The Brink of Being

Talking About Miscarriage

By: Julia Bueno

Narrated by: Polly Lee, Julia Bueno

"Wise and compassionate...a profound game-changer of a book." (Caroline Leavitt, author of Pictures of You)

Though approximately one in four pregnancies ends in miscarriage, it remains a rarely talked about, under-researched, and largely misunderstood area of women's health. This profoundly necessary book - the first comprehensive portrait of the psychological, emotional, medical, and cultural aspects of miscarriage - aims to help break that silence.

With candor, warmth, and empathy, psychotherapist Julia Bueno blends women's stories (including her own) with research and analysis, exploring the effect of pregnancy loss on women and highlighting the ways in which our society fails to effectively respond to it. The result is a galvanizing, urgent, and moving exploration of a too-often-hidden human experience, and a crucial resource for anyone struggling with - or seeking to better understand - miscarriage.

©2019 Julia Bueno (P)2019 Penguin Audio

Critic reviews

"[M]oving...a comprehensive picture of shame, grief, and other emotions that accompany such a specific trauma. The Brink of Being is also a call of action to doctors, families, and our broader society: How can we better support people who miscarry?" (Bitch Media)

"This book should be required reading for anyone who has had a miscarriage or been close to a woman who has." (The Mercury)

"Those who have been touched by miscarriage will surely find [The Brink of Being to be] a great resource outlining the emotional landscape after pregnancy loss or as a guide to better understand what a woman might be enduring." (Associated Press)

Helped me get through the pain

This book is not for the faint of heart. It is a very deep and emotional read that gets real about miscarriage, loss of self, and loss of your Unborn. It was such a tonic for my battered and broken heart when going through my 3rd miscarriage. I was in an extremely dark place when this book came across my Audible recommendations and it really helped to hear the stories of others. It empowered me to get in touch with a therapist to work through the grief. Definitely a fantastic listen.

Thought provoking and heartfelt

This book was hard to listen to which is good and bad all at the same time. It was thought-provoking with many stories about many couples from many angles. It was well-written and thought out and the author gave a lot of useful information as well as information that may not be well-known. Definitely a book to read if you've had a miscarriage or know someone who has had a miscarriage.

Not for everyone

I bought this book having just gone through my second miscarriage. I couldn’t make it all the way through. I found it to be quite depressing just listening to stories about miscarriage to be honest.