Overcoming Passive-Aggression, Revised Edition

How to Stop Hidden Anger from Spoiling Your Relationships, Career, and Happiness

De: Tim Murphy PhD PhD, Loriann Oberlin MS LCPC MS LCPC

Narrado por: Peter Coleman

In Overcoming Passive-Aggression, Dr. Tim Murphy and Loriann Hoff Oberlin provide an in-depth look at a topic we've all faced but haven't always recognized: Hidden anger. When people don't express their views and feel compelled to conceal their true beliefs and emotions, behaving in ways that don't match what they honestly think, there can be serious physical and psychological results for everyone involved. For the first time, Murphy and Oberlin offer a clear definition of passive-aggression and show readers not only how to end the behavior, but also how to avoid falling victim to other people's hidden anger. In clear, compassionate language, they cover everything from the childhood origins of the condition to the devastating effect it has on work and personal relationships to the latest research on the subject, and offer practical, proven strategies for the angry person as well as the individual who finds himself the target of someone else's passive-aggression.

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Murphy...and Oberlin...closely examine how this kind of anger, called passive-aggressive, can undermine sufferers and their relationships and make life generally miserable.—Publishers Weekly

The revision of this book unravels common denominators, teaches how to spot and be assertive with such people, deals with all ages and both genders, and offers specific suggestions for helping professionals who work amid mixed messages and noncompliants.—Counseling Today

Must have book to understand difficult behavior

If you could sum up Overcoming Passive-Aggression, Revised Edition in three words, what would they be?

Comprehensive resource for dealing with difficult people

What did you like best about this story?

This audio book covers the gamut of arenas where we all find difficult people -- personal life, school, relationships, workplace, in helping professions -- basically all around us.

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What did you learn from Overcoming Passive-Aggression, Revised Edition that you would use in your daily life?

Overcoming Passive-Aggression steps listeners/readers through what we too often see as controlling, manipulative, self-absorbed or sometimes lazy or down in the dumps behavior. The book explores where the behaviors come from, how this makes up the passive-aggressive persona, and why it leaves others (bosses, coworkers, significant others) frustrated. Through modern, easy to understand examples we can see the behavior play out and we can also see how to respond to it assertively so that we do not become so angry ourselves. This resources is a must-have for managers. Its multicultural perspectives aid in grasping the concepts that affect people of varying ages, ethnic backgrounds, and positions in life. Overall, very well done.

Not for the person trying to actually OVERCOME

I bought this book after being a doormat for almost 5 decades passive aggression has begun leaking out. I wanted to learn how to OVERCOME this behavior. Besides leaving this book with a self esteem worse than I began I found no real help over coming the anger the built. This book felt more as a book characterizing beliefs from a receipiants point of view of what what going on in the head of the person displaying the transition from years of passivity to the passive aggression. Sadly, I wanted this book to be a real help.

Brainy Analysis of Passive Aggression

In short, it was difficult for me to take in the message of this book. I feel I was missing a personal angle. This book is like a scientific literature review on the subject. Very Intellectual, not emotionally connecting to the discussed subjects.
Few people stories that are present feel synthetic and factual. This book is good for people that like lists. For example: "One Idea for a passive aggressive clients is ... such as 1) ... 2) ... 3) ...
Dr. Who and Dr.What in their recent book .... specified the following 7 best approach methods 1) ... 2) ... 3) .... In a family therapy setting, you need to watch for 1) ... 2) ... 3) ... that might lead to 1)... 2) ... 3) ... "
I think you got the idea

The kitchen sink of mental health issues

This book was not at all what I was looking for. Although it touched on some passive-aggression topics, it was much more of an overview on many mental health topics. And it focused on those providing therapy to patients, not to the layperson wanting to "Stop Hidden Anger from Spoiling Your Relationships, Career, and Happiness". I listened to the whole audiobook hoping it would get better but it did not so I have returned it.