#108 - How to reset when you can’t stop niggling at each other

Are you and your partner stuck in that same old loop, snapping over small things, circling around the same topics and wondering how you got here again?

Well, you're not alone. Most couples don't fight about what they think they're fighting about. It's rarely the dishes or the phone or the tone of what was said. It's the deeper stuff underneath that never quite gets said. And instead of talking about what's really going on, we end up niggling, poking and protecting ourselves, hoping the other person will notice what we're really trying to say. I miss you. I. I need you. Do you still need me?

In this episode, we're unpacking why couples fall into that dance of frustration and defensiveness and how to break the pattern before it takes over. And we'll share our go to reset. One simple shift that helps you move from tension to teamwork and getting back to feeling like you're on the same side again.

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