Episodios

  • What to Remember When Loneliness Hits
    Apr 30 2025
    Have you ever felt alone—even when surrounded by others? Maybe it crept in quietly, or maybe it hit you like a wave. In this episode, I’m getting real about that feeling of aloneness—why it’s not just 'in your head,' and why your body may actually be trying to protect you. I’ll share the neuroscience behind loneliness, how to regulate your nervous system in those foggy moments, and what helped me personally during some of the hardest seasons of disconnection. If you’ve ever thought, ‘Is it just me?’—this one’s for you.


    00:00 Introduction and Personal Update

    00:14 Feeling Alone: Personal Experiences

    04:20 Understanding the Biology of Loneliness

    10:55 Micro Moments of Connection

    14:16 The Power of Naming Shame

    18:32 Seeking Safe Spaces and Connection

    24:20 Conclusion and Final Thoughts


    Lindsay’s current program offerings:

    • Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025!
    • Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025.
    • Want a certification above + PRIVATE MENTORSHIP from yours truly? I have limited spaced available. Apply here.

    Check out her website here: Website.
    Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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    Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of ...

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  • Did you know I'm a math nerd? + Getting your business OFF the ground!
    Apr 17 2025

    Ready to stop spinning your wheels and build a business that actually feels like you? In this episode, Lindsay Poelman shares the real reasons coaches and entrepreneurs plateau from the get go—and what they need to break through and rise.

    Lindsay introduces her private, high-touch mentorship program designed for visionary business owners who are done with hustle and burnout and want to grow with clarity, sustainability, and integrity.

    You’ll hear about:

    • Why traditional business tactics often fall flat (especially for heart-led leaders)
    • The power of nervous system regulation + strategic support
    • Lindsay’s blend of Capricorn structure + Cancer soul in mentorship
    • What’s included in the yearlong container
    • How this container creates the kind of safety that brings your true self online—and your next level with it

    If you’re ready to scale without selling your soul, this episode is your sign.

    👉 Want to work with Lindsay 1:1? Tap here to apply now.

    ⏱️ Optional Timestamp Tweaks (more compelling labels):

    00:00 – Why This Mentorship Exists
    00:53 – Why You’re Still Stuck (Even If You’re Working Hard)
    01:13 – From Accountant to Trauma-Informed Mentor: My Journey
    06:16 – Structure Meets Flow: How I Mentor from Both
    12:23 – The Full Mentorship Breakdown (What’s Included)
    15:37 – Building a Business That Nourishes You Back
    17:41 – Who This Mentorship is For (and How to Apply)

    Lindsay’s current program offerings:

    • Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025!
    • Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025.

    Check out her website here: Website.
    Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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    Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of empowerment.

    Over the last 6+ years of deep dive/fundamental coaching for women in betrayal (around porn use, spouses coming out around gender identity and sexuality, childhood negle...

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    20 m
  • How to Be a Beacon of Light in a Conservative Community
    Apr 2 2025

    What if the most radical thing you could do for your community is not to argue — but to be deeply, visibly well?

    Today on the podcast, Lindsay shares anecdotes and insights on the power of non-confrontational activism, emphasizing healing and personal growth as catalysts for community change.

    Today Lindsay shares:

    • A reframe on what activism can look like, in any community;
    • Why healing yourself is activism;
    • The power of story, questions, and quiet alignment; and
    • How to influence without burning out or needing others to agree.

    Whether you’ve left a tight-knit faith community or just feel out of place in your specific culture, this episode is a must-listen.

    Through storytelling and personal reflections, she demonstrates how living authentically and compassionately can inspire others. If you struggle to do this, or want support while figuring things out, take a look at the link below to learn more about programs that could support you.

    00:00 Introduction and Greetings

    01:33 Activism in Conservative Communities

    02:07 The Power of Non-Confrontational Activism

    03:48 Healing and Compassion in Activism

    07:12 Storytelling as a Tool for Change

    09:01 A Personal Story of Quiet Activism

    15:13 The Role of Healed Leaders

    15:41 Invitation to Join the Movement

    Lindsay’s current program offerings:

    • Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025!
    • Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025.

    Check out her website here: Website.
    Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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    Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of empowerment.

    Over the last 6+ years of deep dive/fundamental coaching for women in betrayal (around porn use, spouses coming out around gender identity and sexuality, childhood negle...

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    17 m
  • Breaking Chains: Dan Gurley on Navigating Emotions, Trauma, and Patriarchy's harm to men | Part 2 of 2
    Mar 18 2025

    In part 2 of this authentic and vulnerable episode, join host Lindsay Poelman as she explores the transformative experiences of Dan Gurley in her trauma-informed coaching program.

    In this compelling episode, Dan shares his insights on societal norms around male emotional expression, the critical importance of understanding the nervous system, and the unique challenges men face in today's world.

    Learn how trauma-informed coaching has not only impacted Dan's personal and professional relationships but also how it equips him to help others navigate their own emotional landscapes.

    Listen in to understand why investing in trauma-informed coaching could be a life-changing decision for anyone looking to heal and grow.

    00:00 The Emotional Struggles of Men

    00:48 Balancing Work and Emotional Well-being

    02:25 The Importance of Metabolizing Emotions

    05:03 Discovering Trauma-Informed Coaching

    06:24 The Impact of Trauma on Men

    11:25 Personal Growth and Self-Compassion

    19:33 The Need for Male Mentors and Healers

    23:19 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    Lindsay’s current program offerings:

    • Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025!
    • Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025.

    Check out her website here: Website.
    Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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    Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of empowerment.

    Over the last 6+ years of deep dive/fundamental coaching for women in betrayal (around porn use, spouses coming out around gender identity and sexuality, childhood negle...

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    25 m
  • Breaking Chains: Dan Gurley on Navigating Emotions, Trauma, and Patriarchy's harm to men | Part 1 of 2
    Mar 7 2025

    Men and Emotional Processing? We don't see enough of it in today's world . . .

    In Part 1 of this 2 part episode series, host Lindsay Poelman interviews Dan Gurley, the first male guest on the podcast. Dan shares his journey from growing up in a high-demand Southern Christian culture to dealing with severe family trauma and emotional struggles. He discusses the impact of his high-pressure upbringing, his experiences with spiritual bypassing, and the profound challenges he faced as a father.

    The conversation delves into the processing of emotions, the concept of spiritual bypassing, and the importance of emotional healing. Dan's story illustrates the need for self-compassion and inner child work, particularly for men navigating complex emotional landscapes. This episode highlights the significance of trauma-informed coaching and provides a compelling case for Lindsay's certification program in emotional recovery and healing. Don't miss out on this insightful discussion, and be sure to leave an Apple review!

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

    00:48 Dan's Background and Upbringing

    02:35 High Expectations and Anxiety

    05:46 Military Life and Personal Struggles

    13:30 Family Challenges and Trauma

    18:34 Emotional Recovery and Support

    Lindsay’s current program offerings:

    • Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025!
    • Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025.

    Check out her website here: Website.
    Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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    Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of empowerment.

    Over the last 6+ years of deep dive/fundamental coaching for women in betrayal (around porn use, spouses coming out around gender identity and sexuality, childhood negle...

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    25 m
  • Exploring Your Unique Healing Gifts with Amy Russell - Part 2 of 2
    Feb 25 2025


    In this enlightening second part of the podcast interview, host Lindsay dives deep with Amy Russell into the profound impacts of setting boundaries and being trauma-informed. They discuss how reclaiming one's self through boundaries can transform relationships and self-perception.

    Amy shares personal stories from her healing journey, emphasizing the importance of understanding bodily cues and sensations. The conversation also explores the integration of spiritual gifts with a grounded knowledge of trauma and the nervous system. A must-listen for anyone interested in healing, personal growth, and the intersection of body, mind, and spirit. See link below to learn more about Lindsay's available certification programs for deeper insights into trauma-informed practices.

    00:00 Introduction and Overview

    00:26 Understanding Boundaries and Self-Love

    02:15 Family Dynamics and Personal Growth

    06:11 Discovering and Embracing Spiritual Gifts

    20:42 The Importance of Being Trauma-Informed

    27:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

    Connect with Amy here!

    Lindsay’s current program offerings:

    • Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025!
    • Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025.

    Check out her website here: Website.
    Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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    Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of empowerment.

    Over the last 6+ years of deep dive/fundamental coaching for women in betrayal (around porn use, spouses coming out around gender identity and sexuality, childhood negle...

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    28 m
  • Exploring Your Unique Healing Gifts with Amy Russell - Part 1 of 2
    Feb 11 2025

    In this podcast episode, the host interviews Amy Russell, a graduate of the trauma-informed coach certification program. They discuss Amy’s background, her journey through various states, and her passion for healing work. Amy shares insights into her personal transformation, emphasizing the importance of being trauma-informed and understanding the nervous system. They explore Amy's spiritual experiences, including her affinity for fairies, and how reconnecting with her childhood interests has guided her. The conversation highlights the significance of setting boundaries, recognizing inner authority, and addressing trauma within familial relationships. Amy's healing practices, including intuitive and energy-based methods, are also discussed. The episode underscores the idea that everyone has innate spiritual gifts and the value of integrating body wisdom with spiritual insights to foster healing and self-awareness.

    In Part 1 of this episode, Lindsay and Amy explore Amy's personal journey, from her spiritual awakening and rediscovery of childhood passions to the challenges of navigating familial relationships and learning the importance of boundaries. Amy shares her transformative experiences with understanding the nervous system, overcoming enmeshment, and developing a deeper connection with her body. Tune in to hear insights about reclaiming oneself and living a soul-led life.

    00:22 Meet Amy Russell

    01:22 Amy's Childhood and Love for Fairies

    03:09 Rediscovering Spirituality and Intuition

    05:28 Navigating the Dark Night of the Soul

    08:30 Understanding the Nervous System

    18:44 The Power of Boundaries

    20:52 Conclusion and Teaser for Part Two


    Connect with Amy here!

    Lindsay’s current program offerings:

    • Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025!
    • Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025.

    Check out her website here: Website.
    Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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    Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of empowerment.

    Over the last 6+ years of deep dive/fundamental coaching for women in betrayal (around porn use, spouses coming out around gender identity and sexuality, childhood negle...

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    21 m
  • 2025 Is Here: How to Ride the Rapids and not Get Swept Away
    Jan 30 2025

    Navigating 2025: Proactive Strategies for Coaches

    In this episode of the 'Become a Trauma-Informed Coach' podcast, your host Lindsay delves into the whirlwind of 2025, drawing parallels to significant past events and emphasizing the collective journey humanity is on.

    Lindsay shares personal experiences of moving from a reactive to a proactive state, discussing the importance of preparation, especially in turbulent times.

    Lindsay also highlights the significance of being trauma-informed and shares details on current offers she has available that are designed to equip individuals with the necessary tools and support for thriving in an ever-changing world. Lindsay's goal is for as many people as possible to have access to support needed to navigate 2025 with more confidence and ease.

    00:00 Introduction and Welcome

    00:43 Navigating 2025: A Year of Change

    01:48 Proactive vs. Reactive Living

    03:36 Embracing Uncertainty with Preparedness

    05:41 Tools for a Thriving Life

    09:00 Certification Programs Overview

    12:33 One-on-One Coaching Options

    14:24 Affordable Group Courses

    15:46 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    Lindsay’s current program offerings:

    • Looking for a new career as a Certified Trauma-Informed Coach? It’s time to Become a Trauma-Informed Coach. Learn more about Lindsay's life coach certification here. Next round starts September, 2025!
    • Are you already a Certified Coach looking to deepen your skillset by Becoming Trauma-Informed, with a spiritual twist? Click here to see if Lindsay's Advanced Intuitive Trauma Certification for Coaches is a fit for you. Our next round will begin September, 2025.

    Check out her website here: Website.
    Find me on Instagram : @lindsaypoelmancoaching

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    Your host, certified life coach Lindsay Poelman started her journey of intentional healing started when she learned that her husband had been lying to her about pornography use for a greater part of their marriage. After processing and accepting her circumstance more fully, she found coaching—which propelled her into a forward focused state of empowerment.

    Over the last 6+ years of deep dive/fundamental coaching for women in betrayal (around porn use, spouses coming out around gender identity and sexuality, childhood negle...

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    18 m
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