• 228. dr. angela duckworth on how to be gritty + set yourself up for SUCCESS!
    Aug 18 2025

    #228 today’s guest is dr. angela duckworth— the rosa lee and egbert chang professor at the university of pennsylvania and faculty co-director of the penn-wharton behavior change for good initiative. a 2013 macarthur fellow, angela has advised the world bank, nba and nfl teams, and fortune 500 ceos.

    in this episode, we break down the psychology behind what makes people successful. this episode is full of tips and hacks on increasing your grit and self-control to achieve the best outcomes in life.

    we talk about:

    • what makes certain people have more success than others

    • the psychology of self-control, motivation, + grit

    • reverse engineering the life you want through the three boxes model

    • key differences between grit + self-control

    • tips for improving your self-control + achieving your goals

    • how to find your passion in life

    • trying to succeed while avoiding perfectionism + burnout

    • sampling + why that’s so important for your future

    • having a support system in order to succeed

    • how the internet + ai have changed gen z’s work ethic

    • her rapid fire responses to popular questions

    • + so much more!

    mentioned:

    grit lab episode

    grit (book)

    about alice

    deliberate practice study

    phones in focus

    dr. duckworth’s website

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  • 227: I asked 9 experts how to heal from depression (what you NEED to know)
    Aug 7 2025

    #227. today’s episode is a mental health mashup featuring expert advice from some of my favorite she persisted guests. i’ve compiled the most insightful tips and quotes from past episodes into your ultimate guide on how to navigate depression.

    in this episode, you’ll hear from a range of psychologists, therapists, professors, and best-selling authors on why so many of us struggle with depression and how we can begin to recover.

    we talk about:

    • what actually causes depression

    • the lived experience of being depressed

    • stigma + shame surrounding depression

    • how to start healing from depression

    • ways to support a loved one who’s depressed

    • + so much more!

    listen to the full episodes:

    • how to talk about depression

    • understanding depression

    i interviewed my therapist

    • high-functioning depression

    • what to do if you’re suicidal

    • depression as a perfectionist

    • five facts about depression

    • research on depression

    • dealing with suicidal thoughts

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  • 226: summertime sadness?! answering your most asked mental health q’s
    Aug 1 2025

    #226 in this week’s solo episode, i’m answering a question on so many of your minds right now: why can summer be so hard on our mental health?!

    here, i’ll be sharing my favorite psychology insights on why our mental health can struggle in the summer before reacting to trending tiktoks, articles, and reddit posts on summer mental health. i wrap things up by explaining how you can set yourself up for success this summer (and in summers to come!).

    i’ll cover topics including:

    • a mental health mantra you need to hear

    • making your environment work for your mental health

    • my theory on why mental health can decline in the summer

    • why school is actually good for mental health (shocking, i know)

    • finding purpose + structure during summer break

    • how to stay social + make friends in summer

    • battling boredom + loneliness when you’re home for the summer

    • choosing the right summer job for you

    • the importance of actually relaxing during summer

    • life hacks for getting out of a mental health rut

    mentioned:

    grit lab recap

    parasocial relationships

    “yay summer” tiktok

    college summers tiktok

    depressed on vacation tikok

    therapist’s advice tiktok

    r/college

    r/mentalhealth

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  • mini: four mental health skills for your next family vacation
    Jul 28 2025

    welcome to the mental health minis series! every other monday, we will feature a five-minute mini-episode with content from a past she persisted episode. this week’s episode is a solo episode on navigating family vacation this summer.

    in this mini-episode, you'll learn my top four tips for maintaining your mental health (and having fun!) while away on a family vacation.

    to listen to the full episode, click ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!

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  • mini: stop comparing yourself on social media
    Jul 8 2025

    welcome to the mental health minis series! every other monday, we will feature a five-minute mini-episode with content from a past she persisted episode. this week’s guest is dr. emily weinstein– a psychologist, author, educator, parent, and longtime tech researcher who co-founded the center for digital thriving at harvard graduate school of education.

    in this mini-episode, you'll learn the psychology behind some of the most dangerous aspects of social media, such as cognitive distortions, comparisons, and more!

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  • 225. your worst traits are changeable… here’s how (feat. olga khazan)
    Jul 7 2025

    #225 today’s guest is olga khazan— a journalist and author known for her work on health, science, and social science topics. she is currently a staff writer at the atlantic and has previously written for the new york times, the los angeles times, the washington post, forbes, and other publications.

    in this episode, we break down the five traits that make up your personality and exactly how you can change your personality for the better.

    we talk about:

    • what *actually* shapes your personality type

    • the five traits that make up your personality

    • popular personality tests + if they’re accurate

    • how your personality traits affect your daily life

    • if your personality traits are changeable or fixed

    • the most common traits people want to change

    life hacks for changing your personality traits

    • benefits of changing certain personality traits

    • dealing with fears over self-growth + change

    • changing your personality to fit in

    • myths around personality psychology

    • advice for gen z on shaping your personality

    mentioned:

    olga’s website

    olga’s writing at the atlantic

    olga’s substack

    me, but better

    weird

    angela duckworth ep.

    study on ai use

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  • 224: stop ‘shoulding’ + shaming yourself
    Jun 26 2025

    #224 in this week’s solo episode, i open up about the mental health struggle i’ve recently been having and how i’ve developed a ‘should’ mentality around it. i explain how when we constantly tell ourselves we ‘should’ be a certain way with our mental health, we’re actually creating shame and stopping ourselves from living our best lives.

    in this episode, i break down how we can all stop ‘shoulding’ and shaming ourselves and instead create actionable changes in our lives.

    i talk about:

    • how i caught myself using a ‘should’ mentality

    self-shame + how it gets in the way of our goals

    • the psychology behind why we experience shame

    DBT skills to use when we’re feeling shame

    • taking accountability when we’re acting out of shame

    • guilt vs. shame + why that difference matters

    • forgiving ourselves for what’s causing us shame

    • moving forward from ‘shoulding’ + shame

    mentioned:

    • DBT handout on shame

    • DBT skills for shame

    • name it to tame it (message me!)

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  • mini: how to find a therapist + start therapy
    Jun 23 2025

    welcome to the new mental health minis series! every other monday, we will feature a five-minute mini-episode with content from a past she persisted episode. this week’s guest is dr. justin puder– a licensed psychologist who works with teens and young adults around many mental health difficulties including anxiety, depression, trauma, and loneliness.

    in this mini-episode, you'll learn his tips for teens on starting therapy and how parents can help in this process.

    to listen to the full episode, click ⁠⁠HERE⁠⁠!

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