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In this powerful and honest conversation, Christy Boulware is joined by her husband Troy and pastors Devin and Dustin Thacker to explore what the Church should be—and where it’s gone wrong. Together, they dive into personal experiences, spiritual abuse, unhealthy leadership models, and the corporate mindset that has crept into many churches. From the pain of being discarded to the misuse of titles and programs over people, this episode holds space for real talk and real healing.

They also cast a hopeful vision of restoration: one rooted in discipleship, roundtable leadership, healthy conflict resolution, and a return to servant-hearted community. Whether you've been hurt by the Church or are longing to be part of a healthier one, this episode offers both empathy and direction.

Oh—and don’t miss the lighthearted French fry draft at the end!

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In this episode, we take a closer look at the honest doubts of two of Jesus' closest followers—Peter and Thomas. Peter doubted himself and denied Jesus. Thomas doubted the resurrection and needed proof. And yet, Jesus met them both with grace, not shame.

If you've ever wrestled with questions like: Is God really good? Can I trust Him? Did He actually rise from the dead?—you're not alone. Doubt doesn’t disqualify you. But it is an invitation to deeper faith.

It’s time to stop living faithless and start walking in resurrection power. Let’s talk about how Jesus meets us in our questions, restores our belief, and calls us to follow Him—even when we’re unsure.

God can handle your doubts. He just doesn’t want you to stay in them.

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In this episode of Fearless Tips and Talks, we believe that our greatest tests often become our most powerful testimonies. Join us for a moving and inspiring moment from our Walk With Me retreat, where Lauren Jordan courageously shares her journey of overcoming fear and anxiety through surrender, obedience, and unwavering faith in Jesus. Her story is raw, redemptive, and full of beauty. Get ready for a powerful testimony that will stir your heart and strengthen your faith.

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Behind the scenes into our Walk With Me Discipleship program with an incredible message!

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Have you ever experienced pain so deep that you didn’t even know how to talk to God about it? Maybe you've prayed, but instead of comfort, you felt unheard—like your words were hitting the ceiling.

Have you ever wrestled with questions like:

Why did this happen?
Where were You, God?
How am I supposed to move forward?
If so, you’re not alone. The Bible is filled with faithful people who struggled with pain, disappointment, and doubt. They didn’t suppress their grief or pretend to be okay—they lamented.

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Control Is an Illusion

Anxiety is at an all-time high, with nearly half of Americans experiencing a diagnosable mental health condition in their lifetime. I know this struggle firsthand—I was one of those statistics. In 2011, I was diagnosed with severe panic and anxiety disorder, believing the lie that I could control everything. But control is an illusion, and trying to hold onto it only leads to exhaustion and fear.

In this episode, I share my journey from anxiety and self-reliance to full surrender to Jesus. True peace isn’t found in control, but in trusting the One who holds it all. We’ll explore why surrender is the key to freedom and how shifting our perspective can bring lasting peace.

If you're tired of striving, overwhelmed by fear, or simply searching for a deeper sense of purpose, this episode is for you.

Want to go deeper? My book Nervous Breakthrough shares my full story and how I found freedom from fear and anxiety.

Subscribe and share this episode with someone who needs encouragement today.

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Hey, Fearless Family! Today, I’m sharing something truly special—one of my all-time favorite events. It was a small, intimate evening in Wisconsin that we called Undone—a night of music, testimony, and raw, honest connection.

I had the privilege of sharing the stage with Jesse Hamble, an incredible worship leader who has battled fear and anxiety. Through his powerful testimony and original songs, we experienced the beauty of vulnerability and worship in a way that was deeply moving.

This episode is different from anything I’ve shared before—part music, part testimony, and a message that I believe will deeply encourage you.

Find Jesse's Music here: https://open.spotify.com/artist/0jKaDb6yOSLEwjhC3is1qc?si=Zs_0AJ7tRk6YHw8abEVXSw&nd=1&dlsi=4a8eab49d8144790

I can’t wait for you to experience Undone. Enjoy!

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Discerning God's Voice from Lies

In this episode, we explore how to discern God's voice amidst the noise of fear, lies, and anxiety that the enemy often plants in our minds. Building on the foundational truth of John 10:27, that God's sheep hear His voice, we dive into John 10:10 to uncover how the enemy's agenda is to steal, kill, and destroy our peace and trust in God.

Christy shares her personal journey with anxiety, fear, and an autoimmune diagnosis, revealing how the enemy’s lies have tried to steal her peace. Through practical examples, including her battle with health fears, Christy explains the importance of renewing your mind with God's Word (Romans 12:2) and taking thoughts captive to make them obedient to Christ (2 Corinthians 10:5).

You'll hear how God’s still, small voice brings peace and assurance, and why He never dangles suffering over His children. Whether you're struggling with fears about health, finances, or relationships, this episode will equip you with biblical truths to silence the enemy and walk in God’s love, power, and sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).

Tune in for encouragement, practical tips, and the life-changing reminder that God speaks peace, not fear, over His children.

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