This episode is about why the hottest connections are usually the most broken ones.

In LA, attraction is everywhere—perfect bodies, curated lifestyles, endless options. But underneath the yoga pants, cold plunges, and rooftop cocktails is something way less glamorous: love addiction and unhealed childhood trauma.

In this episode of The Three Mantras Podcast, I break down:
• Why sexual chemistry is often trauma responding to trauma
• How emotionally unavailable people find each other effortlessly
• Why intensity feels like intimacy—but never lasts
• The cycle of attraction, sex, distance, and collapse
• Why LA dating rewards desire, not depth

These relationships look incredible on Instagram.
They feel electric in bed.
And they implode the moment real emotional safety is required.

If you keep attracting unavailable partners…
If passion keeps replacing peace…
If the connection is hot but unstable…

This episode explains why—and how to stop mistaking chaos for love.

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In this episode of The Three Mantras Podcast, we dive into an honest conversation about the overlap between mental health and addiction, and how easily one can be mistaken for the other. So many of us have used “mental health” as a shield because it feels more acceptable, more sympathetic, and less confronting than acknowledging patterns of addiction. But when we blur the lines, we delay the real help and healing we need.

This discussion explores self-awareness, accountability, and the courage it takes to stop hiding behind a label that protects us from the truth. It’s about understanding our own motivations, recognizing when we are avoiding something deeper, and learning to face what we fear with integrity and compassion. If you’ve ever struggled to tell the difference between when you’re taking care of yourself and when you’re avoiding yourself, this episode is for you.

#MentalHealthRealTalk #AddictionRecovery #SobrietyLife #InnerChildHealing #MentalHealthAwareness #SpiritualGrowth #SelfHelpPodcast #TraumaHealing

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This week on The Three Mantras Podcast, I talk about something we’ve almost forgotten how to do in today’s world: loving confrontation.

Not shaming.

Not canceling.

Not silence.

But the kind of honest, compassionate truth-telling that actually helps people get better.

In an age where addiction, overdose, and quiet suffering are everywhere, avoiding hard conversations doesn’t protect anyone — it isolates them. Growth doesn’t happen without reflection, and reflection often requires someone who cares enough to speak up.

As I head to Boston during Christmas week, this episode feels especially timely. The holidays bring love, memory, grief, and truth to the surface. This is a reminder that accountability and compassion can — and must — coexist.

If we really love people, we don’t abandon them to comfort.

We stay present.

We tell the truth.

And we do it with love.

#RecoveryTalk

#AddictionAwareness

#HealingJourney

#PersonalGrowth

#EmotionalSobriety

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You Don’t Attract What You Want — You Attract What You Haven’t Healed

This week on The Three Mantras Podcast, I’m coming to you after returning from Dubai, reflecting on abundance, healing, and what it really means to manifest from a grounded place. We go deep into inner child healing—how unresolved wounds quietly shape our relationships, money patterns, and sense of self-worth, and how reconnecting with that part of us is essential to real manifestation.

I also unpack thoughts sparked by the P. Diddy documentary, exploring power, trauma, denial, and what happens when inner work is avoided. This episode is about breaking cycles, reclaiming joy, and understanding that true abundance doesn’t come from ego or external validation—it comes from healing the inner child and aligning with who you really are. If you’re ready to manifest with clarity instead of chaos, this conversation is for you.

#PDiddyDocumentary

#HealingTrauma

#LawOfAttraction

#Manifestation

#Abundance

#TheThreeMantras

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This week on The Three Mantras Podcast, I reveal how I casually told F1 superstar Carlos Sainz in Doha that his race would go better than he could imagine — and then the man actually delivered. Did I manifest it? Did I bless him? Am I the spiritual pit crew he never knew he needed? Possibly.

I also break down why the holiday season is not the time to confront your ex, your boss, or your inner demons. December is for sitting still, letting things marinate, and ignoring texts like a professional. If it feels urgent, it’s probably nonsense. January can handle it.

#CarlosSainz #Manifestation #F1

#Manifesting

#LawOfAttraction

#AbundanceMindset

#SpiritualComedy

#ComedyPodcast

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Fresh off a quick stop in Los Angeles and getting ready to fly into the Middle East for the F1 races. Paul drops one of the sexiest spiritual resets you can use in your life right now.

This week on The Three Mantras podcast, we dive into one of the most liberating tools in spiritual psychology: forgiveness by erasing the moment — the mantra “It never happened.”

Most people think forgiveness means forcing yourself to be the bigger person. But this episode goes deeper.

What if the thing that annoyed you, triggered you, or pissed you off… never existed in the first place?

Because you’ve already chosen the version of reality where nothing happened. No story. No resentment. No emotional drag.

I also talk about what it’s like being back in L.A. briefly before heading out to the Middle East — and how this mantra keeps life light, clean, and uncluttered no matter what city, timezone, or chaos you’re in.

#F1 #Doha #ThreeMantras #Forgiveness #Spirituality #ACourseInMiracles #LetItGo #PersonalGrowth #MindsetShift #EmotionalFreedom #PodcastLife #LosAngelesLife

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In this week’s episode of The Three Mantras, I share a surprising little moment from my trip to New Zealand — a group of guys calling out to a girl in a way that should’ve annoyed me… but didn’t. Instead, I saw something innocent in it. No reaction, no judgment, just awareness. It reminded me of what A Course in Miracles teaches and what I wrote about in The Three Mantras: when we pause, stay calm, and let the moment be what it is, the world softens. A situation that could’ve sparked anger instead revealed peace. This episode is all about that shift — seeing innocence where the ego expects offense.

#TheThreeMantras #ACourseInMiracles #SpiritualPodcast #MindsetShift #ChoosePeace #NonReaction #ConsciousLiving #SelfHelpPodcast #Mindfulness #InnerPeace #NewZealandTravel #PerspectiveShift #EmotionalIntelligence #LetGoAndGrow #SpiritualGrowth

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You deserve joy. You deserve peace.

And you can create abundance even in the middle of your challenges ...

In this episode, I break down how to find peace during hardship, how to get real advice that actually helps, and how to reconnect with your purpose when life feels painful, overwhelming, or uncertain. If you’re going through a breakup, anxiety, stress, or a major life transition, this episode will give you practical tools to shift your mindset and start feeling grounded again.

You’ll learn:

• How to stay centedance are always available — even in difficult times

• How to manifest what you truly want when life feels heavy

• The mindset shift that turns struggle into strength

• Why helping others instantly brings clarity, purpose, and peace

This episode blends mindset, spirituality, A Course in Miracles principles, and real-life experience to help you find stability, joy, and meaning in the middle of chaos. If you’re looking for guidance, inner peace, emotional healing, or a way to manifest your dreams, this is the message you need today.

#TheThreeMantras #Manifesting #EmotionalWellbeing #SpiritualGrowth #SelfHelpPodcast #AcourseInMiracles #HealingJourney #AbundanceMindset #JoyAndPeace #MindsetShift

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