Every Woman Should Be Able To Do A Pull Up. I made that statement knowing it was going to be controversial but I was genuinely surprised by how much pushback it got. So I wanted to break down what I actually meant, because the pull-up was never really the point.

In this episode, I'm talking about why so many of us have been conditioned to write ourselves off from hard things before we ever truly try. Whether it was a gym class, a throwaway comment, or someone else's limiting belief passed down as fact — we carry these ceilings around with us and never think to test them.

I'm also making the case that building toward a pull-up pays off way beyond the gym. The work addresses posture, scapular control, grip strength, neck and shoulder aches — things that matter more and more as we get older. It's use it or lose it, and I'd rather we use it.

And if a pull-up is something you've always had that little itch to try, I walk you through exactly how to build up to it — the mobility work, the activation exercises, the vertical pulling progressions — starting right where you are.
This episode isn't about shaming anyone. It's about stopping the habit of letting doubt make our decisions for us.

You think you're being smart by eating less during the week to "save room" for the weekend. But this strategy — called calorie banking — may actually be training your body to store more fat over time.

In this video, Cori breaks down the concept of collateral fattening: why extreme weekday deficits cause muscle loss, slow your metabolism, and amplify hunger cues — so that by the time the weekend hits, you're eating in a much bigger surplus than you realize. And why this cycle gets worse with every dieting attempt.

You'll learn:

• Why the math of calorie banking doesn't actually work out
• How undereating changes your hunger hormones and cravings
• What collateral fattening is and why it explains the "getting softer" effect
• How to build in weekend flexibility without sabotaging your results
• Why consistency beats restriction for long-term body recomp

If you've ever felt like you're eating less but still gaining fat — this is why.

What if strength isn't about pushing harder — but about how much you can hold? In this episode, I'm joined by mindset coach Charlotte Grimmel, and honestly, this conversation stopped me in my tracks more than once.

We dig into what it really means to be strong — not in the grind-through-it, grit-your-teeth kind of way, but in the intentional, self-aware, capacity-building kind of way. Charlotte breaks down why saying no is one of the most powerful things you can do, why chasing outcomes is keeping you stuck, and how treating your goals like experiments might be the mindset shift you didn't know you needed.

We also talk about the muscle of discomfort — why avoiding hard things is quietly teaching you that you can't handle them, how to find a compelling enough reason to keep going when it sucks, and why your values will always take you further than your goals ever will.

If you've ever felt like you're doing all the things but still spinning your wheels, or you're waiting to feel ready before you take the next step — this one's for you.

In this episode we cover:

-Why strength is about capacity, not output

-How to stop living on autopilot and get clear on what actually matters

-The experiment framework for goal setting

-Values vs. goals — and why the shift changes everything

-Building self-trust one uncomfortable step at a time

Connect with Charlotte: Instagram @themindtrend | Substack

There Are No Bad Exercises!

I'm coming in hot today because I am tired of hearing that exercises are bad. Lunges hurt your knees? Deadlifts wreck your back? No. Moves are not bad you just haven't earned them yet, and I'm going to tell you exactly what I mean by that.

In this episode I'm breaking down why demonizing exercises is actually what's holding you back, the difference between movement patterns and recruitment patterns (yes, you can have perfect-looking form and still be cheating), and why follow-along workouts might be part of the problem.

The goal is never to write a move off forever. It's to regress to progress to meet yourself where you are right now and build back toward what you want. Because the less you train a movement in the gym, the more at risk you are getting injured doing it in everyday life.

No move is bad. Every move is earned. Let's get into it.

Most of us are told the answer is inside us. Trust your gut. Believe in yourself. Look inward. But what if that's only getting you halfway there? NYU professor, bestselling author, and host of the Becoming You podcast Suzy Welch reveals why real self-awareness requires more than internal reflection — and why the gap between who you think you are and how the world actually experiences you could be the hidden force behind your plateaus, your patterns, and your struggles to stay consistent.

We get into why asking yourself if you're self-aware is the least reliable way to find out, how to close the gap between your values and the life you're actually living, and why the story you tell about yourself might be the biggest thing standing in your way.

We also talk about the four forces quietly destroying your ability to live in alignment, why your personality isn't the words you use to describe yourself, and how one simple decision-making framework can change the way you approach everything from workouts to relationships to major life choices.

If you've ever felt like you're doing all the right things but something still feels off — this one's for you.
Topics covered:

- Why you can't trust your own self-perception alone
- The anonymized feedback tool that reveals how the world really sees you
- The difference between your values and your virtues (and why it matters)
- The 4 forces destroying your ability to live by your values
- How to stop living by default and start living by design
- The 10-10-10 decision making framework

Think "abs are made in the kitchen" and "muscle is built in the gym" are the keys to your dream body? These popular fitness mantras might actually be the reason you're stuck in a frustrating cycle of yo-yo dieting, rebound weight gain, and zero progress.In this episode, I'm breaking down why obsessing over just nutrition OR just training is secretly sabotaging your results...and what to focus on instead to finally achieve the body recomp you've been chasing.

You'll learn:

- Why a calories-in-calories-out mentality leads to metabolic adaptation and rebound
- Why your workouts should NEVER be about fat loss
- The #1 reason "hard gainers" can't build muscle (hint: it's not your genetics)
- How to stop doing "everything right" and still getting nowhere
- Why what worked before might be destroying your progress nowStop blaming your willpower. Start making your nutrition and training work together.

Most women are tracking everything...their sleep, their stress, their steps, their food...and still feel exhausted, overwhelmed, and like their body is working against them. Yale-trained MD and New York Times bestselling author Dr. Aviva Romm says the problem isn't your data. It's that you've stopped trusting yourself.

In this episode, Dr. Romm breaks down why metabolic flexibility —not more optimization — is the real key to lasting health, strong hormones, and aging well as a woman. We get into why cortisol isn't the enemy (and what actually happens when you chronically suppress it), how your menstrual cycle should be shaping your training, and why high-performing women are often the last ones to listen to what their body is telling them.

We also talk about the quiet strength in setting boundaries, why willpower isn't a character trait, and how to stop "shoulding" on yourself and actually build habits that stick.

If you've ever pushed through exhaustion, ignored your body's signals, or wondered why doing more keeps leaving you feeling like less — this one's for you.

Topics covered:

- What metabolic flexibility actually means and why it matters for women
- The truth about cortisol and why demonizing it is making things worse
- How to train smarter across your cycle
- Why your fitness tracker might be working against you
- Boundaries, burnout, and the real cost of always saying yes
- How to build habits from want-to instead of should

Connect with Dr. Aviva Romm: avivaromm.com | @dr.avivaromm on Instagram

There’s a moment almost everyone hits in their fat-loss journey...

and if you’re here, I’m willing to bet you’ve hit it too. It’s that moment where you’re doing the workouts…

eating healthy…
trying to be consistent…
trying SO hard to “do everything right”…
And then you catch your reflection in a window…and your stomach just drops.

So you check. You snap a progress photo.You look at the scale.

You take your measurements.And instead of feeling proud, you feel that same heavy frustration wash over you.

Because the only thought running through your head is:

“How am I working this hard… and STILL not seeing anything change?”

And then...just to make it sting a little more...you open social media and see someone else’s transformation and think,

“Why is it working for them… but not for me?”

And the spiral begins.

“Is it my age?”
“Is it my hormones?”
“Is my metabolism broken?”
“Is something wrong with ME?”
If you’ve ever had that moment…

You’re not crazy. You’re not broken. And you’re definitely not alone.

Here’s the part no one ever told you and I promise you, this is going to shift everything:

The reasons you’re stuck have nothing to do with discipline…and everything to do with 20 hard truths.

These are truths I learned the hard way. These are truths that would’ve saved you YEARS of frustration.Truths that finally make fat loss make SENSE.

Truths that show you your body doesn’t hate you you’ve just been following the wrong roadmap.

Once you hear them, everything clicks.

So let’s jump in and look at 20 Brutal Fat Loss Truths Most Women Don’t Follow