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Publisher's Summary

Best-selling author, entrepreneur, speaker, and life and business coach Romi Neustadt has a message for women: You can have it all - just not at the same damn time.

Romi Neustadt is a mom of two, a wife, a daughter, best-selling author, speaker, entrepreneur, and coach. What's more, she's achieved these things without a staff of 10, the ability to sleep two hours a night or driving herself batsh*t crazy. She's figured out the key to having it all: Priorities, babe.

In her second book, Romi provides a no-BS blueprint for women to figure out what to focus on and what not to. She explains why saying yes to everything and everyone really means saying no to the things that matter - to your goals, your dreams, and your true self.

The key to achieving your wildest dreams isn't to downsize them. It's to embrace them more fully, and discard everything that isn't serving them. This audiobook will teach you how to:

  • Zone in on what really matters to you, so you can ditch everything that isn't serving your dreams.
  • Recognize and embrace your true worth as a provider, partner, and all-around kickass human.
  • Say no to the millionth request from your kid's school for home-baked goods - without experiencing mom guilt.
  • Establish boundaries that stick with coworkers, friends, and family.
  • Ditch toxic relationships and the soul-sucking drama that accompanies them.
  • Stop feeling like an impostor in your own life.
  • Create habits that protect your time and energy.
  • Kick fear (of not being lovable, pretty, or good enough) to the curb once and for all.

Written in the same down-to-earth, accessible style that made her first book, Get Over Your Damn Self, a beloved best seller, this audiobook is for every woman who wants to live a fulfilled, authentic life without feeling stressed and exhausted. Romi is living proof that it's possible, and you will be too.

©2020 Romi Neustadt (P)2020 Penguin Audio

Critic Reviews

"The answer to having it all is to say no to doing it all - and to stay focused on the things you most deeply care about. Romi Neustadt's tried and true system for linking your goals to your priorities will help you do just that. Read her book now for the full but focused life you deserve." (Leah Weiss, PhD, Stanford Business lecturer, author of How We Work)

“Romi wants us all to love ourselves more and make choices based on our truest desires. With this engaging, funny and insightful book, she gives us the blueprint on how to go after the life each of us has always wanted.” (Kristen Hadeed, founder and CEO, Student Maid, author of Permission to Screw Up)

"Romi has done it again! In this book she gives women permission (and a loving kick in the ass) to say NO to what drains them so they can say YES to what matters most - their own goals and dreams." (Cara Alwill Leyba, author of Girl Code and host of the Style Your Mind podcast)

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One of the best!

One of the best books I’ve ever read/listened to! Romi’s no BS style is very refreshing. She wrote this book mainly for women, but as a man, I think EVERYONE can benefit from this book! You hit this one out of the park Romi!!

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another Awesome book..

awesome book tips to learning how to cope with everyday living! a must- read / hear!!

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Loved it!

Such a great book to truly look within yourself and decide what you want out of life + where you want to go. It gives you the gut punch to realize how much money you’re losing by wasting time! I loved it, but I also feel that different information resonates with us at different stages in our lives and minds.

I needed to hear how much my time was worth + how much I could be losing by wasting that time mindlessly browsing the web. I also needed to hear a few other nuggets offered in this book about relationships and just Plain life!

Snag this if you are on the path to building something great for yourself and your fam! It’s a good one!

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Braggy, with little original ideas

The whole book feels like she is bragging about everything she does and offers very little information. I want my time back

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another great book

so easy to listen to. great tips and advice to help focus in on what's important and make the most of your time to build the life you want.

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Romi does it again!

Excellent follow up to her 1st book. She's one amazing writer! I look forward to whatever she publishes next.

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Great guide

Great information for a mom and biz owner . Thanks for the truth! and honesty.

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Awwweeeessoooooome

I loved this book. On the top 10 this year. I would highly recommend it!

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  • 02-05-20

The best I have read so far.

Very easy to follow and so insightful, great job Romi Neustadt. Every woman should read it.

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  • Sara
  • 01-27-20

What a relief!!

As a woman, I feel everything has to ome down to me. That I need to be everywhere and do everything. It's such a relief to hear "Calm Down Girl!" and focus only on the things that are important to me, prioritize and take consistent action those things happen. Great audio Romi! Wonderful Work. I'd love to get in contact with you!!