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Do you feel the weight of holding a relationship together that is falling apart? Are you battling anxiety from conflict, broken trust, or patterns that keep repeating? This episode of Fearless Tips and Talks dives into the truth many of us avoid: sometimes God calls us to create necessary distance.

In this powerful message, Christy Boulware and Dustin Thacker unpack how to navigate conflict, boundaries, and release in a healthy, Christ-centered way. You will learn:

• Why your relationship with God shapes every relationship you have
• How to walk out humility, accountability, and confession
• The difference between peacemaking and peacekeeping
• How to follow the biblical process of conflict in Matthew 18
• When boundaries become essential for emotional and spiritual health
• Why some seasons require distance and why that does not mean failure
• How lament opens the door for real healing
• The freedom that comes when you stop forcing outcomes and start trusting God

If you deal with anxiety, overthinking, people pleasing, or the fear of disappointing others, this episode will speak directly to your heart. God cares about your peace, your healing, and your growth. He will guide you through every necessary ending and every new beginning.

Listen in and let God breathe courage and clarity into your next step.

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Have you ever wondered if setting a boundary makes you a bad Christian, a selfish friend, or a dishonoring daughter or son? For years I wrestled with those questions and carried a lot of anxiety because I did not understand healthy, biblical boundaries.

In Talk 72: Healthy Love, Healthy Boundaries, I share a live teaching from my local church where we unpack what Scripture really says about burdens, responsibility, and love. We look at Galatians 6, explore the difference between helping someone carry a heavy crisis and carrying their everyday backpack of responsibility, and talk about why God honoring limits are actually an expression of love, not a rejection of it.

Inside this episode you will hear:

• A short recap of Talk 71, Facing Conflict God's Way, and why conflict has to be handled in a holy way first
• Real life examples of manipulation, spiritual pressure, and guilt that can leave you feeling trapped
• A simple, biblical framework for what you are responsible for and what you are not
• Questions to ask yourself when you are not sure if it is time to set a boundary
• Sample boundary statements you can adapt for your own relationships
• A powerful story of how God confirmed a very painful boundary through a prophetic word at just the right time

If you are feeling drained, resentful, confused, or anxious around a relationship, this conversation is for you. My prayer is that God uses it to help you release what he never asked you to carry and to love others more wisely, with truth, limits, and peace.

If you have not listened to Talk 71 yet, Facing Conflict God's Way, I recommend starting there and then coming back to this episode, since the two messages really belong together.

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What if the hardest person to confront isn’t someone else—but the Haman within?

In this powerful message, Shaunna Coin takes us on a deeply personal journey through pride, conviction, confession, and forgiveness. Drawing from the story of Esther, she reveals how unchecked pride, bitterness, and silence can destroy relationships and rob us of peace—and how humility and repentance open the door to healing and freedom.

Through honest storytelling, biblical truth, and Spirit-led reflection, you’ll learn:
✨ How conviction is actually God’s mercy
✨ Why confession is the gateway to restoration
✨ How pride blinds us—and how humility breaks those chains
✨ What it really means to confront the “Haman” within your own heart

If you’ve ever struggled to admit when you’re wrong, to ask for forgiveness, or to release bitterness—this message will speak straight to your soul.

Christy's Book on Amazon
Signed copy of Christy's book with personal message shop here

Mental Health Coaching info and book here.

Do you want to see the video from this podcast? Check it out here:

Get Christy's weekly anxiety tips emails, click purple "get anxiety tips" box

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Connect with Christy and on Instagram: @christymboulware
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Send us your feedback, questions, encouragement and anxiety tip ideas: podcast@fearlessunite.com