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  • 26: Turning Setbacks Into Strengths

    26: Turning Setbacks Into Strengths
    Dec 12 2025
    What if your biggest betrayal could become your greatest teacher? In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber reframes how we see setbacks—not as sources of loss, but as catalysts for strength, clarity, and wisdom. Betrayal may strip away your old assumptions, but what remains is sharper, more discerning, and deeply aligned with your values. Through her two-minute Reframe Practice, Dr. Debi shows how to turn every painful moment into a source of insight by asking one powerful question: "What did this reveal that I needed to see?" This practice transforms pain into perception and setbacks into strengths, teaching leaders how to extract wisdom instead of staying stuck in wounds. When you stop seeing betrayal as something that happened to you and start seeing it as something that happened for you, everything changes. What You'll Learn in This Episode ●  Why betrayal can sharpen rather than weaken you ●  How to extract wisdom and clarity from painful experiences ●  The difference between reacting to pain and learning from it ●  How "earned wisdom" develops through healed betrayal ●  The 2-minute Reframe Practice to transform challenges into insight ●  How to see betrayal as a teacher instead of a trap Key Takeaway: Setbacks don't define you—they refine you. When you ask, "What did this reveal that I needed to see?" you turn pain into purpose and betrayal into a sharpening stone for your growth and leadership. —-- Learn how to transform betrayal and setbacks into powerful teachers. In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber shares the Reframe Practice—a two-minute exercise to uncover wisdom, restore clarity, and turn pain into strength. —- healing from betrayal, turning pain into purpose, Dr. Debi Silber, post betrayal transformation, leadership after betrayal, resilience and growth, emotional healing tools, mindset reframing, setback to strength, leadership recovery, reframe practice, earned wisdom, transformation after adversity, how to process betrayal, rebuilding clarity and confidence, emotional intelligence for leaders, leadership wisdom through healing, resilience mindset for professionals, overcoming workplace betrayal, clarity through healing 🎙 Resources The PBT Institute Transform Program with Dr. Debi and her Certified PBT® Coaches
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  • 25: The Power of Naming It

    25: The Power of Naming It
    Dec 10 2025
    High-performing leaders are often masters at pushing through—through pressure, deadlines, and even betrayal. But there's a cost. When pain goes unnamed, it doesn't disappear—it drives decisions, reactions, and relationships from the shadows. In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber explores why the most courageous act a leader can take isn't to keep pushing forward, but to pause and name what's true. You'll learn how unacknowledged betrayal shows up in subtle ways—defensiveness in meetings, over-caution in decisions, emotional distance in leadership—and how the simple act of naming it begins to dissolve its power. Dr. Debi shares a 60-second grounding tool, the "Breath and Naming Exercise," to help you reset before major decisions, shift from fear to clarity, and lead from truth instead of trauma. When you name your pain, you don't get weaker—you get wiser. What You'll Learn in This Episode ●  Why pushing through betrayal keeps leaders stuck in survival mode ●  How unacknowledged pain hijacks decision-making and trust ●  The difference between reacting from fear and responding from clarity ●  How naming emotions restores focus, energy, and grounded leadership ●  The 60-second "Breath and Naming Exercise" to reset before major decisions ●  Why awareness, not avoidance, is the foundation of true resilience Key Takeaway: The pain you don't name controls you. The moment you speak it aloud, you regain power, clarity, and presence. That's how leaders move from fear-based reaction to wisdom-based action. —-- Discover how naming betrayal restores clarity, energy, and self-trust. In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber shares how to stop pushing through pain and start leading from awareness with her 60-second "Breath and Naming Exercise." —-- leadership after betrayal, naming emotions at work, betrayal recovery leadership, Dr. Debi Silber, healing leadership wounds, post betrayal transformation, emotional intelligence for leaders, trust and decision making, how to rebuild confidence after betrayal, breath and naming exercise, trauma-informed leadership, clarity after betrayal, self-awareness for executives, overcoming leadership burnout, mindfulness in decision making, nervous system regulation for leaders, healing unspoken pain at work, emotional resilience in leadership, leadership authenticity after betrayal, leading from awareness 🎙 Resources The PBT Institute Transform Program with Dr. Debi and her Certified PBT® Coaches
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    8 m
  • 24: The Confidence Multiplier

    24: The Confidence Multiplier
    Dec 8 2025
    After betrayal, confidence doesn't just disappear—it fractures. You question your judgment, doubt your instincts, and second-guess even small decisions. But when you do the real work of healing, something powerful happens: your confidence doesn't just return—it multiplies. In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber unpacks what she calls the Confidence Multiplier Effect—how recovering from betrayal rewires your sense of self-trust, presence, and power. Through conscious reflection and daily awareness, you don't just regain the confidence you lost—you build a deeper, more grounded version that can't be shaken by circumstance or opinion. Dr. Debi also shares a simple nightly practice—a two-minute micro-journal prompt—to help you spot the moments where you've stood strong and use them as evidence of your growing strength and self-trust. What You'll Learn in This Episode ●  Why betrayal shatters confidence and decision-making ●  How healing betrayal rewires your self-trust ●  The difference between performative confidence and grounded confidence ●  Why presence is the secret ingredient to rebuilding inner authority ●  A nightly micro-journaling practice to amplify courage and clarity ●  How to turn small wins into proof of powerful transformation Key Takeaway: Healing betrayal isn't just about recovering what you lost—it's about building something stronger. Every moment you stand strong becomes fuel for your next level of confidence, leadership, and impact. —- Discover how healing betrayal multiplies your confidence and clarity. Learn Dr. Debi Silber's nightly "Where Did I Stand Strong Today?" journaling practice to rebuild unshakable self-trust and authentic leadership. —-- betrayal recovery and confidence, rebuilding self-trust after betrayal, post betrayal transformation, confidence after trauma, grounded leadership after betrayal, leadership authenticity, Dr. Debi Silber confidence, betrayal and self-doubt, overcoming betrayal in leadership, how to rebuild confidence, daily self-trust practices, confidence multiplier effect, micro journaling for leaders, emotional resilience and betrayal, rebuilding courage after betrayal, personal empowerment after trauma, leadership healing techniques, mindset shift after betrayal, self-reflection for confidence, healing betrayal and presence 🎙 Resources The PBT Institute Transform Program with Dr. Debi and her Certified PBT® Coaches
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    6 m
  • 23: Reclaiming Sharp Decisions

    23: Reclaiming Sharp Decisions
    Dec 1 2025

    One of the most overlooked casualties of betrayal isn't trust—it's clarity.


    In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber reveals how betrayal hijacks your brain's decision-making circuitry, leaving even the most capable leaders stuck in hesitation, over-analysis, and exhaustion.


    After betrayal, every choice feels loaded: What if this goes wrong again? What if I can't trust myself?


    This constant mental looping drains focus, confidence, and momentum. But once you heal betrayal and rebuild self-trust, your sharpness returns. Decisions become faster, cleaner, and grounded in wisdom—not fear.


    Dr. Debi shares a powerful daily exercise—the One-Focus Minute—that helps you retrain your brain for decisive leadership, rebuild self-confidence, and regain momentum one clear decision at a time.


    What You'll Learn in This Episode
    ●  How betrayal hijacks your brain's decision-making process
    ●  Why fear-based decisions drain focus and performance
    ●  How healing betrayal restores clarity, intuition, and confidence
    ●  The neuroscience behind "analysis paralysis" after broken trust
    ●  A 60-second tool to sharpen daily decision-making
    ●  Why decisive leadership begins with one clear focus each morning
    Key Takeaway:
    Your edge isn't gone—it's buried under unprocessed betrayal. Healing allows you to think clearly, trust your instincts, and lead with conviction again. One minute. One decision. One day at a time.
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    Betrayal clouds clarity and drains confidence. Discover how healing restores sharp, decisive leadership—and learn Dr. Debi Silber's One-Focus Minute tool to rebuild decision-making power.
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    Resources
    The PBT Institute
    Transform Program with Dr. Debi and her Certified PBT® Coaches

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    10 m
  • 22: Rebuilding Trust, Restoring Energy

    22: Rebuilding Trust, Restoring Energy
    Nov 28 2025
    When was the last time you felt truly energized—not from caffeine or adrenaline, but from genuine focus and clarity? In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber uncovers one of the most overlooked connections in both leadership and healing: the relationship between self-trust and energy. After betrayal, it's not just trust in others that's broken—it's trust in yourself. You question your instincts, replay decisions, and second-guess your own judgment. This constant internal conflict drains enormous mental and emotional energy, leaving you exhausted, unfocused, and disconnected. But when you heal betrayal and rebuild self-trust, everything changes. That energy that once fueled self-doubt gets redirected toward clarity, confidence, and creativity. You stop leaking power. You stop fighting yourself. And in doing so, you restore your vitality—from the inside out. Dr. Debi also shares a simple 10-second morning affirmation that helps you rewire your nervous system, rebuild inner confidence, and start each day grounded in trust instead of fear. What You'll Learn in This Episode ●  Why betrayal depletes energy by eroding self-trust ●  How self-doubt creates mental "energy leaks" that drain focus ●  The neuroscience behind trust, safety, and vitality ●  A 10-second morning practice to rebuild confidence and calm ●  How restored self-trust leads to better decision-making and authentic leadership Key Takeaway: Rebuilding trust isn't just emotional—it's energetic. When you stop fighting yourself, your energy returns, your focus sharpens, and you begin leading—and living—from alignment rather than survival. —- Discover how rebuilding self-trust after betrayal restores energy, clarity, and authentic confidence. Learn Dr. Debi Silber's simple 10-second practice to begin each day grounded and empowered. —-- rebuilding self-trust, healing after betrayal, betrayal recovery and energy, betrayal trauma fatigue, post betrayal transformation, leadership and trust repair, self-trust exercises, emotional resilience after betrayal, restoring vitality, burnout and betrayal connection, nervous system healing, energy recovery after trauma, mindfulness for leaders, trust rebuilding strategies, Dr. Debi Silber betrayal healing, confidence rebuilding after betrayal, performance and emotional 🎙 healing, trauma-informed leadership, morning affirmation for healing, PBT Institute Transform Program Resources The PBT Institute Transform Program with Dr. Debi and her Certified PBT® Coaches
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    8 m
  • 21: Leading from Wholeness

    21: Leading from Wholeness
    Nov 26 2025

    What if your greatest wound could become your most powerful leadership asset?
    In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber explores how healing from betrayal doesn't just make you stronger—it transforms the way you lead. "Leading from Wholeness" dives into why vulnerability is not a liability in leadership, but the foundation of authenticity, trust, and lasting influence.


    Most leadership advice tells us to separate personal healing from professional performance—but that's where true growth is missed. Dr. Debi reveals how betrayal breaks us open in a way that allows for deeper discernment, empathy, and vision. When leaders heal, they stop leading from fear and start leading from integration.


    You'll also be guided through a powerful visualization exercise to connect with your "next-level self"—the calm, confident, and grounded version of you that leads with authenticity and inner authority.


    What You'll Learn in This Episode
    ●  Why healing betrayal deepens clarity, empathy, and discernment
    ●  The difference between external confidence and grounded authority
    ●  How authenticity creates magnetic, trust-based leadership
    ●  A visualization practice to step into your "next-level self"
    ●  Why healed leaders create safer, more resilient team cultures
    Key Takeaway:
    Your betrayal didn't break your leadership—it refined it. The integration of your healed self is what makes your presence trustworthy, your communication clear, and your vision unstoppable.
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    Discover how healing from betrayal transforms leaders into authentic, resilient visionaries. Learn how to lead from wholeness with clarity, confidence, and empathy through Dr. Debi Silber's transformative framework.
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    Resources
    The PBT Institute
    Transform Program with Dr. Debi and her Certified PBT® Coaches

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    7 m
  • 20: The Turning Point – From Reacting to Creating After Betrayal

    20: The Turning Point – From Reacting to Creating After Betrayal
    Nov 24 2025
    Every leader faces moments that test their stability—but few experiences shake confidence quite like betrayal. In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber reveals how betrayal recovery is more than emotional healing—it's the turning point that transforms reactive leadership into creative leadership. When you're trapped in survival mode, every move feels like crisis management. But once you heal, that same energy shifts toward creation, innovation, and influence. You stop reacting to what's happening and start shaping what's next. Dr. Debi guides listeners through this evolution, showing how betrayal recovery rewires your nervous system to move from defense to possibility. You'll also learn a quick reflective exercise that rewires your brain for forward movement: the "What Did I Create Today?" end-of-day ritual—a simple, powerful tool to help you build momentum, clarity, and creative resilience after betrayal. What You'll Learn in This Episode ●  How betrayal keeps high achievers trapped in survival mode ●  Why "pushing through" blocks creativity and innovation ●  The difference between reactive and proactive leadership ●  How healing betrayal restores creative power and energy ●  The one question that shifts your focus from surviving to thriving Quick Tool: The Daily Creation Reflection Before ending your day, ask yourself: "What did I create today?" It could be a moment of connection, a clear decision, a boundary, or a new idea. This reflection rewires your brain to focus on creation over crisis—helping you move from fear-based survival into purpose-driven leadership. Discover how healing betrayal transforms reactive leadership into creative resilience. Learn how to move from survival mode to visionary leadership. betrayal recovery for leaders, reactive vs proactive leadership, healing betrayal, creative resilience, post betrayal transformation, leadership after betrayal, emotional recovery in business, executive burnout recovery, leadership confidence, trauma-informed leadership, trust and leadership, high achiever healing, rebuilding trust at work, thriving after betrayal, leadership growth, executive mindset shifts, nervous system healing for leaders, self-trust restoration, resilience in leadership, post betrayal thriving Resources The PBT Institute Transform Program with Dr. Debi and her Certified PBT® Coaches
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  • 19: From Shattered Confidence to Grounded Authority

    19: From Shattered Confidence to Grounded Authority
    Nov 21 2025
    When betrayal shatters your sense of trust, confidence can feel like it disappears overnight. Decisions become harder. Self-doubt creeps in. Leadership—something that once felt natural—suddenly feels forced and fragile. In this episode, Dr. Debi Silber shares how confidence after betrayal isn't something you "get back"—it's something you rebuild, deeper and stronger than before. You'll discover how healing turns shaken leaders into grounded, unshakable ones, and learn a practical daily exercise—the 3 Wins Reflection—to restore steady confidence, clarity, and trust in your leadership. True authority doesn't come from perfection. It comes from presence. And the leaders who heal betrayal don't just recover—they rise steadier than ever. What You'll Learn in This Episode ●  Why betrayal shatters external confidence but opens the door to inner authority ●  The difference between performing confidence and embodying it ●  How healing betrayal builds grounded self-trust and authentic leadership ●  A 3-step "Wins Reflection" to retrain your brain to recognize progress and strength ●  How daily evidence of growth becomes the foundation for unshakable confidence ●  Why steady leadership outlasts uncertainty, criticism, and change Quick Tool: The 3 Wins Reflection Each morning, before diving into your day, identify three small wins from the past 24 hours. They don't have to be big—just real. Did you stay calm in a hard moment? Speak a truth? Honor a boundary? Each win is proof that you're rebuilding trust in yourself. Over time, these small acknowledgments create the steady foundation of confidence you can stand on—no matter what comes next. Resources The PBT Institute Transform Program with Dr. Debi and her Certified PBT® Coaches
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    8 m