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Ashley Rhodes-Courter spent nine years of her life in 14 different foster homes. As her mother spirals out of control, Ashley is left clinging to an unpredictable, dissolving relationship, all the while getting pulled deeper and deeper into the foster-care system. In this inspiring, unforgettable memoir, Ashley finds the courage to succeed - and in doing so, discovers the power of her own voice.
©2008 Ashley Rhodes-Courter (P)2008 Blackstone Audio, Inc.

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  • Annie
  • Boulder Creek, CA, USA
  • 02-03-09

Wow! Haunting, riveting, memorable!

What a bright young girl who was passed from foster home to foster home and happened to be a gifted writer and grow up to tell it all.

If you ever wanted to be in the heart and mind of a child living a life very different from the norm, Ashley provides an articulate recounting. From her early days with her troubled mother to all the stops along the way to adulthood and a family who (finally!) loves her and adopts her, this story is irresistible.

The voice of the young narrator is perfect -- you feel as if Ashley is sitting next to you, wistfully sharing the truths and realities of her unbelievable life.

Highly recommended.

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Been there, done that

This is just one of those stories that breaks your heart, but then puts it back together when you realize that this kid, with every imaginable strike against her, has made something of her life. She is an excellent writer, and although she likely had a ghost writer, I would not be surprised to learn that she did the whole thing on her own. That is the kind of person she is.

Having an adopted daughter who went through a lot of trauma in the foster care system, and having a lot of residual problems because of everything that went on in her young life and with her adoptive parents, this story really struck close to home. So many times I found myself thinking, "Yup, been there done that," "Oh yeh, I sure know how THAT feels," "Uh-huh, you did the right thing," and on and on. I am so happy for Ashley and admire her strength so much. Not being a professional narrator, she did an admirable job of telling her story.

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Moving, heart felt and very real.

As a social worker this audio book really hit home. Our children are our future and they sometimes need to be protected. If we are their protectors then we need to make sure that we are doing our job. Ashley is a remarkable young woman and is a reminder of when systems go wrong there ARE people affected. Her, her birth family, her adoptive family and the many of thousands of children in foster care.

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Incredible Story

This is a cohesive, well-told, and incredibly lived story. It's hard to believe that the author was so young when she wrote it.

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Well writte; well read

This was heart wrenching at times. It is hard to believe that in this country we can't seem to do more to keep our children from such horrific treatment. The author seemed to keep herself together despite the poor care, disappointments, etc.

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Excellent Listen

This is an excellent audiobook. Heartbreaking though!

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Casa/GAL volunteers

I’ve been a volunteer for many years and was beginning to feel burnout but I didn’t know how to walk away when there is such a need. This book rejuvenated me and renewed my commitment. Very thankful to have read this!

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LOVED LOVED LOVED IT!!!

Loved the memoir! I am in the process of a social work degree and this book, opened my eyes more.

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Very well written account of life in foster care

As a foster parent I really appreciated the honesty of this memoir. It was very enlightening to hear about her experiences (and that of many others in care).

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  • Olandir
  • Highland Springs, VA United States
  • 07-22-18

An amazing and captivating story

This book was recommended to us as we start our adoption journey and once i started, I just couldn't stop. Ashley's story was a roller coaster of emotions and it really puts into perspective the journey that children go through when they are in the foster system, even if they don't face the hardships that she did. I highly recommend this for anyone who is a foster or adoptive parent.