Reigniting the Spark

Why Stable Relationships Lose Intimacy and How to Get It Back

By: Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Narrated by: Dr. Bruce Chalmer

Create a relationship that lasts.

Dr. Bruce Chalmer’s Reigniting the Spark shows couples how to build a lasting relationship full of passion and fulfillment. You’ll learn how to improve your communication, have better sex, and avoid pointless arguments.

Dr. Chalmer combines his expertise in science with 30 years of experience as a couples therapist to show how you can restore intimacy and overcome any relationship problem to create and maintain a lively, loving, lasting relationship. He offers a unique perspective on the role of faith — not necessarily religious — in relationships. Whatever your faith background, religious or secular, Dr. Chalmer’s approach to faith as a key to unlocking intimacy will inform and inspire you.

This book explores the most common issues that sap the happiness out of a relationship and shows you exactly what to do to turn it around. Written in a relatable and easy-to-understand style, Reigniting the Spark will help you better understand yourself and your partner so you can both be more satisfied.

Whether you’re reading alone or with a partner, Reigniting the Spark will teach you:

• How to build and restore intimacy, trust, and a deep connection in your relationship
• How to identify triggering issues like trauma that could be sapping the joy out of your relationship, and exactly what to do about it
• A list of bad reasons people get married — and one good one
• How to go from plain old sex, to good sex, to sacred sex
• How to be your best self when your partner has been unfaithful
• How to know when to break up, and when to work through the inevitable growing pains in your relationship

Reigniting the Spark is for any couple who’s ready to create a stronger, more fulfilling relationship.

You’ll love this book if you like:

• The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Jon Gottman and Nan Silver
• Kosher Sex by Shmuley Boteach
• Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel
• The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
• Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendricks and Helen Hunt

©2020 Dr. Bruce Chalmer (P)2020 Dr. Bruce Chalmer

This is pretty sound advice!

You can’t argue with the simplicity of the message in this book. Particularly great advice for the leaning-in partner when their significant other declares lost hope or the end. It was recommended to me by my counselor. She did a great job detecting my anxiety and worry I had for my 13 year relationship with my wife. After reading, I felt I was much more stable and focused on what I could control vs. panicking over what I couldn’t. Be kind, don’t panic, and have faith!