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UnClobber
- Rethinking Our Misuse of the Bible on Homosexuality
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Churches in America are experiencing an unprecedented fracturing due to their belief and attitude toward the LGBTQ community. Armed with only six passages in the Bible - often known as the "clobber passages" - the traditional Christian position has been one that stands against the full inclusion of our LGBTQ brothers and sisters. UnClobber reexamines each of those frequently quoted passages of Scripture, alternating with author Colby Martin's own story of being fired from an evangelical megachurch when they discovered his stance on sexuality.
UnClobber reexamines what the Bible says (and does not say) about homosexuality in such a way that breathes fresh life into outdated and inaccurate assumptions and interpretations.
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- Tony Woodcock
- 11-28-20
The author's human nature gets in way of the book
Well, as a Christian who has known for about 15 years that the Bible does not exactly condemn gay relationships, I was hoping for a more analytical and balanced approach to the topic.
But as with most authors and human beings in general, he succumbs to an entire paradigm, rather than being more careful with what he believes.
Rather than going piece by piece and dissecting everything that goes along with the topic, he as many people do, simply accept everything.
What I mean directly is he assumes that if you are OK with people being gay, you must also be liberal. This to me is plainly ridiculous and shows laziness in analyzing things.
He does so much so that he can't even see the obvious war on Christianity in the culture. Its like he took off one pair of blinders to put on another pair of blinders.
To be frank, I am Conservative and have been for as long as I have thought its OK for people to be gay. And I think everything these days get politicized.
This is the second book like this. If someone has an "alternate" view on something in scripture, its like they by default assume you have to accept all the other ridiculous things from the "liberal" side.
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- Heater23
- 06-28-19
So helpful!
I found this book VERY helpful in understanding how the scriptures can be read in a way that does not condemn our LGBT friends and family. Colby alternates chapters telling his own journey of becoming affirming with chapters dedicated to the 6 “clobber” passages referenced as “proof” that homosexuality is a sin.
However, I did not care for the narrator’s voice. He speaks very slowly and with an air of superiority. I found that by changing the speed to 1.25, I could get through it.
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- Mykkisu Quimby
- 05-01-21
Annoying reading
The content of this book is really good. However, the audible reading of it sounds like an automated robotic voice. The way the narrator says LGBTQ becomes almost humorous.
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- 04-07-21
A comprehensive study on biblical LGBTQ+ affirmation
As a gay Christian, raised in the conservative Southern Baptist Church, I have spent most of my adult years attempting to reconcile my sexuality with my closely held religious convictions. On this journey, I have read many books and studies on the so-called “clobber passages”, and I have to say Colby Martin’s book is one of the absolute best I have come across. Though I came to a place of peace with God about my sexuality a few years ago, I am constantly looking for competent and thoughtful studies related to the subject, as it can be a struggle at times to not give in to the shame and guilt I was saturated in during my formative years. This book is a much needed salve for a wounded queer heart. (real talk: even after finding peace, I still need validation once in a while that I’m on the right path, and hearing it from a straight pastor is even more validating, since Colby doesn’t have a dog in the race, so to speak).
If you are looking for scriptural validation of your sexuality, you are studying what the Bible says about your queer loved one, or you just want a deeper understanding of what scripture actually says about the LGBTQ+ community, this is the book for you.
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- Arianna Dinglasan
- 01-01-19
Awesome book!
The book is incredible and so informative while not feeling like a textbook. Colby did an amazing job writing this. Didn’t care too much for the person who read the book, I found his voice to be distracting.
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- Amazon Customer
- 04-23-21
What I’ve been looking for
A new sense of peace and reassurance, knowing I’m not condemned by the scriptures. Colby Martin, thank you
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- M J ALBERT
- 03-11-21
finally reason and research point to the reality
Sexuality has never been a choice. We may choose how we express our sexuality but the underlying attraction is something as innate as beating heart. Colby takes us through the passages used to support conservative Christian beliefs on homosexuality with care and research.
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- Stuj
- 03-08-21
Great book!
This is a great book for any Gay Christian who still struggle’s with those passages in the Bible that are destructive and divisive! It is well thought out and deeply studied!
It will set your spirit free!
That’s what Jesus wants for us,he made us who we are and wants to set us free! The church has been wrong, most still are beset with self righteousness and judgment! No grace!
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- CC
- 12-06-20
love appreciated
thank you Pastor Martin for opening your heart and mind and sharing your biblically based story. your book is a must read for all Christians.
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- Brandon Bryant
- 02-18-19
Clarifying & Liberating
My faith and belief in a loving God has been strengthened after reading this book. I found your book after watching a video by Jackie Greenland (Jackie G) on YouTube. I know that it was divine timing.
I've sat in pews week in and week out, wondering if I have been getting this Faith thing all wrong; Pastor Colby Martin helped me realize, through this book, that I am firmly held in the arms of a God that sees me, loves me, and wants me to know that I am His.
I've always said that I'm a 'heart person', and could not understand why as a bi, cis, queer, Christian guy, I am not deserving of God's love, and His promise, because I happen to love people and not their gender or genitalia. My heart just knows to love, as Jesus loves.
Pastor Martin, I want to thank you for writing this book and sharing your story. This has been helpful to me spiritually, mentally, and emotionally, as I transition from a non-affirming denomination to one that is open-and-affirming. I learned that my "internal convictions [were] not aligned with [my] external actions." And that, was the missing piece of the puzzle for me. Ironically, like you, it took thirty-two years before I heard those words; I'm so grateful that I did.
Your book, I know, has been a healing balm to many LGBTQ+ Christians and their open-and-affirming allies. God has used you as a vessel to help save lives. Thank you. Many continued blessings to you and your family. And Kate, your reward in heaven is great!
I love you all.
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- Nic
- 01-12-23
Really good study book
It goes into depth thinking about logistics and puts things into a well balanced spotlight for Christians on both sides of the divide.
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- Mrs. C. M. Harris
- 11-10-19
helpful but skip every other chapter
The narration unfortunately was painfully stilted and slow. The background story was also very wordy and long winded. However, as suggested at the beginning by the author, you can read every other chapter to get the Bible study that was well worth reading and avoid the authors detailed personal journey
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- Anonymous User
- 05-07-20
glorious relief for troubled hearts
serious scriptural study and following the path of love and acceptance. would recommend to everyone
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Changing Our Mind has helped thousands of families and congregations carefully and compassionately rethink traditional religious teachings about full LGBTQ inclusion. With growing scientific evidence, our wider society has taken big steps, but too many religious families and communities have not kept up. Dr. David Gushee offers a powerful, inspiring message of hope and healing by helping Christians to return to Bible study, prayer, and reflection in a way that creates a vision for a more inclusive church.
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VERY Thought Provoking
- By Andy Thomas on 11-27-22
By: David P. Gushee
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God and the Gay Christian
- The Biblical Case in Support of Same-Sex Relationships
- By: Matthew Vines
- Narrated by: Matthew Vines
- Length: 5 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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As a young Christian man, Matthew Vines harbored the same basic hopes of most young people: to someday share his life with someone, to build a family of his own, to give and receive love. But when he realized he was gay, those hopes were called into question. The Bible, he’d been taught, condemned gay relationships. Feeling the tension between his understanding of the Bible and the reality of his same-sex orientation, Vines devoted years of intensive research into what the Bible says about homosexuality.
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The revisionist side of the discussion
- By David on 07-29-15
By: Matthew Vines
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Torn
- Rescuing the Gospel from the Gays-vs.-Christians Debate
- By: Justin Lee
- Narrated by: Justin Lee
- Length: 9 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
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As a teenager and young man, Justin Lee felt deeply torn. Nicknamed "God Boy" by his peers, he knew that he was called to a life in the evangelical Christian ministry. But Lee harbored a secret: He also knew that he was gay. In this groundbreaking book, Lee recalls the events - his coming out to his parents, his experiences with the "ex-gay" movement, and his in-depth study of the Bible - that led him, eventually, to self-acceptance. But more than just a memoir, Torn provides insightful, practical guidance for all committed Christians who wonder how to relate to gay friends or family members - or who struggle with their own sexuality.
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An Articulate Book that Misses the Biblical Point
- By LP on 09-13-16
By: Justin Lee
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Transforming
- The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians
- By: Austen Hartke, Matthew Vines - foreword
- Narrated by: Austen Hartke
- Length: 5 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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Transforming: The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians provides access into an underrepresented and misunderstood community and will change the way listeners think about transgender people, faith, and the future of Christianity. By introducing transgender issues and language and providing stories of both biblical characters and real-life narratives from transgender Christians living today, Hartke helps listeners visualize a more inclusive Christianity, equipping them with the confidence and tools to change both the church and the world.
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Grace & Insight In an Age of Ignorance
- By Jamie Arpin-Ricci on 11-20-18
By: Austen Hartke, and others
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Still Christian
- Following Jesus Out of American Evangelicalism
- By: David P. Gushee
- Narrated by: Adam Verner
- Length: 4 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
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In this provocative tell-all, David Gushee gives an insider's look at the frictions and schisms of evangelical Christianity, based on his experiences that began with becoming a born-again Southern Baptist in 1978 to being kicked out of evangelicalism in 2014 for his stance on LGBT inclusion in the church. But Gushee's religious pilgrimage proves even broader than that, as he leads his listener through his childhood experiences in Roman Catholicism, his difficult days at the liberal Union Seminary in New York, his encounters with the Christian Right, and more. In telling his story, Gushee speaks to the cultural divisions of a generation.
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Excellent
- By Oma of 7 on 06-26-19
By: David P. Gushee
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Carry On, Warrior
- Thoughts on Life Unarmed
- By: Glennon Doyle Melton
- Narrated by: Glennon Doyle Melton
- Length: 7 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
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Anne Lamott meets Elizabeth Gilbert in this inspirational, side-splittingly funny exploration of the power of living with love, forgiveness, and honesty. Glennon Melton became a sensation when her personal essays started going viral. Giving language to our universal (yet often secret) experiences, her hilarious and poignant observations were read by millions, shared among friends, discussed at water coolers, quoted in The New York Times, and have inspired a social movement.
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Get Ready to Exercise your Bookmarks
- By Molly on 04-17-13
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Changing Our Mind
- Definitive Edition of the Landmark Call for Inclusion of LGBT Christians with Response to Critics
- By: David P. Gushee
- Narrated by: David P. Gushee
- Length: 5 hrs and 42 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
Changing Our Mind has helped thousands of families and congregations carefully and compassionately rethink traditional religious teachings about full LGBTQ inclusion. With growing scientific evidence, our wider society has taken big steps, but too many religious families and communities have not kept up. Dr. David Gushee offers a powerful, inspiring message of hope and healing by helping Christians to return to Bible study, prayer, and reflection in a way that creates a vision for a more inclusive church.
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VERY Thought Provoking
- By Andy Thomas on 11-27-22
By: David P. Gushee
-
God and the Gay Christian
- The Biblical Case in Support of Same-Sex Relationships
- By: Matthew Vines
- Narrated by: Matthew Vines
- Length: 5 hrs and 54 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
-
Story
As a young Christian man, Matthew Vines harbored the same basic hopes of most young people: to someday share his life with someone, to build a family of his own, to give and receive love. But when he realized he was gay, those hopes were called into question. The Bible, he’d been taught, condemned gay relationships. Feeling the tension between his understanding of the Bible and the reality of his same-sex orientation, Vines devoted years of intensive research into what the Bible says about homosexuality.
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The revisionist side of the discussion
- By David on 07-29-15
By: Matthew Vines
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Torn
- Rescuing the Gospel from the Gays-vs.-Christians Debate
- By: Justin Lee
- Narrated by: Justin Lee
- Length: 9 hrs and 2 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
As a teenager and young man, Justin Lee felt deeply torn. Nicknamed "God Boy" by his peers, he knew that he was called to a life in the evangelical Christian ministry. But Lee harbored a secret: He also knew that he was gay. In this groundbreaking book, Lee recalls the events - his coming out to his parents, his experiences with the "ex-gay" movement, and his in-depth study of the Bible - that led him, eventually, to self-acceptance. But more than just a memoir, Torn provides insightful, practical guidance for all committed Christians who wonder how to relate to gay friends or family members - or who struggle with their own sexuality.
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-
An Articulate Book that Misses the Biblical Point
- By LP on 09-13-16
By: Justin Lee
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Transforming
- The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians
- By: Austen Hartke, Matthew Vines - foreword
- Narrated by: Austen Hartke
- Length: 5 hrs and 5 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
Transforming: The Bible and the Lives of Transgender Christians provides access into an underrepresented and misunderstood community and will change the way listeners think about transgender people, faith, and the future of Christianity. By introducing transgender issues and language and providing stories of both biblical characters and real-life narratives from transgender Christians living today, Hartke helps listeners visualize a more inclusive Christianity, equipping them with the confidence and tools to change both the church and the world.
-
-
Grace & Insight In an Age of Ignorance
- By Jamie Arpin-Ricci on 11-20-18
By: Austen Hartke, and others
-
Still Christian
- Following Jesus Out of American Evangelicalism
- By: David P. Gushee
- Narrated by: Adam Verner
- Length: 4 hrs and 29 mins
- Unabridged
-
Overall
-
Performance
-
Story
In this provocative tell-all, David Gushee gives an insider's look at the frictions and schisms of evangelical Christianity, based on his experiences that began with becoming a born-again Southern Baptist in 1978 to being kicked out of evangelicalism in 2014 for his stance on LGBT inclusion in the church. But Gushee's religious pilgrimage proves even broader than that, as he leads his listener through his childhood experiences in Roman Catholicism, his difficult days at the liberal Union Seminary in New York, his encounters with the Christian Right, and more. In telling his story, Gushee speaks to the cultural divisions of a generation.
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Excellent
- By Oma of 7 on 06-26-19
By: David P. Gushee
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Carry On, Warrior
- Thoughts on Life Unarmed
- By: Glennon Doyle Melton
- Narrated by: Glennon Doyle Melton
- Length: 7 hrs and 46 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
Anne Lamott meets Elizabeth Gilbert in this inspirational, side-splittingly funny exploration of the power of living with love, forgiveness, and honesty. Glennon Melton became a sensation when her personal essays started going viral. Giving language to our universal (yet often secret) experiences, her hilarious and poignant observations were read by millions, shared among friends, discussed at water coolers, quoted in The New York Times, and have inspired a social movement.
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Get Ready to Exercise your Bookmarks
- By Molly on 04-17-13
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People to Be Loved
- Why Homosexuality Is Not Just an Issue
- By: Preston Sprinkle, Wesley Hill - foreword
- Narrated by: Adam Verner
- Length: 6 hrs and 37 mins
- Unabridged
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Overall
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Performance
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Story
Christians who are confused by the homosexuality debate raging in the US are looking for resources that are based solidly on a deep study of what Scripture says about the issue. In People to Be Loved, Preston Sprinkle challenges those on all sides of the debate to consider what the Bible says and how we should approach the topic of homosexuality in light of it.
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Shallow Empathy
- By Taylor on 02-18-21
By: Preston Sprinkle, and others
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An Introduction to the Old Testament, Third Edition
- The Canon and Christian Imagination
- By: Walter Brueggemann, Tod Linafelt
- Narrated by: James Anderson Foster
- Length: 21 hrs and 32 mins
- Unabridged
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