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Jealousy Survival Guide
- How to Feel Safe, Happy and Secure in an Open Relationship
- Narrated by: Kitty Chambliss
- Length: 2 hrs and 57 mins
- Categories: Relationships, Parenting & Personal Development, Relationships
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Publisher's Summary
Jealousy can have an enormous impact on some people, so it is no surprise that people (especially those who practice consensual non-monogamy) think, talk, and write about it quite a bit.
In Jealousy Survival Guide, Kitty Chambliss does the homework for you and collects the best tidbits on life and emotions to give you inspiration and provide tools to gain and practice new skills. Combining her own life experience with these pearls of wisdom, Kitty focuses on jealousy in consensually non-monogamous relationships - what it is, how it expresses, and specific ways to manage it.
Kitty’s frank discussion of her own struggles with jealousy and focus on specific skills and techniques - without a shred of blame - makes Jealousy Survival Guide a delightfully useful listen for anyone struggling with jealousy or consensually non-monogamous relationships and polyamory.
This is a comprehensive guidebook and step-by-step template for recognizing feelings of jealousy and insecurity as they come up with effective tools for sorting through those emotions, and when, if, and how to bring up challenging or potentially emotionally charged conversations with loved ones.
What people are saying about Jealousy Survival Guide:
“I’m only a few chapters into Kitty’s Jealousy Survival Guide but have already felt the positive impact her book has had on me personally. Her book has helped me recognize some of the reasons I am the person I am today and areas of my personality which can use improvement. This book covers so much more than jealousy and relationships. It allows for the discovery of oneself and helps pave an optimistic path for growth. I look forward to what the remaining chapters have in store for me and the journey ahead!” (Tina C., relationship coach)
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- Amazon Customer
- 07-26-20
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I found this book very helpful in understanding my personal struggle with jealousy. The author is very candid and straightforward with the information written. I would recommend this book to others struggling with jealousy issues surrounding an open relationship.
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- Anonymous User
- 05-26-20
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This is a hands on guide on how to deal with jealousy in an open relationship. Great tips on how to handle the emotion step by step