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Living an Orgasmic Life

By: Xanet Pailet, Emily Morse - foreword by
Narrated by: Xanet Pailet
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Overcome your discomfort.

Living an Orgasmic Life is written for anyone who finds sex challenging or feels uncomfortable with their sex life. Women who are alienated from their erotic side due to sexual abuse or trauma will find a healing balm here. Women who can't surrender into pleasure, can't sustain intimacy, or want to reclaim and feel empowered in their sexuality will greatly benefit from this book.

Awaken your sexuality.

Challenges with sexuality are all too common in our society and not frequently discussed in an open and thoughtful manner. In Living an Orgasmic Life, Xanet Pailet explores the many reasons that cause women to disconnect from their sexuality including: shame, body image issues, sexual abuse and trauma, physical wounding, and fears of intimacy. She teaches practical advice and tools to help women awaken to their sexuality in a healthy way and reclaim their libido.

Add sex back into your marriage.

The number of reported sexless marriages has quadrupled in the last 20 years. Living an Orgasmic Life is filled with lessons and practical exercises that can take your sex life from non-existent or mediocre to fulfilling on every level.

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2018 Xanet Pailet (P)2019 Tantor

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Started strong

Interesting for sure, exercises are good, not for everyone. Looking forward to journaling next. Might come back and Re rate

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Great Insight but Vague

I really enjoyed the book although I found it very vague. This is not a manual but more insight & helping one to begin those first stages of healing. It was easy to listen to.

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A happy, fulfilling life

If the title Wired’s you out think of it as a happy, fulfilling life. What you want in your heart of hearts and that everyday normal life seems to drain from us. It’s a really good read, partner wasn’t a huge fan of her accent, but I felt that it was clear and crisp and I could understand it all. Definitely recommend.

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Absolute 5 star rating!!!

I found this book to be extremely inspiring and enlightening. and if you take the tips and tricks and words to Heart and use them in your everyday life I strongly feel like it will make a difference. I extremely enjoyed listening too this book. The narrator made it very easy to listen to and follow. I will be recommending this book to every woman I know whether they are having issues sexually or not it has extremely good information about how our bodies as women work and I will even be having my husband listen to this book so he has a better idea of how my body works as well.

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All women should read this book!

Great insights. I learned a lot about myself reading this book. If you think you won’t benefit from reading/ listening to this book, you’re wrong. Everything is connected to your sexuality.

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Massive Change But... Be Prepared for it Go Too Far

So I will tell you I'm very very very grateful to have listened to this book. However I wanted to share it with my spouse and she's not as open as I am. Unfortunately the author goes way off into crazy space multiple times. The discussions on trauma, health, and how that manifests in our relationships was pure gold and made me go out to find better books.
I recommend "Us" by Terrance Real. Buy the book instead of audio.
If you want want this topic just blow past the crazy parts and write down the good parts.

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Tap into your inner self

Great book on giving you tools to help unlock your sexuality and the power that can come from that. It's based on the Eastern philosophy of Tantra. This is not my belief system but I was able to extract a lot of golden nuggets that help me to explore my sexuality. The book is very interactive and every chapter gives you an opportunity to work on the philosophies discussed. Definitely worth adding to your collection in this particular area. I believe one of the most powerful areas she covered is discovering your sexual blueprint and how those philosophies on sex that you grew up with have a strong impact on your sexuality today.

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Great For Everyone.

Male or female, young or old—doesn’t matter. This is a magnificent book for all people. As a 27 year old straight male, I got a lot of takeaways from this book, truly a gem. A+++

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Worth Reading/Listening

This is a first book that I have listed to about sex life so I do not have a lot of reference from other books. It was very interesting! I think it was helpful and even hopeful as it was describing how the stories of the seemingly hopeless people have changed! What I didn’t like is that it was talking about some practices and seminars and how they changed the author’s life, but she did not describe what should I do to change my sex life (the book did have some practice exercises, but they were independent from the stories of the experiences of the author). Overall I would recommend this book! It may not change your life, but it could be a good beginning for the big but gradual changes.

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I found this book to be very enlightening.

for someone that is a beginner to try to understand their sexuality this is a great book and I would highly recommend it

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