• 207. When Life Still Feels Heavy: How to Find Some Peace While It’s Still ‘Raining’
    Nov 25 2025

    What if healing isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass… but learning how to find peace while it’s still raining?

    While driving down the California coast in a torrential downpour, with full sunshine pouring through the windshield, God gave me a powerful epiphany that changed the way I see healing, peace, and inner resilience.

    For years I believed healing meant fixing circumstances, praying away the struggle, or finally getting to an “easier” season. But sometimes the rain doesn’t stop. What can change is our capacity, our perspective, and our ability to hold both suffering and joy at the same time.

    This episode is especially for you if you’re tired, overwhelmed, spiritually disconnected, or waiting for life to calm down before you let yourself breathe again.

    Scripture:

    • Hosea 2:15 — “I will make the Valley of Achor a door of hope.”
    • Joel 2:25 — “I will renew the years the locusts have eaten.”

    Song:

    • “Scars” by I Am They

    Quote:

    “You can’t change what happened in the past, but you can change how you frame it. We’re offered a range of different lenses: acceptance, forgiveness, and gratitude.” — Noelle Oxenhandler

    If this episode resonated and you’re ready to find peace in the storm, not just after it, I’d love to support you.

    📅 Book a Free Discovery Call Let’s talk about where you’re at and how we can work together to help you find more serenity, purpose, and emotional freedom.

    👉 Click here to schedule your discovery call

    Glad you’re here,

    Dani :)

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  • 206. The Third Act: Integrating Body, Mind & Soul for Your Future Self
    Nov 19 2025

    Ever feel like you've tried EVERYTHING—therapy, retreats, prayer meetings, all the books—but you're still struggling? This episode reveals what might be the missing piece: integrating your body into the healing process.

    Dani and Jim introduce The Third Act, a personalized coaching program that helps you birth the authentic essence of who you were created to be. It's not just about your past or present—it's about building the future you deserve.

    The Three Acts of Life

    ACT ONE: Formation The experiences that shaped you—childhood, relationships, choices made for you. The conditioning that formed your reactions to life.

    ACT TWO: The Awakening Waking up to patterns, hurt, and wrong turns. Many of us stay stuck here in coping mechanisms. (And that's okay—there's work to do.)

    ACT THREE: Coming Home Birthing the truest essence of who you are. Making peace with your past AND future. Integrating body, mind, and soul to become who you were always meant to be.

    Why Your Body Matters

    You are a triune being: Body, mind, and soul—one integrated whole made in God's image.

    The problem: We've abandoned our bodies because life abandoned us. We've become over-thinkers because we're under-feelers. Christian culture taught us to shame the flesh, but Jesus came in flesh and blood. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit—it deserves honor and integration.

    The science: Trauma is encoded chemically and electrically in your body. Your nervous system holds experiences even when your mind doesn't. You can't think your way out of what's stored in your body.

    What The Third Act Includes

    30-50 personalized practices (you choose what works for YOU):

    • Movement & dance practices
    • Self-soothing techniques (child hug, breathwork)
    • Vagus nerve regulation
    • Visualization & future-self anchoring
    • StrengthsFinder assessment
    • Body-mind-soul integration work

    Simple practice to try now—The Child Hug:

    1. Right hand in left armpit, left hand on right shoulder
    2. Sway gently and breathe
    3. Say: "I'm not leaving you. I'm here with you."
    Who This Is For

    ✓ You've tried everything but still struggle ✓ You're hijacked by anxiety, anger, or reactive patterns ✓ You know there's MORE but don't know how to access it ✓ You're an over-thinker who's actually an under-feeler ✓ You want to make peace with your body, not war with it ✓ You love Jesus but feel lost

    Real talk: 90% of Dani's clients have never had a coach before. You're in good company.

    The Goal: Future You

    That peaceful, integrated version of you 10 years from now? She already exists in God's hand. The Third Act helps you anchor to your future self and build the bridge from here to there.

    Success looks like: Moving through a trigger in 3 minutes instead of being stuck for days. The goal isn't to never be triggered—it's to feel it, honor it, release it, and move forward.

    🎯 Book Your FREE 30-Minute Discovery Call

    What happens:

    • Complete a simple intake for a temperature read
    • Dani explains how the program works specifically for YOU
    • Discover if this is your next step
    • ZERO PRESSURE (Dani only works with great-fit clients)

    The program: 3-6 months of personalized coaching, one-on-one time, practices, accountability, and support.

    Investment in yourself: Your money is going somewhere—supplements, therapy, books. What if you invested in something that actually moves you forward?

    Key Takeaways
    1. You are body, mind, and soul—all equally important
    2. Trauma lives in your body, not just your memory
    3. The goal is integration and authenticity, not perfection
    4. Your body is not the enemy—it's God's temple
    5. Future-focused healing honors your past
    6. The Third Act births who you were always meant to be

    Your Third Act is waiting. Book your discovery call now!

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  • 205. Tired of the ‘Shoulds’? Reclaim Intimacy & Connection with God in 15 Minutes a Day
    Nov 12 2025

    Hey friend! Today we’re talking about growing our relationship with our Creator, AND why the phrase "quiet time" makes me cringe and how I learned to connect with God in ways that actually work for who HE made ME to be.

    If you've ever felt like you're not doing devotions "right" or that your relationship with God doesn't look like everyone else's, this episode is for YOU.

    It's time to let go of the shoulds and discover what actually feeds your soul.

    What You'll Learn:

    ✨ Why traditional "quiet time" doesn't work for everyone (and that's okay!)

    💪 What a "spiritual workout" looks like and how to create your own

    🏃‍♀️ How movement, dancing, and even naps can be part of intimacy with God

    📖 Permission to skip scriptures that bring shame instead of empowerment

    🧠 The mind-body-spirit connection you can't ignore

    Key Quotes:

    "You may have been your mom's accident, but you are not God's accident. You are here for such a time as this."

    "I don't believe my thoughts until I move my body."

    "Scripture was meant to empower you. If there are scriptures tearing your soul apart, don't read them right now."

    "I'm so exhausted from trying to figure everything out on my own."

    My Spiritual Workout Includes:
    • Gentle morning movement (12-minute circuit)
    • Brain dumping & intentional journaling
    • Dancing to worship music
    • Nature meditation walks (praying and listening prayer)
    • Sauna time for body + soul
    • Rest when needed (yes, naps!)
    Ready to Go Deeper?

    Book Your Free Discovery Call

    If this episode resonated with you, let's talk! I work with women who are tired of religious "shoulds" and ready for authentic intimacy with God.

    During our call, we'll:

    • Explore where you're feeling stuck spiritually
    • Identify what's blocking your intimacy with God
    • Discover if coaching together is right for you
    • Create a vision for your spiritual workout
    • Create a vision for YOUR FUTURE. You deserve a clear vision for what your heart desires.

    No pressure. No shoulds. Just honest conversation.

    👉 Schedule Your Discovery Call Here

    Remember: There's no formula for connecting with the Lord. You have PERMISSION to do it differently. You have permission to evolve.

    God bless you! 💛

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  • 204. Your Past Doesn't Disqualify You (15 Years Sober Proof)
    Nov 12 2025

    What's up my people! Today marks my 15th sobriety birthday! 🎉

    In this episode, I'm getting real about recovery, purpose, and why your hardest moments don't disqualify you from living a life full of joy and meaning. If you're struggling with feeling unworthy or like your past has disqualified you from your future, this one's for you.

    Key Takeaways

    ✨ Your darkest hours can become your greatest purpose

    ✨ Nothing you've been through disqualifies you from helping others or having purpose

    ✨ You don't need to publicize your story to live out your purpose

    ✨ Healing takes time—be patient with yourself

    ✨ You're not a vending machine—set boundaries and prioritize yourself

    ✨ It's OKAY to be happy, joyful, and walk confidently in your purpose

    Ready to Transform Your Life?

    If this episode resonated with you and you're ready to work through past pain, find your purpose, and build genuine confidence—I'd love to support you!

    Book Your Free Discovery Call

    Let's talk about where you are, where you want to go, and how life coaching can help you get there.

    Schedule your complimentary discovery call

    You don't have to do this alone.

    Grateful,

    Dani

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  • 203. Becoming the Version of You That Feels Like Home | Feel Peaceful, Excited, and Like Yourself Again
    Oct 16 2025

    Are you ready to show up as the best version of yourself? Know you need support getting there? Schedule your complimentary call with Dani here.

    Ever notice you show up as different versions of yourself depending on who you’re with or what’s going on? One version feels light and free — the “you” who laughs easily and feels close to God. Another feels heavy, guarded, or disconnected.

    In this episode, I’m sharing how to recognize the versions of you that show up in different seasons — and how to gently choose the one that feels most peaceful, authentic, and you.

    You’ll hear: ✨ Why it’s not inauthentic to have different “versions” of yourself ✨ How your environment shapes who shows up ✨ How to spend more time with the version of you that lights you up ✨ A prayer to help you return to peace

    This isn’t about doing more. It’s about coming home to who God made you to be.

    Much love,

    Dani

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    • how to feel like yourself again
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    • reconnect with God
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  • 202. The 3 S's of Suffering: Service, Silence, and Self-Doubt (How to Break Free After Decades of People-Pleasing)
    Oct 9 2025

    🐸 THE FROG IN THE KETTLE:

    Why do high-achieving, empathetic women (and men) wait until their 50s, 60s, or 70s to find their voice?

    Because they're like the frog in boiling water—so adaptable to suffering, they don't realize they deserve better.

    This episode explores:

    • The 3 S's of suffering: Service, Silence, Self-Doubt
    • Why you self-sabotage when life finally gets good
    • How to build capacity for joy when you've only known struggle
    • Why most women don't wake up until midlife (and why that's perfect timing)

    If you've spent decades putting everyone else first and finally realized "I'm not even on the totem pole"—this is your wake-up call.

    You're not selfish for wanting peace. You're not too late. You're right on time.

    READY TO STOP BEING THE FROG IN THE KETTLE?

    If you want support finding more joy, harmony, and purpose in your next season, schedule a discovery call with Dani here.

    So glad you're here, Dani

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  • 201. You're Not Disqualified - Breaking Free from Secret Shame and Regret!
    Sep 23 2025

    Sick and tired of the past holding you back?--Schedule your free call with Dani here, and talk about your next steps working with her directly.

    Hi friend,

    This may be one of my favorite episodes I’ve ever put out there. If you’re struggling with shame and regret, please put your airpods on and listen to this episode twice. And if you feel the stirring from God and you want to step into your future without the past controlling you, schedule your free call with me and we can see what your next steps are.

    May this episode bless you and help you.

    Grateful you’re here,

    Dani

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    Remember: God's not done with you. That longing in your heart is still there for a reason.

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  • 200. The 4 Things I Do When Life Feels Heavy
    Sep 16 2025
    Why Sensitive People Struggle More (And What Helps)

    Hey beautiful friends! Ever feel like you're supposed to have it all together but you're secretly struggling?

    This episode is your permission slip to be human.

    Fresh off an incredible trip to Ireland, I'm getting real about hitting a melancholy patch and why that's totally okay and most importantly, how to get through it!

    Remember: This too shall pass (it may pass like a kidney stone, but it's gonna pass!)

    Need Help Creating Your Self-Care Plan?

    If you're thinking "Dani, I don't know how to take care of myself," I've got you!

    Book Your FREE 30-Minute Discovery Call

    In just 30 minutes, we'll:

    ✅ Identify what's draining your energy ✅ Discover what truly fills you up ✅ Create a simple action plan you can start today

    Grateful you’re here,

    Dani

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