Good Boundaries and Goodbyes

Loving Others Without Losing the Best of Who You Are

De: Lysa TerKeurst

Narrado por: Lysa TerKeurst, Jim Cress

2024 ECPA CHRISTIAN BOOK AWARD - AUDIOBOOK OF THE YEAR

READ BY THE AUTHOR

Relationships are wonderful . . . until they're not.

Stop the dysfunction of unhealthy relationships and learn biblical ways to set boundaries--and, when necessary, say goodbye.

Is it unloving or selfish to set a boundary with family members or friends? Are Christians ever called to walk away from a relationship that’s no longer safe or sustainable? #1 New York Times bestselling author Lysa TerKeurst deeply understands these hard questions in the midst of relational struggles.

After thousands of hours of counseling intensives and extensive theological research that transformed the way she defined healthy relationships, Lysa is now more committed than ever to loving people well without losing the best of who she is.

In these pages, Lysa will help you:

• Understand the five factors to remember when implementing healthy boundaries.
• Determine the appropriate amount of personal and emotional access someone has to you.
• Stop being misled and emotionally paralyzed by wrongly interpreted or weaponized Bible verses that perpetuate unhealthy relationships.
• Be equipped with effective boundary-setting tools, such as realistic scripts and practical strategies for healthier communication.
• Be empowered to say goodbye without guilt when a relationship has shifted from difficult to destructive.
• Receive therapeutic wisdom you can trust directly from Lysa’s Christian counselor Jim Cress, who weighs in throughout the book.

You'll be relieved to learn that boundaries aren't just a good idea, they're a God idea.

Look for additional biblically based resources and devotionals from Lysa:

• Forgiving What You Can't Forget
• It's Not Supposed to Be This Way
• Uninvited
• You're Going to Make It
• Embraced
• Seeing Beautiful Again

PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.

©2022 Lysa TerKeurst (P)2022 Thomas Nelson

Such a great book

Great balance between biblical text, connectivity in storytelling and helpful tools for each chapter . Very well written .

A book that needed to be written ❤️

I am so grateful for the wisdom and truth that Lysa TerKeurst had the courage to share with us through this book. It’s clear that she has a heart for loving people and honoring God in how she does that. The way she starts with the truth of scripture and gives examples of how that can be lived out, has been so helpful to me. Learning what it looks like to love people and honor God when mistreatment, manipulation or abuse is a factor is a true need right now. The tender way this fragile topic was handled shows how much she cares about this message being helpful and not harmful.

The scripture references are so helpful that I’m going to buy the book so I can have the portion at the end of each chapter, where key points are highlighted, scripture is listed and questions to reflect on are written out. I definitely don’t regret listening to the audiobook though. I love that Lysa is the one reading it. Her care for the reader, and for this message, really comes through. I appreciate her vulnerability and honesty so that we can see how God can take such pain and bring beauty out of it. Bitterness would be the only option without Him.

Phenomenal book!

There is so much I can say about this amazing book 1st of all, as I share this, I have tears coming out. It’s refreshing to finally read a true, authentic Christian, and loving approach to a very difficult part of our lives. So many of us, struggle with these things, and as Christians we often get burdened by benevolence. Thank you so much for pouring out your heart with scripture and resources to help those of us who are recovering, starting the recovering process and healing from these types of wounds. It’s a process that I think could happen for a lifetime. However, doing it with the Lord on our side is the only way to go. Thank you again!

Biblical Wisdom Helping to Heal God's People

Lysa used Scripture and her life to show how to live as healed people. She gave helpful ways to reframe Scripture that has historically been used to attack people. She read the book with warmth and sometimes through her tears of present pain. Thank you, Lysa, for this work.

Important Message

This book is so important. Lysa does a tremendous job of drawing on her own experience while teaching important messages based on her healing journey.

Phenomenal listen

Could stop listening.. got through it in 2 days. Great info on good boundaries. Will be applying this in my life!

Must read!

This book should be required reading for the entire population. Such beautiful wisdom in each word

A must read for ALL in a relationship or not!!!

As a man I found this book to be EXTREMELY enlightening. I feel that it would benefit men actually more than women in that it would enable us to gain insight into many important thought processes of women that can be very impactful in our relationships with our significant others. Lysa does a WONDERFUL job explaining the concepts spoken of throughout, and ties them together biblically with scripture. The chapter recaps and words from her therapist Jim bring it all home for a life changing read that will help to renew and reshape one's thinking and actions to pave the way for a better approach to life with all of our various relationships.

Interesting, practical, helpful!

Lysa’s own story as well as journey to wholeness through Jesus’ unconditional love is an inspiration. Scripture supports healthy boundaries and she explains why. Many Christians endorse being “a doormat for Jesus,”which is far from the truth. This book was super helpful to me even after reading other author’s books on the same subject. I’ve been sharing this title with my friends, it’s that good!

Such a valuable tool

Even on the other side of a very dysfunctional relationship, I still find myself revisiting destructive emotions and patterns. This book was a reminder that life is messy and hurtful and it takes work to overcome the hurt, grace to forgive and strength to endure. Thank you Lysa.