In this guided meditation, Kevin leads the Woo-Woo Crew through a mindful exercise on noticing hurts against the self, creating an opportunity for you to let go of self-shame, self-pain, and personal wounds you are holding onto that you no longer need.

If you need to forgive yourself for anything, this meditation is for you.

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We might think of pleasure as an “extra.”

For many of us who are working on healing sexual shame, our shame-based backgrounds (i.e. religious households, conservative upbringings, judgmental communities, etc.) likely taught us that pleasure wasn’t necessary.

Thus, when we start to give ourselves permission to experience pleasure, we can feel guilt, often like we are doing something wrong, doing something that’s going against our inner beliefs and our childhood hard-wiring.

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Check out this quick video for a reframe on why pleasure is not only powerful but why it is a necessary part of healing — and connection to ourselves and others.

Comment below how you are going to be practicing and prioritizing pleasure today — I’d love to hear your thoughts!

Sending you much love,Kevin

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In this session, Kevin leads the Woo-Woo Crew a guided meditation centering on the celebration of pleasure.

Here, Kevin encourages you to explore positive memories through visualization to evoke a current state of joy and to amplify hopefulness for future excitements.

🔥 SEXUAL CONFIDENCE ISN’T A NICE-TO-HAVE — IT’S YOUR BIRTHRIGHT. 🔥

Let’s tear this wide open, because too many of you are still waiting for permission:To feel hot.To feel wanted.To feel powerful in your sex life.

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Sexual confidence isn’t about being perfect in bed or performing for someone else.It’s about being at home in your skin.It’s about owning your body, your desires, your YES and your NO.It’s about walking through the world knowing you are worthy of pleasure, connection, and joy.

💥 WHAT SEXUAL CONFIDENCE REALLY MEANS

✅ You’re unapologetic about your desires.✅ You trust your body, even on the days you feel awkward or insecure.✅ You know how to communicate what you want — and you know you’re allowed to want it.✅ You’re resilient when shame tries to sneak back in.✅ You see sex as a playground, not a test.

🔥 5 POWER MOVES TO BUILD SEXUAL CONFIDENCE

1️⃣ Stand in the Mirror, Naked.Look at yourself and say:

“I am a sexual being. I am allowed to take up space.”

2️⃣ Get Curious with Touch.Explore your body — slowly, intentionally.What feels good? What surprises you? What turns you on?

3️⃣ Communicate ONE Bold Desire.With yourself or a partner, speak one truth you’ve been holding back.Want to try something new? Say it. Want to set a boundary? Claim it.

4️⃣ Put On Something That Makes You Feel Fucking Sexy.Wear it just for you. Own it.

5️⃣ Celebrate Every Small Win.Every time you challenge shame, every time you honor a boundary, every time you prioritize pleasure — that’s a fucking victory. Write it down. Remember it.

💭 YOUR SEXUAL GOALS ARE YOUR NORTH STAR

Let’s go even deeper.

* What fantasies light you up?

* What experiences have you always wanted to explore?

* What kind of lover, what kind of sexual being, do you dream of being?

Double penetration? Hosting an orgy? Sending a dick pic without shame? Having your first threesome? Feeling intimacy without guilt?

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Write it ALL down. No censors. No judgment.

These aren’t just goals — they’re the guardrails that point you toward the life you want.You may or may not check them all off. That’s not the point.The point is to know what excites you, what calls you forward, and to let that energy fuel your growth.

🥂 CELEBRATE WHERE YOU ARE, RIGHT NOW

You’re not behind.You’re not broken.You’re not “too late.”

You are exactly where you need to be.

Every step you take — every conversation, every moment of courage, every breath of self-acceptance — is part of your sexual confidence journey.

So:👏 Celebrate your wins.👏 Love your imperfections.👏 Keep moving forward.

You don’t have to earn sexual confidence.It’s already yours.

🔥 Let’s burn the old stories down and build something shameless and powerful in their place.

Come join my SHAMELESS course to go even deeper into your full embodied sexual empowerment.

— Kevin

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Recorded live on Monday, May 26, 2025.

In this session, Kevin leads a guided meditation focusing on visualizing a calm, supportive, peaceful environment for personal stress relief.

Follow along to envision your soothing space to bring gentleness into your current experience.

Your pleasure isn’t a reward. It’s a practice.

A sexual self-care evening is about reconnecting with your body, honoring your desires, and choosing yourself — without pressure, performance, or shame.

Here’s how to create one:

1. Set the Mood.

Light a candle. Dim the lights. Play music that helps you drop in. Let your space feel sexy and safe.

2. Start with Sensuality.

Take a warm shower. Moisturize with intention. Slow down and touch your skin with presence. Let your body know: I’m here with you.

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3. Explore Pleasure.

Mindful masturbation is about connection, not climax. Breathe. Touch. Notice what lights you up. Let yourself be curious.

4. Celebrate Your Body.

Look in the mirror. Speak kindly to yourself. You don’t have to love every inch — but you can start by honoring what’s already powerful.

5. Follow Your Rhythm.

Read something erotic. Watch a video. Let yourself fantasize, play, or just rest. There are no rules here — just what feels right.

6. Close with Gratitude.

Place your hands on your body and thank it. Reflect on what felt good. What surprised you. What you want more of.

This is the work.

It’s not just about getting off — it’s about reclaiming your relationship with your body, desire, and worth.

Want to go deeper?

You can watch how I practice this on OnlyFans and JustForFans. I don’t just talk about sexual self-care — I embody it. Real connection, real pleasure, real empowerment.

Ready to fully reclaim your sexuality?

Join my Celebrating Sexuality course — a transformational journey into sexual confidence, healing, and joy. You’ll unpack shame, explore desire, and rewrite your sexual story on your own terms.

You are worth slowing down for. You are worth being turned on by your own power.

— Kevin

Recorded live on May 19, 2025.

In this session, Kevin leads a guided meditation to deepen focus, attention, and concentration. Here, he teaches a self-reflection tool to help you reorient anxious and unwanted thinking when such thoughts aren't being helpful.