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  • BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 135 with Kizzle
    Jul 21 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 135) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 135: Why I Proposed — Advice Every Black Man needs to Hear” — it was released on: July 14, 2025

    In XYBM 135, I share my personal journey of finding true happiness and fulfillment through my relationship with Naima, navigating the ups and downs of love, and overcoming depression. I discuss the importance of self-improvement, the impact of mental health on black men, and how practicing gratitude transformed my outlook on life. I also break down the intricacies of my heartfelt proposal to Naima and emphasize the significance of having a supportive partner.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

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    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
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    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

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    13 m
  • Ep. 135: Why I Proposed — Advice Every Black Man needs to Hear
    Jul 14 2025
    In XYBM 135, I share my personal journey of finding true happiness and fulfillment through my relationship with Naima, navigating the ups and downs of love, and overcoming depression. I discuss the importance of self-improvement, the impact of mental health on black men, and how practicing gratitude transformed my outlook on life. I also break down the intricacies of my heartfelt proposal to Naima and emphasize the significance of having a supportive partner.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

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    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
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    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 1K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

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    50 m
  • XYBM Clips: Black man, listen to this if you are struggling right now
    Jul 9 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 134) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 134: Why Black Girls need Their Father with Jerlisa” — it was released on: July 6, 2025.

    In XYBM 134, I sit down with Juju Fontaine, the community-builder and founder of HuCapital, for an inspiring conversation on Black fatherhood, the evolving dynamics of relationships, and the multi-faceted concept of wellness. Juju opens up about the powerful influence of growing up with a nurturing father and how it shaped her life and work. She also discusses her mission to empower the Black community through her initiatives, offering valuable insights and personal experiences that you won’t want to miss.

    Tune in for an episode full of thought-provoking conversation and actionable wisdom on family, growth, and community impact.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
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    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 1K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
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    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    2 m
  • XYBM Clips: Black man, never look for a partner to do something for you that you can’t already do for yourself
    Jul 8 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 134) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 134: Why Black Girls need Their Father with Jerlisa” — it was released on: July 6, 2025.

    In XYBM 134, I sit down with Juju Fontaine, the community-builder and founder of HuCapital, for an inspiring conversation on Black fatherhood, the evolving dynamics of relationships, and the multi-faceted concept of wellness. Juju opens up about the powerful influence of growing up with a nurturing father and how it shaped her life and work. She also discusses her mission to empower the Black community through her initiatives, offering valuable insights and personal experiences that you won’t want to miss.

    Tune in for an episode full of thought-provoking conversation and actionable wisdom on family, growth, and community impact.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 1K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram: Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @jujufontaine_ (https://www.instagram.com/jujufontaine_ )
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    12 m
  • XYBM Clips: This is why we need affirmations from our fathers
    Jul 7 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 134) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 134: Why Black Girls need Their Father with Jerlisa” — it was released on: July 6, 2025.

    In XYBM 134, I sit down with Juju Fontaine, the community-builder and founder of HuCapital, for an inspiring conversation on Black fatherhood, the evolving dynamics of relationships, and the multi-faceted concept of wellness. Juju opens up about the powerful influence of growing up with a nurturing father and how it shaped her life and work. She also discusses her mission to empower the Black community through her initiatives, offering valuable insights and personal experiences that you won’t want to miss.

    Tune in for an episode full of thought-provoking conversation and actionable wisdom on family, growth, and community impact.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 1K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram: Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @jujufontaine_ (https://www.instagram.com/jujufontaine_ )
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    13 m
  • Ep. 134: Why Black Girls need Their Father with Jerlisa
    Jul 7 2025
    In XYBM 134, I sit down with Juju Fontaine, the community-builder and founder of HuCapital, for an inspiring conversation on Black fatherhood, the evolving dynamics of relationships, and the multi-faceted concept of wellness. Juju opens up about the powerful influence of growing up with a nurturing father and how it shaped her life and work. She also discusses her mission to empower the Black community through her initiatives, offering valuable insights and personal experiences that you won’t want to miss.

    Tune in for an episode full of thought-provoking conversation and actionable wisdom on family, growth, and community impact.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company. Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 1K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
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    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    Guest: @jujufontaine_ (https://www.instagram.com/jujufontaine_ )
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    2 h y 18 m
  • XYBM Clips: This Black man shares what would say to his dad that passed away
    Jun 26 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lindor” — it was released on: June 16, 2025.

    In XYBM 133, I sit down with Jeff Lindor, founder of The Gentlemen's Factory, to discuss the impact of grief, the importance of faith, and the significance of community. We explore his personal journey, including his deep bond with his late father, growing up in a Haitian household, and the lessons he's learned through life transitions. We dive into the complexities of relationships, dating with intention, fatherhood, and the power of emotional vulnerability for Black men.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
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    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/39/r9kz3ivq

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
    ————————————
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    Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @mrcommunitynyc (https://www.instagram.com/mrcommunitynyc/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    8 m
  • XYBM Clips: Black man, listen to this if you are struggling right now
    Jun 25 2025
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 133) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 133: How to Process the Loss of a Parent with Jeff Lindor” — it was released on: June 16, 2025.

    In XYBM 133, I sit down with Jeff Lindor, founder of The Gentlemen's Factory, to discuss the impact of grief, the importance of faith, and the significance of community. We explore his personal journey, including his deep bond with his late father, growing up in a Haitian household, and the lessons he's learned through life transitions. We dive into the complexities of relationships, dating with intention, fatherhood, and the power of emotional vulnerability for Black men.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!


    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/register/39/r9kz3ivq

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
    ————————————
    TikTok: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.tiktok.com/@expressyourselfblackman) Instagram:
    Host: @expressyourselfblackman (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @mrcommunitynyc (https://www.instagram.com/mrcommunitynyc/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    3 m