
Reality-Based Leadership
Ditch the Drama, Restore Sanity to the Workplace, and Turn Excuses into Results
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Narrated by:
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Deanna Hurst
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By:
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Cy Wakeman
About this listen
Leadership strategies grounded in reality and focused on results
Recent polls show that 71% of workers think about quitting their jobs every day. That number would be shocking - if people actually were quitting. Worse, they go to work, punching time clocks and collecting paychecks, while completely checked out emotionally. In Reality-Based Leadership, expert Fast Company blogger Cy Wakeman reveals how to be the kind of leader who changes the way people think about and perceive their circumstances - one who deals with the facts, clarifies roles, gives clear and direct feedback, and insists that everyone do the same - without drama or defensiveness. Filled with dynamic examples, innovative tools, and diagnostic tests, this book shows you how to become a reality-based leader, revealing how to:
- Uncover destructive thought patterns with yourself and others
- Diffuse drama and lead the person in front of you
- Stop managing and start leading, empowering others to focus on facts and think for themselves
Equipped with a facts-based, confident approach, you will free yourself from the frustrations you face at work and transform yourself into a reality-based leader, with the ability to liberate and inspire others.
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Brené Brown has spent the past two decades studying the emotions and experiences that give meaning to our lives, and the past seven years working with transformative leaders and teams spanning the globe. She found that leaders in organizations ranging from small entrepreneurial startups and family-owned businesses to nonprofits, civic organizations, and Fortune 50 companies all ask the same question: How do you cultivate braver, more daring leaders, and how do you embed the value of courage in your culture? This audiobook answers this question.
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Brené's Work Has Changed My Life
- By Maximus on 01-12-19
By: Brené Brown
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The Coaching Habit
- Say Less, Ask More & Change the Way You Lead Forever
- By: Michael Bungay Stanier
- Narrated by: Daniel Maté
- Length: 3 hrs and 3 mins
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In Michael Bungay Stanier's The Coaching Habit, coaching becomes a regular, informal part of your day so managers and their teams can work less hard and have more impact. Drawing on years of experience training more than 10,000 busy managers from around the globe in practical, everyday coaching skills, Bungay Stanier reveals how to unlock your peoples' potential. He unpacks seven essential coaching questions to demonstrate how - by saying less and asking more - you can develop coaching methods that produce great results.
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What's on your mind?
- By A. Yoshida on 08-11-16
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The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
- A Leadership Fable
- By: Patrick Lencioni
- Narrated by: Charles Stransky; introduction by Patrick Lencioni
- Length: 3 hrs and 42 mins
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In keeping with the parable style, Patrick Lencioni begins by telling the fable of a woman who, as CEO of a struggling Silicon Valley firm, took control of a dysfunctional executive committee and helped its members succeed as a team. Story time over, Lencioni offers explicit instructions for overcoming the human behavioral tendencies that he says corrupt teams. Succinct yet sympathetic, this guide will be a boon for those struggling with the inherent difficulties of leading a group.
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Clear Headed Guidance on Building Teams
- By Mark on 01-18-03
By: Patrick Lencioni
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The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership: 25th Anniversary
- Follow Them and People Will Follow You
- By: John C. Maxwell
- Narrated by: John C. Maxwell, Henry O. Arnold
- Length: 9 hrs and 32 mins
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HarperCollins and John C. Maxwell are celebrating the milestone anniversary of Maxwell’s bestselling The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, with the publication of a revised and updated 25th anniversary edition. Included are insights from Maxwell on each law and how they have impacted his life as a leader and mentor. There will also be stories from some of today’s most impactful leaders, like IT Cosmetics' Jamie Kern Lima, Maxwell Leadership CEO Mark Cole, and author and marketing expert Jeff Henderson, on how they have applied these laws to their own success journeys.
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Very intriguing views.
- By Jason Frampton on 11-11-22
By: John C. Maxwell
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Start with Why
- How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action
- By: Simon Sinek
- Narrated by: Simon Sinek
- Length: 7 hrs and 18 mins
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The inspirational best seller that ignited a movement and asked us to find our why. Discover the book that is captivating millions on TikTok and that served as the basis for one of the most popular TED Talks of all time - with more than 56 million views and counting. Over a decade ago, Simon Sinek started a movement that inspired millions to demand purpose at work, to ask what was the why of their organization. Since then, millions have been touched by the power of his ideas, and these ideas remain as relevant and timely as ever.
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Useless Dribble
- By Chimdi Azubuike on 03-10-18
By: Simon Sinek
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Crucial Conversations (Third Edition)
- Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High
- By: Joseph Grenny, Kerry Patterson, Ron McMillan, and others
- Narrated by: Emily Gregory, Joseph Grenny
- Length: 7 hrs and 45 mins
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The book that revolutionized business communications has been updated for today's workplace. Crucial Conversations provides powerful skills to ensure every conversation - especially difficult ones - leads to the results you want. Written in an engaging and witty style, it teaches listeners how to be persuasive rather than abrasive, how to get back to productive dialogue when others blow up or clam up, and it offers powerful skills for mastering high-stakes conversations, regardless of the topic or person.
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Great info; needs a cast, PDF and a website update
- By Kali on 04-25-22
By: Joseph Grenny, and others
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Make Your Bed
- Little Things That Can Change Your Life...and Maybe the World
- By: Admiral William H. McRaven
- Narrated by: Admiral William H. McRaven
- Length: 1 hr and 53 mins
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If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed. On May 17, 2014, Admiral William H. McRaven addressed the graduating class of the University of Texas at Austin on their Commencement day. Taking inspiration from the university's slogan, "What starts here changes the world," he shared the ten principles he learned during Navy Seal training that helped him overcome challenges not only in his training and long Naval career, but also throughout his life; and he explained how anyone can use these basic lessons to change themselves - and the world - for the better.
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Watch the YouTube video
- By A. Yoshida on 01-31-18
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- 04-18-24
To develop as a leader, this is a GREAT starting point
This is leadership development at its finest! Don't codle your people, hold them accountable, and you will get the results you are looking for, and you will build a reputation worth having.
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- Carolina - So Cal
- 05-16-24
Great for Seasoned Leaders too!
I have been in leadership over 20 years. I needed to hear so much of this.
Cy has a great way of tackling a big subject into digestible pieces.
I will definitely be re-listening.
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- Sarah Newkirk
- 12-06-22
Results Driven Guidance
Wow— did I need this book. This book delivered actionable tools and guidance that I was able to see the impact from almost immediately. This is exactly what I needed. I will be paying this forward.
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- RenRap
- 06-20-24
My new workplace guide!
This book is basically how I operate at work. Cut out the excuses and get to action. Assume positive intent. Be clear in objectives. I really enjoyed this book and will be leveraging the authors additional resources.
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- Coach V
- 11-02-20
Attention Coaches of Sports Teams!
I highly encourage Cy and her Team to breakthrough into the sports coaching arena. This entire book can be applied to not just Coaches but athletes and parents of athletes!
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- Noelle
- 06-01-23
A must read for all leaders and managers
If you care about results and Cy will help you get them! With a compassionate and no-nonsense approach, Cy gives us the real-life tools we’ve all been searching for!
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- Jonathan Germosen
- 02-27-24
Clarity in purpose
Makes it easy to know how to move forward regardless of opinion. The narrator makes the point very apparent, who vs do.
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- cstar172
- 11-22-20
Game Changer
This book has already changed my life. The strategies outlined are practical and easy to understand. I love that it starts with me and my mindset as a leader. My frustration at work and home is greatly reduced and I've suggested that our entire leadership team read this book so we may apply the principles together.
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- Salandra Bowman
- 12-05-23
Practical and Powerful
Filled with immediate practical applicability! I look forward to seeing what comes of my implementation of the practices and mindset.
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- Juli R Willmott
- 03-19-24
Cy lays out a clear path to improve
Loved it and will read it a second time and do the workbook. This is the second book that be read that was very helpful as a manager.
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