Life with My Idiot Family: A True Story of Survival, Courage and Justice over Childhood Sexual Abuse

By: Kathy Picard, Gary Picard

Narrated by: Kathy Picard

Length: 9 hrs and 10 mins

Publisher's summary

Seven-year-old little girls love their daddies. Kathy was no exception, so when her daddy started paying “special” attention to her, she felt “special” in turn. Her daddy loved her. What could be better than that?

Few betrayals run as deep as the betrayal of being sexually abused throughout your childhood by the man you should have been able to trust with your life. For Kathy, the betrayal ran deeper because when she finally found the courage to start speaking out about what her abuser did to her, her family responded by labeling her a liar and a troublemaker.

Kathy didn’t stop speaking out, though. In fact, she spoke out more, eventually becoming a powerful voice in the nine-year campaign to get both the criminal and civil statute of limitations extended for child sex abuse crimes in Massachusetts. On June 26, 2014, the day the civil bill was signed into law, Kathy was finally able to file suit against her abuser.

Abusers get away with their crimes because the thought of confronting them - even through legitimate legal channels - can be a terrifying prospect for a victim. Yes, Kathy’s story as a victim is filled with years of sexual abuse and threats, but there are many more years filled with personal and professional triumphs as her life progressed beyond the physical and emotional reach of her abuser. Kathy is inspirational proof that good people can win and that speaking out and fighting for what you truly believe in can help make this world a better place to live.

©2017 Lake Town Publishing LLC (P)2019 Lake Town Publishing LLC

Sad story but triumphant ending

I was so sad listening to this book, but then I found myself listening to Kathy's story a second time to get the full understanding of the trauma she endured (I often listen passively while I'm working). I was initially shocked at the sadness of the story and didn't realize until further researching that the narrator of the book was also the same person this story was about. Although I found the story to be incredibly sad, I also realized that Kathy came out on top - with such a positive outlook on what had happened to her.

Thank you for sharing your story Kathy.

Great Tale of Trauma and Courage.

The beginning of Kathy's story is hard to hear, but the story of how she built her strength back and became the hero of her own life is amazing and inspiring. l highly recommend this book.

This is MUST read

Thank you Kathy. I recommend this book to all parents, caregivers and teachers. It gives a better understanding of childhood sexual abuse.

Feeling an affinity

Thank you for your strength and perseverance, Kathy. I experienced sexual abuse as a child. It’s very helpful to share your experience to help others. I’ve been sharing for years and have dealt with the isolation and ridiculous. Gaslighting is the worst. I give you all the credit for working on having the statute changed. It is a huge step in putting predators behind bars.

A traumatic topic covered beautifully

Beautifully written and gives courage to victims of sexual abuse. An inspirational battle for validation.

The whole story

This was a wonderful chronology of horror, hope, and help. As a therapist, and #metoo warrior, I highly recommend this to anyone pursuing a career in advocacy, mental health provider, or personal healing. Many good wishes to Kathy and all of her advocates along the way.

Powerful and Important!

Kathy is not only a survivor, but an advocate. This book is a great tool. Child Sexual Abuse is real and it needs to be addressed. No more sweeping it under the rug.

Kathy is a true Hero

Kathy has made it her life mission to help others who have endured this horrible abuse. Her own personal story gives others the courage to face their own abusers and gives them the strength to find their own voices. She is a true hero in my eyes.
To the reviewer that picks on the way she says "Idea", she is from Massachusetts, it is how we speak. Focus on the story, not her accent.

A tru story but flat in writing.

It was interesting because it was a true story. I couldn't get over the authors use of idear instead of idea.

True Bravery

Kathy is truly a very brave woman. To tell this story and own her truth, to never give up the fight, so another child does not have to lose their innocence is truly remarkable.