You know those small moments that catch you off guard, like when your partner skips ahead on the show you were watching together or heads out with their friends and forgets to mention that it was actually a whole of group event, including partners. They're not huge, but they still sting. Because underneath it all, what we're really feeling in those moments is rejection. And what we're really craving is to feel safe, seen and loved.

In this episode, we're talking about why those moments matter, how to understand what's really going on beneath the surface and better ways to handle them so that you can flip the script on those feelings, move through the rejection and create a genuine moment of connection.

Want more connection, less tension, and a relationship that energises you?

The Relationship Playbook is our 6-week course that gives you the real tools to turn things around — better communication, less fighting, more intimacy, and a stronger team vibe.

Just one hour a week, and you’ll start to feel the shift.

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Ever feel like chaos has moved in with you? The schedules, the drop offs, the bills, the birthdays, it's all flying around in your head and half the time you're just hoping the other person's got it covered. But here's the thing.

Chaos doesn't just make life stressful, it actually creates a wedge. Because when one of you is carrying the mental load and the other's trying to keep up, you stop feeling like teammates and start feeling like opponents.

Today we're talking about the one thing that might just do more for your relationship than date night.

Bringing in the use of the humble whiteboard. Because when everything's out in the open, the plans, the to dos, the mental load, it stops being my problem and your problem and it becomes our plan.

We'll share how a shared whiteboard can help you stay organized, reduce resentment, and actually bring back that sense of ease and connection. So grab a coffee or a marker and let's talk about how a whiteboard so grab a coffee or, or a marker and let's talk about how a whiteboard might just save your marriage.

Want more connection, less tension, and a relationship that energises you?

The Relationship Playbook is our 6-week course that gives you the real tools to turn things around — better communication, less fighting, more intimacy, and a stronger team vibe.

Just one hour a week, and you’ll start to feel the shift.

Join the waitlist now at

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Got a question for us? Email us at hello@kimandrog.com

We all have low energy days or even low energy seasons. And one of the biggest mistakes couples can make is expecting both partners to be fit and firing on all cylinders, all of the time.

The reality is that's just not how life works. Sometimes your partner may be flat, overwhelmed or running on empty. And in those moments, they don't need fixing, they need support, they need encouragement, a bit of belief. They need their hype guy.

In today's episode, we're looking at how to spot when your partner needs lifting and how to step in with the right kind of energy. We'll share what research says about support within a relationship and why the little things like admiration, presence and gentle check ins matter most when your partner is feeling low. Let's dive in.

Want more connection, less tension, and a relationship that energises you?

The Relationship Playbook is our 6-week course that gives you the real tools to turn things around — better communication, less fighting, more intimacy, and a stronger team vibe.

Just one hour a week, and you’ll start to feel the shift.

Join the waitlist now at

https://therelationshipplaybook.kimandrog.com/interested

Got a question for us? Email us at hello@kimandrog.com