Author and modern masculinity advocate Kelvin Davis joins us to explore the difference between being a “nice guy” and being a good man. Drawing from his upcoming book, Kelvin shares seven transformative principles—from setting boundaries to self-respect—that challenge performative niceness and promote authentic integrity. We dive into how social media often rewards superficial validation over sincere action, and why honest communication matters more than ever. Kelvin reflects on his inspiring journey—from a childhood dream sparked by a JCPenney ad to founding Notoriously Dapper, overcoming body-shaming, and building a modeling career rooted in body positivity and self-worth. He opens up about personal growth through therapy, quitting alcohol, and reevaluating relationships during the pandemic. This candid conversation highlights the power of self-reflection, discipline, and internal validation. Whether you're navigating modern relationships or redefining your role as a man, this episode offers grounded insight into becoming the kind of man who leads with honesty, respect, and purpose.

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(0:00:01) - Masculinity and Being a Good Man
(0:11:20) - Journey to Being a Good Man
(0:21:06) - Navigating Boundaries and Personal Growth
(0:30:22) - Internal Validation and Gratitude Practice
(0:43:43) - Honesty, Trust, and Growth
(0:47:30) - Navigating Vulnerability and Personal Growth
(0:59:53) - Navigating Overwhelm and Internal Dialogue
(1:04:10) - Navigating Respect and Self-Assertion

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This episode tackles the spectacle of performative masculinity and the rise of man-fluencers like Liver King, Wes Watson, and Jack Donovan. We expose the marketing behind ancestral tenets, supplement empires, and controversial ideologies. From Liver King’s arrest to Jack Donovan’s far-right leanings, we question what’s real versus contrived. We highlight the contrast between performative posturing and authentic growth, featuring a post from Kelvin Davis as a grounded example. We also critique how workouts like Murph get hijacked by social media. Wrapping with a wild gorilla-versus-humans debate, this episode blends serious critique with humor to explore what masculinity really means today.

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(0:00:01) - The Rise of Performative Masculinity
(0:12:46) - Influencers and Masculinity Ideologies
(0:17:57) - Exploring the Meaning of Brotherhood
(0:30:32) - The Misuse of the Murph Workout
(0:39:50) - Debunking Social Media Misinformation
(0:48:22) - Gorilla vs. 100 Men Debate

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In this episode, Aaron and I explore how AI is reshaping motivational content, from remixed clips of figures like Huberman and Dispenza to imagined mashups of Steve Jobs and Tony Robbins. We dive into the evolution of motivational media, questioning whether AI-enhanced messages empower or dilute the core message. Using stories like the Outdoor Boys’ content remixing, we examine what this means for creators and consumers. The takeaway: motivation has gone digital, but action still matters most. Whether crafted by humans or algorithms, the real growth comes when we turn inspiration into effort and move beyond passive consumption into real-world application.

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(0:00:01) - Lessons and Implementation via AI
(0:03:56) - Navigating Information in the Digital Age
(0:17:51) - AI Recreates Inspirational Commencement Speech
(0:31:47) - Building Habits and Motivation
(0:35:35) - Exploring AI and Digital Influence
(0:41:01) - Navigating Reality in Digital Era
(0:49:14) - Implementing Lessons From Books and AI

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Travis Robinson shares his powerful journey of resilience after a Parkinson’s diagnosis that was first misread as tennis elbow. From losing his home and gear in a devastating fire to reinventing himself through art and storytelling, Travis embodies grit and grace. His humor, creativity, and determination are a reminder that even in the darkest moments, we can find meaning.

I was and am truly humbled to speak with him and get to know him a little. He speaks slowly, so make sure you take the time to listen to his words, each one is thoughtful and powerful in their message. Tune in to hear how he keeps moving forward and why every day is worth showing up for.

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(0:00:00) - Resilience Amid Parkinson's and Tragedy
(0:23:03) - Defying Parkinson's With Resilience
(0:36:20) - Living With Parkinson's

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Let's unpack the power of intentional pause—how stepping back from distractions, toxic relationships, and the nonstop grind can spark surprising clarity and personal growth. Inspired by Mark Manson and grounded in real-life stories, we explore setting boundaries, embracing silence, and knowing when to walk away, or dig in. From parenting lessons to internet drama, we tackle the mental toll of energy drains and the value of strategic thinking in both relationships and work. Humor meets hard truths as we confront chaos, cut through the noise, and find strength in choosing peace over performance.

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(0:00:01) - Impact of Neglected Actions
(0:13:28) - Navigating Toxic Interactions
(0:24:47) - Navigating Relationships and Opportunities
(0:33:34) - Navigating Online Reactions and Reviews
(0:40:09) - Navigating Ethical Dilemmas in Business

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In this episode, we dive into the story of Zach Smith, co-founder of Anywhere.com, a travel company built on connection, resilience, and intention. Zach shares how a chance encounter in Costa Rica led to a business that now crafts immersive, locally guided journeys in developing countries. We explore how Anywhere.com fosters global understanding, the grit it took to overcome legal threats, and the strategy behind its growth. Zach also opens up about staying grounded through physical fitness and real-world engagement. His perspective challenges us to lead with presence, embrace cultural curiosity, and build something meaningful through persistence and purpose.

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(0:00:00) - Revolutionizing Travel Experiences Through Authenticity
(0:09:03) - Building Resilience in Business Challenges
(0:18:29) - Navigating Business Challenges and Growth
(0:23:40) - Navigating Business Challenges With Resilience
(0:35:26) - Embracing Real-Life Experiences and Resilience
(0:44:34) - Embracing Connection and Individualization

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In this Debrief episode, we kick off with the bizarre trend of men shaving their eyelashes, a quirky gateway into a deeper discussion about how AI might be dulling our problem-solving and empathetic abilities. From there, we confront social media’s culture of complaint, emphasizing the value of personal accountability and small, consistent action. Shifting to leadership, we question the obsession with KPIs, advocating instead for empathy-driven innovation. Finally, inspired by figures like Anthony Mackie, we explore modern masculinity, physical readiness, and the power of using digital platforms for growth. Tune in for sharp insights on staying human in a hyper-digital world.

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(0:00:00) - Learning From Internet Trends and AI
(0:11:33) - Challenging Leadership Norms and Embracing Humanity
(0:25:46) - Exploring Leadership and Self-Improvement
(0:37:04) - Defining Traditional Masculinity and Respect
(0:42:12) - Leveraging Social Media for Personal Growth

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We're talking with Bill Phillips; retired Navy Commander, cancer survivor, and founder of the KFG Project. After a stage three colorectal cancer diagnosis, Bill leaned on the mental tools forged in military service to navigate the fight of his life. We explore how his mantra “Keep F\*ing Going” became a lifeline and mission, now driving KFG’s work supporting veterans and first responders through cancer recovery. Bill shares raw insights on purpose after service, resilience through chaos, and the power of presence. This is a powerful conversation about grit, healing, and building a legacy through hardship.

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(0:00:02) - From Navy Commander to Cancer Survivor
(0:06:02) - Navigating Life After Military Service
(0:14:07) - Resilience and Coaching Through Adversity
(0:23:13) - Mindfulness and Resilience in Adversity
(0:34:38) - Empowering Cancer Survivors Through Support
(0:38:54) - Supporting Cancer Patients Through Outreach

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