Supersex Reheated: Backdoor Basics

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Big news first: we’ve been nominated for the Adult Industry Choice Awards and we’d love your vote. Then we roll up our sleeves and take on a fan favourite topic with clear eyes and zero shame: how to make anal sex safer, more comfortable, and actually pleasurable for both partners. Not the porn version—the real, practical, human version that respects consent and celebrates connection.

We start by unpacking why people are curious in the first place: new sensations, variety, and a level of intimacy that feels special rather than routine. From there, we get specific about preparation. You’ll hear how diet and fibre shape confidence and spontaneity, the right way to douche (and why less is often more), and the small choices—like skipping heavy booze and high-fat meals—that keep your gut calm. We share lube strategies that work in real bedrooms: when to choose water-based vs silicone, why spit isn’t a lubricant, the condom compatibility trap, and the simple trick to rehydrate water-based lubes on the fly.

Safety and pleasure come together when we talk toys and technique. We explain why anal toys must have a base, what “body-safe” actually means, and how to avoid porous materials that harbour bacteria. We cover starting sizes, building tolerance, and pacing that lets the body relax rather than brace. Most importantly, we model the kind of communication that turns anxiety into trust—quick check-ins, playful redirection, and pairing anal with the touch that already gets you off. Expect humour, straight talk, and honest admissions that take the pressure off and bring you closer.

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