Getting to 'I Do'

The Secret to Doing Relationships Right!

By: Patricia Allen

Narrated by: Ann Richardson

Dr. Patricia Allen's jam-packed seminars in Los Angeles have resulted in over two thousand marriages. Now you too can take advantage of this proven step-by-step program.

Here's what you'll learn:

• How to attract the right man
• When you should make the first move...and when you should not
• Why equality in a relationship may not be what you're looking for
• Why sex before commitment is a bad deal
• How to have sensational sex
• What makes a man run away from a relationship
• How to know when you're giving too much
• How to get what you want without asking
• What makes a man want to commit
• How to BE ENGAGED TO THE RIGHT MAN WITHIN A YEAR!

Produced and published by Echo Point Books & Media, an independent bookseller in Brattleboro, Vermont.

©1994 Patricia D. Allen (P)2024 Echo Point Books & Media, LLC

Love love love

This book helped me learn so much about myself and past relationship mistakes. I date completely different now

For todays women-a work of Genius

I am a feminine dominate women with a masculine tendency to (fight for what I want) instead of be patient (feminine). She tells us how to be both or decide which we want to be when choosing a man and communicating/negotiating commitment and needs. Excellent intimate details about sex talk and the nature of Masculine (thinks) and feminine (feels); yes, this is how he can manipulate us with sex and walk away!!

As a Christian, I have been and outlier seeking marriage, and so hurt and confused in a broken world of ambiguity and marriage negativity. Divorced and frustrated with dating, I understand now I knew little before jumping into romantic situations, no thanks to the introduction of liberated sex and a close death of patriarchal society conflict.

In a relevant way she has a genius sense about todays relationship blunders, She explains in simple terms how to remain true to what we want and understand our needs/traits to communicate with men (the givers … leave the takers, now! Best quote: “ marriage does not start with a signing of paper….it starts when body and mind are bonded. “

Every young lady should read this by 16 yrs

Great Read! Great read! Great read! Great read! Great read! This book should be a part of the school system requirement.

Still 100% Relevant!

This book is still incredibly relevant, and the advice Pat gives works—truly, 1000%. In every relationship, regardless of gender, there must be a balance of masculine and feminine energy, and finding your opposite is non-negotiable. I’m so glad it’s available in audio now, because I struggled to sit still long enough to read the physical copy.
Now that I’ve finally finished it, I can say the insights she shares truly rewire your mindset—and just that shift alone changes what you attract. Other books overcomplicate things and rarely get to the core, but Pat cuts straight to it. I’ll be referring back to both the audio and the hard copy often. It’s just that good.

Everybody is likely to benefit from integrating this wisdom into their relationships in my opinion.

Give this book a chance- it’s healed so much of my agonizing pain in relationships.