A HOLY MESS | From Shame, Regret, Exhausted, Burnout To Boundaries, Emotional Healing, Christian Mindset, Recovery, Personal Growth Podcast Por Dani Sumner - Christian Life Coach & Faith Led Motivational Speaker Spiritual Director Mentor Christian Life Transformation Coach arte de portada

A HOLY MESS | From Shame, Regret, Exhausted, Burnout To Boundaries, Emotional Healing, Christian Mindset, Recovery, Personal Growth

A HOLY MESS | From Shame, Regret, Exhausted, Burnout To Boundaries, Emotional Healing, Christian Mindset, Recovery, Personal Growth

De: Dani Sumner - Christian Life Coach & Faith Led Motivational Speaker Spiritual Director Mentor Christian Life Transformation Coach
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Do you ever feel stuck, emotionally drained, or like you’re constantly striving but never “enough”? You’re in the right place!

Welcome to A HOLY MESS Podcast (ranked in the top 1% globally🎉), a podcast designed for you if you’re ready to break free and heal from self-doubt, burnout, and overgiving—so you can step into confidence, peace, God’s grace and purpose with clarity.

Each week, I share biblical wisdom, mindset shifts, and real conversations to help you:
✨ Overcome self-doubt and fear with faith-based confidence.
✨ Let go of striving and perfectionism and embrace God’s grace.
✨ Set healthy boundaries and stop people-pleasing without guilt.
✨ Heal from burnout, shame, regret, and emotional exhaustion.
✨ Renew your mind with God’s truth and step into your purpose.

There’s no magic wand to find more freedom, but there are practical tools that can help.

Even as Christians who sometimes feel unworthy and shame about our past, anxious about our future, or feel like we are not enough. There is so much more for us! There’s hope, joy, peace, fun, purpose, and a reason that YOU are on this planet.

If you’re ready to rediscover your worth, reconnect with God, and finally feel at peace, you’re in the right place.

We can have fun and laugh while trudging through our messes; this stuff doesn’t need to be dry and boring.
I can’t wait to journey with you.
Your new friend,
Dani

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  • 207. When Life Still Feels Heavy: How to Find Some Peace While It’s Still ‘Raining’
    Nov 25 2025

    What if healing isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass… but learning how to find peace while it’s still raining?

    While driving down the California coast in a torrential downpour, with full sunshine pouring through the windshield, God gave me a powerful epiphany that changed the way I see healing, peace, and inner resilience.

    For years I believed healing meant fixing circumstances, praying away the struggle, or finally getting to an “easier” season. But sometimes the rain doesn’t stop. What can change is our capacity, our perspective, and our ability to hold both suffering and joy at the same time.

    This episode is especially for you if you’re tired, overwhelmed, spiritually disconnected, or waiting for life to calm down before you let yourself breathe again.

    Scripture:

    • Hosea 2:15 — “I will make the Valley of Achor a door of hope.”
    • Joel 2:25 — “I will renew the years the locusts have eaten.”

    Song:

    • “Scars” by I Am They

    Quote:

    “You can’t change what happened in the past, but you can change how you frame it. We’re offered a range of different lenses: acceptance, forgiveness, and gratitude.” — Noelle Oxenhandler

    If this episode resonated and you’re ready to find peace in the storm, not just after it, I’d love to support you.

    📅 Book a Free Discovery Call Let’s talk about where you’re at and how we can work together to help you find more serenity, purpose, and emotional freedom.

    👉 Click here to schedule your discovery call

    Glad you’re here,

    Dani :)

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  • 206. The Third Act: Integrating Body, Mind & Soul for Your Future Self
    Nov 19 2025

    Ever feel like you've tried EVERYTHING—therapy, retreats, prayer meetings, all the books—but you're still struggling? This episode reveals what might be the missing piece: integrating your body into the healing process.

    Dani and Jim introduce The Third Act, a personalized coaching program that helps you birth the authentic essence of who you were created to be. It's not just about your past or present—it's about building the future you deserve.

    The Three Acts of Life

    ACT ONE: Formation The experiences that shaped you—childhood, relationships, choices made for you. The conditioning that formed your reactions to life.

    ACT TWO: The Awakening Waking up to patterns, hurt, and wrong turns. Many of us stay stuck here in coping mechanisms. (And that's okay—there's work to do.)

    ACT THREE: Coming Home Birthing the truest essence of who you are. Making peace with your past AND future. Integrating body, mind, and soul to become who you were always meant to be.

    Why Your Body Matters

    You are a triune being: Body, mind, and soul—one integrated whole made in God's image.

    The problem: We've abandoned our bodies because life abandoned us. We've become over-thinkers because we're under-feelers. Christian culture taught us to shame the flesh, but Jesus came in flesh and blood. Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit—it deserves honor and integration.

    The science: Trauma is encoded chemically and electrically in your body. Your nervous system holds experiences even when your mind doesn't. You can't think your way out of what's stored in your body.

    What The Third Act Includes

    30-50 personalized practices (you choose what works for YOU):

    • Movement & dance practices
    • Self-soothing techniques (child hug, breathwork)
    • Vagus nerve regulation
    • Visualization & future-self anchoring
    • StrengthsFinder assessment
    • Body-mind-soul integration work

    Simple practice to try now—The Child Hug:

    1. Right hand in left armpit, left hand on right shoulder
    2. Sway gently and breathe
    3. Say: "I'm not leaving you. I'm here with you."
    Who This Is For

    ✓ You've tried everything but still struggle ✓ You're hijacked by anxiety, anger, or reactive patterns ✓ You know there's MORE but don't know how to access it ✓ You're an over-thinker who's actually an under-feeler ✓ You want to make peace with your body, not war with it ✓ You love Jesus but feel lost

    Real talk: 90% of Dani's clients have never had a coach before. You're in good company.

    The Goal: Future You

    That peaceful, integrated version of you 10 years from now? She already exists in God's hand. The Third Act helps you anchor to your future self and build the bridge from here to there.

    Success looks like: Moving through a trigger in 3 minutes instead of being stuck for days. The goal isn't to never be triggered—it's to feel it, honor it, release it, and move forward.

    🎯 Book Your FREE 30-Minute Discovery Call

    What happens:

    • Complete a simple intake for a temperature read
    • Dani explains how the program works specifically for YOU
    • Discover if this is your next step
    • ZERO PRESSURE (Dani only works with great-fit clients)

    The program: 3-6 months of personalized coaching, one-on-one time, practices, accountability, and support.

    Investment in yourself: Your money is going somewhere—supplements, therapy, books. What if you invested in something that actually moves you forward?

    Key Takeaways
    1. You are body, mind, and soul—all equally important
    2. Trauma lives in your body, not just your memory
    3. The goal is integration and authenticity, not perfection
    4. Your body is not the enemy—it's God's temple
    5. Future-focused healing honors your past
    6. The Third Act births who you were always meant to be

    Your Third Act is waiting. Book your discovery call now!

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  • 205. Tired of the ‘Shoulds’? Reclaim Intimacy & Connection with God in 15 Minutes a Day
    Nov 12 2025

    Hey friend! Today we’re talking about growing our relationship with our Creator, AND why the phrase "quiet time" makes me cringe and how I learned to connect with God in ways that actually work for who HE made ME to be.

    If you've ever felt like you're not doing devotions "right" or that your relationship with God doesn't look like everyone else's, this episode is for YOU.

    It's time to let go of the shoulds and discover what actually feeds your soul.

    What You'll Learn:

    ✨ Why traditional "quiet time" doesn't work for everyone (and that's okay!)

    💪 What a "spiritual workout" looks like and how to create your own

    🏃‍♀️ How movement, dancing, and even naps can be part of intimacy with God

    📖 Permission to skip scriptures that bring shame instead of empowerment

    🧠 The mind-body-spirit connection you can't ignore

    Key Quotes:

    "You may have been your mom's accident, but you are not God's accident. You are here for such a time as this."

    "I don't believe my thoughts until I move my body."

    "Scripture was meant to empower you. If there are scriptures tearing your soul apart, don't read them right now."

    "I'm so exhausted from trying to figure everything out on my own."

    My Spiritual Workout Includes:
    • Gentle morning movement (12-minute circuit)
    • Brain dumping & intentional journaling
    • Dancing to worship music
    • Nature meditation walks (praying and listening prayer)
    • Sauna time for body + soul
    • Rest when needed (yes, naps!)
    Ready to Go Deeper?

    Book Your Free Discovery Call

    If this episode resonated with you, let's talk! I work with women who are tired of religious "shoulds" and ready for authentic intimacy with God.

    During our call, we'll:

    • Explore where you're feeling stuck spiritually
    • Identify what's blocking your intimacy with God
    • Discover if coaching together is right for you
    • Create a vision for your spiritual workout
    • Create a vision for YOUR FUTURE. You deserve a clear vision for what your heart desires.

    No pressure. No shoulds. Just honest conversation.

    👉 Schedule Your Discovery Call Here

    Remember: There's no formula for connecting with the Lord. You have PERMISSION to do it differently. You have permission to evolve.

    God bless you! 💛

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    🤳🏼 ALSO, let's connect on social media: Facebook, Instagram -> Facebook and Instagram

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Love all the realistic talk

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Dani gets goes deep to discuss some of life's hardest challenges. She reminds me that I am human and that we are loved and cherished! This is a great resource for women, especially busy Mama's!

I love Dani's realness!

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I found your podcast within the last six months or so. I was looking for some perspective and encouragement because I struggle with feelings and thoughts of faliure, regret, loss, and depression. Thank you for all the work you put into this!

Glad I found you!

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Love your energy and being down to earth. I am just starting your podcasts. so looking forward to the journey

Love your energy

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Real. Applicable to real life, the day to day, where the real battle and healing is for all of us.

A blessing to those truly seeking God in the day to day

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