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In the field of relationship psychology, Harville Hendrix has transformed our understanding of what makes us fall in love - and what makes it last. His Imago Relationship therapy, co-created with his wife Helen LaKelly Hunt, is a proven healing process now used by more than 2,000 therapists worldwide. With Finding and Keeping Love, this world-renowned relationship therapist brings you the most important practices and insights from Imago therapy distilled from more than three decades of working with singles, couples, and parents. Whether you’re still looking for that special person or you’re already in a committed relationship, here is a program to help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the vital ingredients for deep and lasting love. The Imago Approach: Understand Love at Its Deepest Level. What causes us to fall in love? Although you may have a conscious idea of the traits you’re attracted to, Harville Hendrix teaches that there is an even more powerful force in the subconscious mind that defines your ideal partner: the "Imago."

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Good practical advice you can use

Very informative and inspiring advice that seems to help.

Good audio version specifically made for this format.

Helpful exercises to pause and work through in each chapter. This along with Hold Me Tight is a good choice when in pursuit of relationship help. Both have interesting perspectives and practical help.

Both partners would need to read or listen to either one for it to work; and be willing to have a go.
This book in particular though has left us both feeling like we have something to begin with, rather than just give up in our efforts to save our relationship.

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Every one should read, practice this in life.

We practiced this together and we made it. He passed away 10 years now,and I still feel His love. And love him. It is the most wonderful experience in life to have true love. And by keeping improving myself to be true to my needs and want with clear expression. Made me full with better life today like free bird...with respectful relationship with each one I am in touch with!! Thank you for the books. Because we are here to learn to love and be loved.

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Yaay another one dusted.

I loved being able to listen instead of read having lots time on the rd. loved that narrated by author. another tick off my favourite must read author list. loved the exercises at the end of each chapter.

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  • Tarot Dynamo
  • 11-24-16

Great ideas lovingly put

My favourite part was the example dialogues, you can hear real love in their voices! I can't wait to start putting these techniques into practice in a new relationship, I think it could help build a strong foundation.

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  • Bogdan Stoenescu
  • 06-02-16

This is the Bible of happy couple relationships

I listened to it in two days, after I hurt the woman of my dreams and she left me. I know how to make it work now. I hope I will get the chance.

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  • gw
  • 08-26-18

Conscious relating in action

Love this audio with Harville Hendrix.
If you are interested in being in a conscious relationship this audio has a lot to offer.
It explains the underlying dynamics, why, what is happening - is happening... and how to break the spell of the power struggle that seems to be very common in relationships.
It addresses couples and singles alike.
How to bring change to a relationship and how to prepare for a new one.

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  • Moriam. O. Baruwa
  • 08-06-17

LOVE!!!

insightful and practical. Great listen for couples and singles alike. I could stopping listening to the book as i was so engrossed and particularly interested in partnership and how it links to unfinished childhood needs.