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Dive into the profound world of fisting – a practice that goes far beyond what many consider "extreme" or "fringe." This episode challenges us to rethink our assumptions about intimacy, pleasure, and connection through the lens of a practice that demands extraordinary trust and communication.

Drawing from Chris Barcelos' groundbreaking 2023 academic paper, we explore how fisting represents not just a sexual act but an entire epistemology – a way of knowing and being with others that defies conventional sexual scripts. When we look deeper, fisting emerges as a radical form of pedagogy, where knowledge passes through communities rather than institutions, centered on consent, care, and pleasure.

What makes this practice particularly revolutionary is how it inverts traditional sexual values. Unlike the fast, goal-oriented approach often celebrated in mainstream sexual culture, fisting demands slowness, patience, and constant checking in. It asks participants to be fully present, to prioritize connection over performance, and to embrace vulnerability as a pathway to pleasure. Even during the AIDS crisis when it was heavily stigmatized, fisting persisted as both a source of joy and a symbol of resistance within queer communities.

Whether you're curious about expanding your sexual horizons or simply interested in new frameworks for thinking about intimacy, this episode offers valuable insights. The principles at the heart of fisting – radical communication, mutual care, and challenging normative boundaries – apply far beyond any specific sex act. They remind us that sometimes our most profound connections come when we slow down, get curious, and allow ourselves to go deep.

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Imagine walking into a sex store and finding not just toys, but a whole education on pleasure waiting for you. That's the world Nikki Kelly invites us into in this eye-opening conversation about what really happens behind the counter at adult stores.

Nikki isn't your typical sex educator—she's a spreadsheet-wielding analyst who approaches pleasure with both passion and precision. Her detailed breakdowns of product categories, from bullet vibrators to air pulse technology, transform how we understand these tools. We learn why some toys work better than others, how marketing language often misleads consumers, and what questions actually matter when selecting products for yourself or a partner.

The conversation shatters common myths about sex shops and their clientele. Contrary to what many assume, women make up the majority of customers in many stores, often shopping in groups and turning the experience into a normalized social activity. Meanwhile, we explore why men frequently shop online instead, highlighting how shame and discomfort still shape our relationship with pleasure.

Perhaps most enlightening is the discussion about size preferences and what women actually purchase. Research and sales data tell a story vastly different from what pop culture suggests, offering a reality check that could transform how partners communicate about pleasure. Throughout, Nikki emphasizes that sex toys aren't competitors to human connection but collaborative tools that enhance intimacy when approached without ego or insecurity.

Whether you're curious about the latest innovations in pleasure technology, wondering what questions to ask before making a purchase, or simply want to understand your own or your partner's body better, this conversation offers frank, funny, and deeply informative insights that will change how you think about pleasure forever.

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https://open.spotify.com/show/7q5Tqe5CkhW84nHJsZg6nD?si=jCsiONjtRgmaT_O0GTEOsA

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The journey of reconnecting intimately after welcoming a child is a struggle so many couples face in silence. When desire fades and bodies feel unfamiliar, both partners can find themselves adrift in frustration and confusion, unsure how to rebuild what once came naturally.

Through one listener's painfully honest question, we explore the science behind postpartum desire and why intimacy often takes a backseat after baby. The reality? Your diminished sex life isn't personal rejection—it's biology at work. With 83% of new mothers reporting little to no desire months after birth, these changes represent a normal phase rather than a permanent relationship shift.

I break down the mechanics of desire using the car metaphor: there's an accelerator (turn-ons) and brakes (turn-offs). After childbirth, a woman's brakes are firmly engaged by physical discomfort, hormone fluctuations, and extreme fatigue. No amount of pressing the gas pedal will move forward if those brakes remain locked. The path back to connection starts with gently easing those brakes—creating safety, reducing pressure, and rebuilding non-sexual intimacy first.

We explore responsive desire (feeling aroused only after positive stimulation begins), the importance of lubrication, and practical ways to rebuild connection outside the bedroom. For partners with higher desire, I offer compassionate strategies to manage frustration while supporting recovery. From hormonal realities that temporarily suppress libido to communication approaches that foster emotional safety, this episode provides a roadmap for navigating one of parenthood's most challenging transitions.

Whether you're in the thick of postpartum disconnection or supporting someone who is, tune in to understand how intimacy can indeed return—with patience, care, and a willingness to discover new forms of connection along the way. Subscribe, share your experiences, and remember that this challenging phase will eventually shift with the right understanding and support.

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Curious about going big? This candid exploration of extreme size play delivers everything you need to know about venturing beyond typical bedroom toys. Whether you're intrigued by supersized dildos, fisting, or just something a bit more substantial than average, we break down the facts without judgment or unnecessary alarm.

Let's address what everyone worries about first: yes, there are legitimate risks to consider. The delicate tissues of both vagina and anus can experience microtears, muscle strain, or even infection when play becomes too intense or hygiene practices lapse. We candidly discuss the real concerns while separating fact from fear-mongering. That common worry about prolapse? We tackle that head-on with medical reality rather than urban myths.

The heart of this episode focuses on practical safety strategies that dramatically reduce these risks. From the non-negotiable importance of quality lubrication to the gradual progression that respects your body's limits, we outline a comprehensive approach to safer size play. Learn why body-safe materials matter, how proper gloves protect both partners, and why aftercare deserves as much attention as the act itself. We compare vaginal and anal considerations, highlighting their different anatomical realities and safety needs.

Beyond the physical aspects, we emphasize that consensual kink exploration is a valid expression of sexuality deserving of respect, not shame. Our approach combines pleasure-positive encouragement with responsible guidance, including suggestions for finding kink-aware healthcare providers who can offer judgment-free support. Ready to explore your desires with confidence? This episode equips you with the knowledge to chase those big thrills safely, smartly, and on your own terms. Remember – it's not about pushing limits, but expanding pleasure with awareness and care.

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Hey lovers—big news from the Supersex universe. Our beloved co-host Sherman is stepping away from the mic indefinitely (we love you, Sherm 💔). But don’t panic—we’re not slowing down. We’re doubling the fun.

In this special update, Jordan introduces two new voices joining the Supersex crew: psychologist and sexologist Kate Campbell, and female health nurse and sexologist Tarsh Wilson. Kate brings sharp insight and heart-opening perspectives. Tarsh brings fearless realness (and vulva shoes). Together, they’ll help take Supersex to new, wild, wonderful places.

Same sexy spirit. New energy. Let’s go.

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Step behind the velvet curtain of Perth's exclusive sensuous world with Dream Kitty, the female powerhouse revolutionising the city's swingers party scene. In what might be the most eye-opening conversation we've had on Super Sex, Dream Kitty shatters stereotypes about lifestyle parties while revealing how her coaching background creates uniquely safe spaces for sexual exploration.

"Most people going to these parties for the first time have never been seen naked by more than one person," she explains, detailing how she personally guides nervous newcomers through their fears. Unlike the seedy male-dominated spaces you might imagine, her female-led events prioritize consent, comfort and connection—a formula that's earned her more validation in three years than hosts with a decade in the game.

Dream Kitty takes us through the fascinating psychology of attendees, from single men battling performance anxiety to women discovering bisexual desires they've kept hidden for years. We explore why Perth has become Australia's unexpected epicenter for the lifestyle scene, and how these events often strengthen rather than weaken relationships through enhanced communication and boundary-setting.

With international luxury lifestyle vacations in Bali and Thailand that sell out in minutes, themed parties with bus transportation to secret locations, and women-only events that create judgment-free zones for exploration, Dream Kitty is crafting experiences that transcend typical notions of "swingers parties." Whether you're lifestyle-curious or simply fascinated by human sexuality, this conversation offers rare insight into a world where adults rediscover the freedom of play—sexual and otherwise.

Curious about dipping your toes into the lifestyle? Follow Dream Kitty on Instagram or Red Hot Pie to learn about upcoming events, including her Halloween Soiree in October and Summer Sins in December. Just be sure to book early—these parties sell out faster than concert tickets!

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Ever had a fantasy that feels both thrilling and terrifying to share? The desire to watch your partner with someone else is far more common than you might think. This deeply honest exploration of cuckolding, hot-wifing, and consensual non-monogamy breaks down the psychology behind why so many of us (58% of men and 33% of women, according to research) harbor these desires.

We unpack the science behind the arousal—from the joy of witnessing your partner's pleasure (erotic compersion) to the dopamine rush of breaking cultural taboos. But beyond understanding why these fantasies emerge, we deliver practical guidance on how to communicate them without jeopardizing your relationship. Through carefully crafted conversation scripts and step-by-step approaches, we navigate the delicate territory between fantasy and reality.

The journey doesn't have to be all-or-nothing. We explore low-risk ways to dip your toes in these waters through erotic storytelling, roleplay, and fantasy exploration before considering involving actual third parties. Most importantly, we emphasize that successful exploration requires ongoing communication, clear boundaries, and regular emotional check-ins. Whether you're just curious about these desires or actively considering exploring them with your partner, this episode offers judgment-free guidance for keeping your relationship secure while expanding your intimate horizons.

Feeling curious, confused, or somewhere in between about your own fantasies? Join our community on Instagram and YouTube by searching Supersex Podcast or Jordan Walker Sexology for more candid conversations about pleasure, desire, and the beautiful complexities of human sexuality.

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