The Healing Trilogy

The complete three works of Ben Cole-Edwards.

HEALING – You Are Not Your Parents’ Thoughts

A powerful exploration of childhood trauma, narcissistic parenting, and emotional reprogramming. This audiobook gives you the clarity and validation you never received growing up and shows you how to reclaim your peace.

ReParenting – How To Parent When You Weren’t Parented

For anyone raising children while healing themselves. This is your guide to becoming the present, loving parent you needed even if you never had one.

When Chaos Is Normality

The raw and honest memoir of Ben Cole-Edwards. Part healing journey, part truth-telling. This is what happens when you grow up believing that trauma is love and silence is safety.

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Beautifully tragic

This audiobook was fantastic and unforgettable. There is a lot of advice for people who are struggling to forgive the past. Ben adds his experiences that make this relatable and it’s unfortunate that no matter where we are in the world we can have the same parents and go through some of the same experiences. This book helps identifying and understanding so we can grow as new parents.

Felt like talking to a friend

A much wiser friend who’d been through similar shit and come out the other side stronger and healthier but a friend nonetheless. It didn’t feel clinical and scientific, it felt relatable and I appreciate that.

Excellent

I found Ben on TikTok. He has helped me heal through going no contact with my father and stepmother. If you’re considering no contact or are healing through your own journey too, I highly recommend Ben. To Ben, thank you.

Open, Honest and Heartfelt

I stumbled across a tiktok from the author and for the first time in forever I felt I wasn’t alone. I couldn’t wait to listen to his books! And they do not disappoint! Only someone that has been through it can understand it and open your eyes to the start of healing. Great tips to heal and explanations as to why you do things the way you do. You are not your parent! Break the cycle with Ben’s experience and guidance.

Is this what having a brother is like?

I do not have a big brother, I have a little brother that is my mother’s twin. I cannot ever do anything right.
Listening to this makes me feel like I have a big brother looking out for me. Letting me know I’m not alone at all. Nor am I ‘dramatic’ or a ‘diva’ for calling out my parents. I’m so sorry the author has been through such turmoil, and I am so grateful he wrote this. I need more.