Ever notice how chasing your goals can feel just as scary as failing? In this episode, we get real about fear of success, fear of failure, and why we sometimes trip ourselves up right before the breakthrough. We talk procrastination, self-sabotage, ghosting ourselves on creative projects, and the grief that comes with outgrowing people when you level up.

We also get into Saturn in Pisces lessons, the “upper limit problem” from The Big Leap, why women are taught to fear visibility, and how social media often confuses validation with real success.

Expect plenty of laughs, some raw stories, and practical tools for moving through resistance, like grounding practices, intuition, and even embracing crying as a growth tool. If you’ve ever wondered why your big dreams make you panic, this conversation will help you understand the patterns, trust yourself, and actually enjoy the process of personal growth.

Perfect for anyone into astrology, spirituality, healing, or breaking free from self-limiting beliefs.

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Ever wonder why you panic when someone doesn’t text back, or why getting left out of a group chat feels like the end of the world? In this episode, Elli and Ursula crack open childhood abandonment stories (yep, the messy ones), from being left in cars and hospital rooms at age five to middle school mean-girl drama that still echoes in adulthood.

They unpack how early attachment wounds show up later as social anxiety, self-sabotage, and rejection sensitivity, and they don’t just stop there. Astrology, tarot, and chakra healing sneak their way into the convo too, because who doesn’t want the Five of Pentacles and Pluto weighing in on their dating life?

If you’ve ever wrestled with self-criticism, fear of rejection, or that heavy “I’m not enough” vibe, this episode will leave you feeling seen, soothed, and maybe even laughing at the absurdity of it all.

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Ever feel like you want to connect but end up holding back, or oversharing and regretting it later? In this episode, Ursula and Elli open up about their own struggles with intimacy, vulnerability hangovers, and the fear of being judged or rejected.

They share real stories about what it feels like to let people in, the red and green flags to watch for in relationships, and why building safety with yourself makes it easier to build closeness with others. Along the way, they offer simple practices like to help you feel more grounded and real in your connections.

If you’ve ever been scared of showing your true self or worried you’re “too much,” this conversation will remind you you’re not alone, and give you ideas for moving through the fear.

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