Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life

The Chump Lady's Survival Guide

De: Tracy Schorn

Narrado por: Laura Copland

Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life is a no-nonsense self-help guide for anyone who has ever been cheated on. Here's advice not based on saving your relationship after infidelity - but saving your sanity.

When it comes to cheating, a lot of the attention is focused on cheaters - their unmet needs or their challenges with monogamy. But Tracy Schorn (aka Chump Lady) lampoons such blameshifting and puts the focus squarely on the cheated-upon (chumps) and their needs. Full of solid advice that champions self-respect, Leave a Cheater, Gain a Life offers a fresh voice for chumps who want (and need) a new message about infidelity. This book will offer advice on stupid sh*t cheaters say and how to respond, rookie mistakes of the recently chumped and how to disarm your fears, why chumps take the blame and how to protect yourself, and more.

Full of snark, sass, and real wisdom about how to bounce back after the gut blow of betrayal, Schorn is the friend who guides you through this nightmare and gives you hope for a better life ahead.

©2016 Tracy Schorn (P)2017 Tantor

Must read for someone getting overs cheater

Great book. Very straight forward. Just the thing I needed to kick me in the butt.

Chump required reading (listening)

Everything she said cheaters say and do, sounded just like what I’ve heard from my cheater.
Wow.
Wake up, chumps.
It’s our time to rise.

WOW! READ THIS BOOK!!

This book was the reality check I needed. It's so real. Like talking to a friend. So many things that I already knew but just needed someone to say it. Thank you! Tuesday will be here before I know it!

Real talk!!!

Love this book! Even though I’m reading it about 4 years too late it definitely has good solid advice! If you are looking for authentic guidance READ THIS BOOK! you can tell” she’s been there done that “

Steps on how to move forward

Thank you for writing this book and providing valuable information to help us who have cheating spouses.

Exceptional

Finally a book that is sympathetic and understanding to what the person on the receiving side of betrayl feels and how they shouldn't take any crap from the cheater. Tough love. One of the best books ever. Listened twice.

Simply Awesome!

This book is absolutely awesome! I am so grateful to the author! This book was exactly what I needed. The narrator was also fantastic, for she brought the book to life! Highly recommend 👌👍🏾!!!!!!

great narration

so straight up and raw! she speaks so truthfully and doesn't sugar coat it. it's empowering. I loved it!

At first I hated it…

I’m a chump…such a chump that I’ve read so.many.books. Trying to understand how I became a chump, what made my cheating POS choose someone else… I learned about forgiveness and acceptance and reconciliation.. but no one was addressing the obvious: how can I forgive when no one is asking for forgiveness? This book is exactly what I needed. Sometimes we need some tough love and this book is it. It was hard to hear and more than once I hung my head in shame thinking “I did exactly that…what a chump” but it was healing to put a name to my feelings and understand my anger a bit more. I strongly recommend this title for all my fellow chumps… if you’re a cheater though, go ahead and buzz off, you don’t deserve this insight.

Pocket pep talk

I am listening for a second time in a row. This is a must listen for anyone dealing with infidelity!