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"In the history of humankind, it has never been more possible for us to actually relate in the magical dance of human spirit...but there are some things to do!" (Alison Armstrong)

Unravel the mixed messages you receive. Avoid coming on too strong. Eliminate the pitfalls in pursuing the one you want. Be more self-expressed and less misunderstood!

If you're dating: Learn the benchmarks and timelines of dating and relationships, so you don't blow it. If you're married or in a long-term relationship: Uncover miscommunications that have wreacked havoc in your relationship and fix them.

©2012 Alison Armstrong (P)2012 Alison Armstrong

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Great Perspective on Dating

What did you love best about In Sync with the Opposite Sex?

I'm such a fan of Alison's work that I felt compelled to write a review. I've listened to all of her materials and this is my favorite. Wherever you are in your relationships, dating or married or maybe given up, Alison offers insights that are profoundly impactful and that just might make you laugh out loud when you see how silly men and women can be. I laugh frequently when I listen to this recording and always get something out of it. I can't recommend it enough.

What was one of the most memorable moments of In Sync with the Opposite Sex?

There is a moment where one of the male participants asks Alison about overpowering chemistry. Their back and forth, especially when he remembers he's being recorded, is delightful and reveals quite a lot about the power of chemistry.

What insight do you think you’ll apply from In Sync with the Opposite Sex?

I've taken so much from this particular recording. The two biggest takeaways are a shifted perspective on men and compassion for myself and other women as we struggle to make our relationships work in the quest for love.

Any additional comments?

I came to this work and wanted to learn from Alison out of a desperation to find and make a romantic relationship work. I returned because this work increases my capacity to be a compassionate contributor to the world and to myself. It's about so much for than finding a boyfriend.

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I can't recommend this enough!

Alison Armstrong really breaks down the different and 'opposite' way that men and women approach dating and makes sense of it all. I learned so much from this program and have already listened to it twice. She knows men and women in a whole different way than most people. Her insights and program were not just insightful, but extremely reassuring that I'm not alone in this journey of dating!

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More about dating than relationships

From the title, I was expecting more about relationships than dating but, although this gives basics for how she thinks about things, this was more helpful for dating than for established relationships. I like the partnership one better.

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Alison is amazing. This was so helpful.

I learned a lot. some I already knew but was told time,and again don't do that or don't say that, you can't put it all out there. Well I think you can and should.


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life changing

now I can verbelize what I feel it was going on with me while dating. it also brought me more awarness around my behavior around men and precise tools on how to make it work. I am super grateful for this recording

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Exceptional

This book has given me the tools to increase my relationship literacy and relationship vocabulary.

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Information I could have used 30 years ago

Excellent for dating singles and anyone who finds them self needing to communicate with the opposite sex. Yes. I mean you.

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Very practical and entertaining!

What made the experience of listening to In Sync with the Opposite Sex the most enjoyable?

Simple, easy to understand and all the points made complete sense. When the behaviours of men and women were explained it was obvious as to why we are the way we are :)

What about the narrator’s performance did you like?

Fun, entraining, light harder approach yet very insightful.

Was this a book you wanted to listen to all in one sitting?

YES!

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Glimpse in the mirror

I laughed out loud at how accurate this was and yet so many of those moments were “a-ha” moments where I thought to myself - ooohh - that makes sense. I can see how a shift would help solve that type of conflict!

Great presentation of the workshop. I would have loved having the worksheets as part of the “audio book” though.

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  • 03-11-21

Amazing! Highly recommended!!!

I highly recommend for anyone who's single. You'll find yourself saying a lot of hahaha and wow that makes sense.

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  • Moongirl
  • 08-09-16

Fantastic !

I agree with most of what Alison says, except that she says that we can't have a relationship with someone whom we are very attracted to. I want to be very attracted to man, otherwise I don't want a relationship with him. Also sex is important in a relationship and how do you have sex with someone you're not really attracted to? Apart from this point I loved this workshop and all the useful information she provides. Highly recommended!

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  • Miss LD Gibbs
  • 07-14-15

Wow

I feel enlightened!! Alison speaks honestly and in a comical way, which is informative and so easy to listen to. I will share this seminar without a doubt. I am so glad a friend told me about this. So so happy!!

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  • Mrs
  • 09-12-14

Essential for everybody looking for their partner

Would you listen to In Sync with the Opposite Sex again? Why?

Yes, there is so much amazing information that will help me in my work as a couples' therapist, and that will help me give better advice to friends who are looking for love or at the early stages of relationship. Plus it is so humorously delivered that it is great fun to listen to.

What other book might you compare In Sync with the Opposite Sex to, and why?

Alison Armstrong is like no other person I have come across in the field of understanding opposite sex relationships in terms of her depth of understanding of and compassion and respect for BOTH sexes. I have been working on this stuff for years and she has dramatically transformed for the better my view of men as a woman in the few short months since I discovered her work, and not only that she has helped me transform my understanding of myself as a woman. And it is done with genuine love, deep respect and utter adoration of men and women in their differences.

Which character – as performed by the narrator – was your favourite?

This is a recorded workshop on dating - there are no characters.

Any additional comments?

I cannot recommend Alison Armstrong strongly enough to any man or woman, whether looking for a partner or in a relationship or already married - she will change your LIFE!

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  • A. J.
  • 10-21-13

So I am normal and right on track

If you could sum up In Sync with the Opposite Sex in three words, what would they be?

Informative
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Essential

What other book might you compare In Sync with the Opposite Sex to, and why?

I have read the Creating Conscious Loving Relationships by the Hendricks and so this audio book I consider as important and helpful as the Hendricks one.

What does the narrator bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you had only read the book?

This is a recorded live workshop so you can hear and even the real emotions of people here

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

Yes! when Alison asks women about things I thought it was only me that was doing them and I even thought I was crazy. Alison asked the ladies in the workshop Am I right ladies? and all at unison said YES. That was an aha moment for me. So I am normal and I feel and think just like any other woman. Wonderful!

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-17-21

In sync with this whole story

Loved it all. Easy to listen too. Great points and laugh out loud moments. For everything that was mentioned I was thinking "thats me" "i do that" ..very relatable for all women and men I would imagine.

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  • KA Thomas
  • 01-15-21

So pleased I’m not alone!

I know I have been speaking a different language in my relationships but never understood why until now.
I’m so grateful for this recommendation and to Alison Armstrongs research and experience. I am blown away by her passion and enthusiasm and appreciate I don’t have to suffer in silence.
Picking up tools to deal with my relationship in the future will make a huge difference in my life.

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  • Polarbearz
  • 08-18-20

Never laughed to an audiobook like this before!

Great listen. Informative information about each gender and their key critical differences to learn and resolve and to learn and resolve together. Author sounds well cute throughout.

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  • J Johansen
  • 08-13-20

Absolutely amazing.

I've studied +50 online love coaches, love therapists, transformational experts etc and Alison Armstrongs e-book (workshop) was the most specific, rewarding and truly helpful teachings I've never ever stumbled upon. Thank you.

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  • Sintija Ancevska
  • 06-19-20

Brilliant!

I really enjoyed this recorded seminar. I feel like I learned more from this than from multiple other relationship books. There was lots of funny bits in it so it was easy to listen to and if you keep an open mind and take the suggestions, this can definitely change your dating/relationship life for better.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 03-29-20

Loved it!

Enlightening and fun to listen to! Enjoyed every minute of it!

Great way to learn about how we relate to the opposite sex and to ourselves.

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01-16-21

A must for the sexes

Loved it, couldn't get enough. So relatable yet so funny. Delivered in such an easy light hearted way

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  • Alla P
  • 08-07-20

Highly recommend

It is a recorded workshop, so you get to feel like a part of it.
The author raised lots of 'out of sync' issues with modern dating. One line that I really liked was about meeting people and knowing what you want out of that meeting. If you want to get married, do not waste time on someone who does not. She said once you have booked a flight to New York, you won't board a plane to New Mexico. Why change your destination when you are meeting men? :)

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  • Anonymous User
  • 01-15-20

Everyone will learn something of value

Intelligent, humourous and diadatic discussion about the difference between men and woman and how better to understand one another. For those in relationships already, those who are hoping to be in a relationship and those intrigued by the interactions between the opposite sexes.

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  • Jennifer
  • 07-07-19

Wow!

Loooved this book! Thank you so much, sooo many awesome insights. I will definitely be following Alison Armstrong a lot more!

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  • Clair twaddle
  • 01-05-17

A game changer

This was so hard to listen to in parts because I recognised so many of the things that I had been doing in and around dating. But the perspectives were golden

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  • Amazon Customer
  • 11-02-16

Finally some insight!!!

Great teaching, clearly communicated - it's a gift to both men and women to help them understand each other.