media feed for mental health + body positivity Top spiritual texts + mentors that have transformed Radhi’s life Resources: Website: https://www.radhidevlukia.com/ Podcast: https://www.radhidevlukia.com/podcast Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: Ritual | Get 25% off your first month for a limited time at ritual.com/ALMOST30. LMNT | Go to DrinkLMNT.com/ALMOST30 and get a free sample pack with any order. That’s 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order. Puori | Visit https://Puori.com/ALMOST30 and use our promo code ALMOST30 for 20% off. BetterHelp | This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/almost30 and get on your way to being your best self with 10% off your first month. Pendulum | Go to pendulumlife.com and use code ALMOST30 for 20% off all Pendulum membership first orders. Primally Pure | Use code ALMOST30 to get 15% off your Primally Pure purchase at www.primallypure.com. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • 824. The 10x Leap: Letting Go of Good to Create an Extraordinary Life You Love

    824. The 10x Leap: Letting Go of Good to Create an Extraordinary Life You Love
    Dec 9 2025
    Ready to ditch incremental progress + quantum leap into the life you actually desire? In this powerful solo episode, Krista shares the transformational secrets behind “10x is easier than 2x”—the mindset shift that will help you manifest your highest timeline! Whether you’re craving a soulful relationship, fulfilling business, or a body you genuinely love, Krista breaks down how to radically upgrade your approach—and your results. Get ready for thought-provoking stories + spiritual wisdom that will expand what you think is possible. Krista merges entrepreneurial strategy with spiritual teachings from A Course in Miracles, Neville Goddard, and Dr. Joe Dispenza, delivering potent tools to help you release limiting beliefs + step boldly into a future that’s wildly better than “good enough.” We also talk about: Why letting go of “good” is the key to receiving the extraordinary The difference between 2x + 10x growth (and why almost everyone gets stuck) How to use visualization + embodiment for massive quantum leaps The role of faith, trust, and universal laws in creating your dream life Practical exercises to expand your vision (and how to choose your circle) Using spiritual tools to overhaul your identity + routines Applying 10x principles to business, relationships, and body transformation Real talk about surrendering relationships + opportunities that aren’t “the one” Rewriting your story with radical self-love + higher consciousness Why time collapses when you align with miracles—and how to get there faster Resources: Instagram: @itskrista Website: https://itskrista.com/ Join Metamorphosis, Krista’s six-week small group immersion for women ready to transform from the inside out. You’ll leave with deep appreciation for your body, freedom from food and body shame, an empowered mindset, and the support of a loving community. Save your spot today at itskrista.com/metamorphosis! Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: BetterHelp | This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/almost30 and get on your way to being your best self with 10% off your first month. Ritual | Get 25% off your first month for a limited time at ritual.com/ALMOST30. Ka’Chava | Go to kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. SKIMS | Shop my favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com/almost30. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. Revolve | Shop at REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner Aura Frames | Visit AuraFrames.com and get $45 off Aura’s best-selling Carver Mat frames by using promo code ALMOST30 at checkout. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    41 mins
  • 823. Why You Feel Stuck—and How Spirit Is Asking You To Grow

    823. Why You Feel Stuck—and How Spirit Is Asking You To Grow
    Dec 4 2025
    In this episode, spiritual medium Erika Gabriel returns for an unfiltered, laugh-out-loud deep dive into intuition, manifestation, and the wild ride of being a woman in today’s world. If you’re craving practical spiritual tools for your 20s, 30s, and beyond, you cannot miss this episode! Ahead, Erika peels back the curtain on what finding your purpose really looks like (spoiler: it’s not just one thing). They dig into breaking free from the pressure to have it all figured out, redefining your spiritual practice in motherhood, and how to stay grounded amidst life’s chaos. Plus, Erika shares jaw-dropping stories about mediumship, spiritual protection, and the realities of walking a conscious path. This episode will have you feeling more aligned with who you’re becoming, confident in your intuition, and more grounded in your path—whatever season you’re in. We also talk about: Why your intuition is your direct plug into the universe (and how to access it anytime) How to stop obsessing over “finding your purpose” + embrace every phase of your journey The surprising real life “spiritual practices” that happen outside of meditation + yoga Navigating motherhood, career, and growth without losing yourself (or the spiritual magic) How to break free from victimhood, perfectionism, and comparison paralysis Spiritual shortcuts, mantras, and grounding techniques that actually fit busy lives The “sliding glass doors” of destiny—what’s fixed, what’s not, and how to open new paths The hidden dangers of ego, spiritual bypassing, and performative new-age practices Real stories of working with spirit, handling dark energies, and finding light after darkness Healing, love, and practical wisdom for women evolving through their 20s, 30s, 40s & beyond Resources: Website: https://erikagabriel.com/ Instagram: @spiritualmediumerika Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: Cymbiotika | Go to Cymbiotika.com/Almost30 for 20% off + free shipping. Ka’Chava | Go to kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. SKIMS | Shop my favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com/almost30. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. Revolve | Shop at REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner Aura Frames | Visit AuraFrames.com and get $45 off Aura’s best-selling Carver Mat frames by using promo code ALMOST30 at checkout. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 15 mins
  • 822. Why Rock Bottom Can Be Your Breakthrough: Healing, Dating, and Owning Your Truth

    822. Why Rock Bottom Can Be Your Breakthrough: Healing, Dating, and Owning Your Truth
    Dec 2 2025
    In this episode, Krista sits down with the inspiring designer + TV personality, Sabrina Soto, for an unfiltered conversation about rising above heartbreak—and why being vulnerable is your greatest superpower. If you've ever asked yourself, "Will I ever truly love (and trust) again?" this is for you. Ahead, hear Sabrina’s journey from trauma bonds to uncovering self-worth + genuine connection. Learn why hitting rock bottom can become the foundation for extraordinary transformation, and get a behind-the-scenes look at the tools, retreats, and mindset shifts that changed everything. This episode also teases a fresh perspective on dating, relationships, and how to cultivate authentic friendships in a world obsessed with perfection. Plus, don't miss Sabrina Soto's honest take on imposter syndrome, reinvention, and finding her true calling beyond the spotlight. We also talk about: Healing after narcissistic abuse & breaking the trauma bond The game-changing impact of Hoffman Institute + EMDR therapy How embracing vulnerability opens doors to real love + deep friendships Self-esteem: the secret ingredient for attracting healthy relationships Releasing numbing habits (like alcohol) + choosing yourself Why authentic communication is the key to transformative relationships How to actually allow others to show up for you—and why it matters Building trust after betrayal + letting yourself be seen Navigating dating apps vs. trusting your vibe + chemistry IRL Sabrina's journey from Craigslist to HGTV, imposter syndrome + owning her power Ditching perfection, getting messy, and living your “high-low” life Standing out in competitive industries, handling criticism, and claiming your space Resources: Instagram: @Sabrina_Soto Website: https://www.sabrinasoto.com/ Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: LMNT | Go to DrinkLMNT.com/ALMOST30 and get a free sample pack with any order. That’s 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order. Puori | Visit https://Puori.com/ALMOST30 and use our promo code ALMOST30 for 20% off. SKIMS | Shop my favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com/almost30. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. Revolve | Shop at REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner Aura Frames | Visit AuraFrames.com and get $45 off Aura’s best-selling Carver Mat frames by using promo code ALMOST30 at checkout. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 24 mins
  • 821. Awakening, Loneliness, and Relationship Shifts: The Realities of Spiritual Growth

    821. Awakening, Loneliness, and Relationship Shifts: The Realities of Spiritual Growth
    Nov 27 2025
    In this unfiltered solo episode, Krista + Lindsey open up about the real side of spiritual growth. They share how their most profound awakenings have brought not only expansion, clarity, and inner strength… but also unexpected loneliness, identity shifts, and relationship shake-ups. If you’ve ever wondered why your healing journey feels isolating, chaotic, or “off track,” this conversation will remind you that you’re not behind. Through mindset reframes + practical tools, the girls break down what it actually looks like to grow in your 20s, 30s, and beyond. Expect grounded wisdom + humor as K+L explore how to protect your peace, trust your inner voice, and navigate the messy middle of becoming who you’re meant to be. We also talk about: Building boundaries as an empath + what it looks like in real-time Why healing yourself is the most magnetic form of leadership + service Letting go of comparison, especially when you’re surrounded by spiritual “experts” How to hear your intuition again when you feel disconnected or overwhelmed Journal prompts for rebuilding trust with your inner voice Finding spiritual lessons in the mundane moments Friendship evolutions: the pauses, the distance, the heartbreak, and the rebirth Family dynamics that shift when you grow + and how to navigate the discomfort What to do when life feels chaotic + you can’t “stay high vibe” Simple experiments for strengthening your intuition in low-stakes, everyday scenarios Resources: Instagram: @lindseysimcik Instagram: @itskrista Website: https://itskrista.com/ Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: Fatty 15 | Get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. SKIMS | Shop my favorite bras and underwear at SKIMS.com/almost30. Ka’Chava | Go to kachava.com and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your next order. Hero Bread | Hero Bread is offering 10% off your order. Go to hero.co and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. BEAM | Visit shopbeam.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 to get our exclusive discount of up to 40% off. Bon Charge | Go to boncharge.com and use code almost30 to save 15%. Revolve | Shop at REVOLVE.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 15% off your first order. #REVOLVEpartner Aura Frames | Visit AuraFrames.com and get $45 off Aura’s best-selling Carver Mat frames by using promo code ALMOST30 at checkout. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    33 mins
  • 820. The Human Design Wake-Up Call: What’s Actually Coming in 2027 (Bonus)

    820. The Human Design Wake-Up Call: What’s Actually Coming in 2027 (Bonus)
    Nov 26 2025
    Surprise! This is bonus episode #3 as we count down to the holidays! Welcome back to our special five-episode series, where we’re re-running some of our most impactful + memorable episodes. These conversations changed us but also deeply touched you, our community—and in many ways, put our show on the map. Curious how to break free from conditioning + activate more joy in your daily life? This episode with the world-leading expert on Human Design, Jenna Zoe, explores why most of us struggle to recognize what actually lights us up and how to shift from thinking to embodiment. Discover the untold secrets behind deconditioning, why jealousy is your personal GPS, and how each human design energy type can thrive—especially as the world shifts. If you need tips on how to unlock your purpose with more confidence + clarity, THIS is the episode you can’t afford to miss. We also talk about: The 2027 Human Design shift + what it means for personal + collective growth The difference between “doing the work” + allowing true self-healing to unfold How privilege + distraction impact our journey to finding purpose The myth of “waiting for the invitation” for projectors, and how to create your own opportunities Why micro-passions + jealousy actually point to your soul’s calling Jenna’s insights on past life karma + balancing relationships for deeper intimacy Strategies for centering yourself when you’re highly empathic Reframing social media’s role in spiritual hunger + purpose-seeking The critical role of intention in spiritual + therapeutic practices Actionable guidance for each human design energy type heading into the new year Resources: Website: https://www.myhumandesign.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/humandesign/ Order our book, Almost 30: A Definitive Guide To A Life You Love For The Next Decade and Beyond, here: https://bit.ly/Almost30Book. Sponsors: Fatty 15 | Get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to fatty15.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 at checkout. Our Place | Visit fromourplace.com/ALMOST30 and use code ALMOST30 for 10% off sitewide. Ritual | Get 25% off your first month for a limited time at ritual.com/ALMOST30. Primally Pure | Use code ALMOST30 to get 15% off your Primally Pure purchase at www.primallypure.com. Cymbiotika | Go to Cymbiotika.com/Almost30 for 20% off + free shipping. BetterHelp | This episode is brought to you by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/almost30 and get on your way to being your best self with 10% off your first month. LMNT | Go to DrinkLMNT.com/ALMOST30 and get a free sample pack with any order. That’s 8 single serving packets FREE with any LMNT order. Puori | Visit https://Puori.com/ALMOST30 and use our promo code ALMOST30 for 20% off. To advertise on this podcast please email: partnerships@almost30.com. Learn More: https://almost30.com/about https://almost30.com/morningmicrodose https://almost30.com/book Join our community: https://facebook.com/Almost30podcast/groups https://instagram.com/almost30podcast https://tiktok.com/@almost30podcast https://youtube.com/Almost30Podcast Podcast disclaimer can be found by visiting: almost30.com/disclaimer. Almost 30 is edited by Garett Symes and Isabella Vaccaro. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 18 mins