Few things cause as much stress, anxiety and fear as the process of divorce. Much of that comes from the "not knowing" piece of the process and on this episode of Divorce Curious, my goal is to fill in as many blanks for you as possible about what to expect from the process with the expert guidance of Indiana-based family law attorney, and proud mom of 7, Portland Schnitzius.
This isn't just your standard list of do's and don'ts, but a heartfelt and well intentioned conversation to give you a real taste of what to expect if you're considering getting a divorce and how you can best prepare yourself for what may lie ahead in the process for you.
Key themes in this episode include financial control and recognizing emotional abuse in your marriage.
There was so much great info that came during my conversation with Portland that this will be shared in a Part 1/Part 2 style so make sure you listen to both episodes so you can soak in all of Portland's wisdom. You don't want to miss any of this important conversation, I promise you that!
*disclaimer: Portland practices in Indiana so this guidance is through her experience with the family law guidelines in that state. This is not specific legal advice, so please consult with your own attorney for next steps and guidance in your specific situation.
Key Takeaways:
- Divorce can be a complex and emotional journey, you don't want to try to navigate it on your own.
- Understanding financial control and abuse is crucial for those in toxic relationships.
- Social media has played a significant role in raising awareness about unhealthy relationships.
- Many individuals feel empowered to seek divorce after recognizing their situation is not normal.
- The legal landscape of divorce includes both assets and debts, regardless of whose name they are in.
- Financial independence is essential for anyone considering divorce.
- The emotional toll of divorce can be mitigated by gathering information and resources.
- Women often report wishing they had divorced sooner after the process is complete.
- The level of conflict in divorces has increased since COVID-19.
- Therapists and legal professionals are increasingly recognizing patterns of emotional abuse.
About Portland:
Portland Schnitzius is an attorney licensed in the State of Indiana since 1993. She has been practicing family law for over a decade in areas such as divorces, paternity cases (contested matters between never married parents), adoptions, child custody/parenting time disputes, co-parenting disputes, guardianships and child support. She is a graduate of Indiana University McKinney school of Law in Indianapolis, Indiana and her office is located in a suburb of Indianapolis – Fishers Indiana. She is an Indiana Supreme Court registered domestic mediator, a Guardian Ad Litem, a Parenting Coordinator serving high conflict co-parents, and is trained in collaborative divorce. She enjoys volunteer work with Kids Voice of Indiana serving as an advocate for children and youth in the family court system.
She was born and raised in Southern California and graduated from Pepperdine University, Malibu. She has been married for 37 years, a mother of 7 young adult children and grandmother of one.
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