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  • Ep. 154: How to Conquer your Impostor Syndrome with Stevon

    Ep. 154: How to Conquer your Impostor Syndrome with Stevon
    Apr 13 2026
    In XYBM 154, we sit down with Stevon Lewis, a speaker, author, psychotherapist, and the host of the podcast, "How to Talk to High Achievers About Anything," produced by LWC Studios. He explains imposter syndrome as fear of being exposed as a fraud, often rooted in childhood criticism, conditional affirmation, or being “the only one” in certain spaces, including Black people in majority-white environments.

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    Guest: @stevonlewismft (https://www.instagram.com/stevonlewismft/)
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    1 h y 55 m
  • BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 153 with Billy Council

    BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 153 with Billy Council
    Mar 30 2026
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 153) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 153: How to Build Trust with Young Black Men with Billy Council" — it was released on March 23, 2026.

    In XYBM 153, we sit down with Billy Council, a dedicated advocate for social justice, equity, and community empowerment. Billy reflects on realizing he needed healing at 49 after losing a Harlem City Council race—an experience that resurfaced unprocessed trauma from childhood, his mother’s addiction, and surviving being shot six times at 19.

    He also shares how coaching basketball became a pathway to mentorship and purpose, how becoming a father while losing his own father forced him to grow up, and offers insight on co-parenting, emotional presence, and the importance of creating meaningful traditions with your children.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

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    Guest: @billycouncilharlem (https://www.instagram.com/billycouncilharlem/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    9 m
  • Ep. 153: How to Build Trust with Young Black Men with Billy Council

    Ep. 153: How to Build Trust with Young Black Men with Billy Council
    Mar 23 2026
    In XYBM 153, we sit down with Billy Council, a dedicated advocate for social justice, equity, and community empowerment. Billy reflects on realizing he needed healing at 49 after losing a Harlem City Council race—an experience that resurfaced unprocessed trauma from childhood, his mother’s addiction, and surviving being shot six times at 19.

    He also shares how coaching basketball became a pathway to mentorship and purpose, how becoming a father while losing his own father forced him to grow up, and offers insight on co-parenting, emotional presence, and the importance of creating meaningful traditions with your children.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
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    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
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    Host: @expressyourselfblackman
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    Guest: @billycouncilharlem (https://www.instagram.com/billycouncilharlem/)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    1 h y 59 m
  • XYBM Clips: Staying hurt is a choice

    XYBM Clips: Staying hurt is a choice
    Mar 18 2026
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 152) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 152: The Invisible Battle Black Men Fight Daily with Matt Capone" — it was released on March 9, 2026.

    In XYBM 152, we sit down with Matt Capone, known for his savvy wordplay, outgoing personality, and captivating stage presence. Matt opens up about several recent losses—friends, a godbrother, and his 90-year-old grandmother—while balancing entrepreneurship, fatherhood, and grief. He also shares how poetry helps him reflect, recounts his time in prison and anger management, and speaks about the trauma from a past sexual relationship.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
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    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
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    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
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    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    Host: @expressyourselfblackman
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    Guest: @matt___capone (https://www.instagram.com/matt___capone)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    9 m
  • XYBM Clips: This is why some Black men disconnect from therapy

    XYBM Clips: This is why some Black men disconnect from therapy
    Mar 17 2026
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 152) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 152: The Invisible Battle Black Men Fight Daily with Matt Capone" — it was released on March 9, 2026.

    In XYBM 152, we sit down with Matt Capone, known for his savvy wordplay, outgoing personality, and captivating stage presence. Matt opens up about several recent losses—friends, a godbrother, and his 90-year-old grandmother—while balancing entrepreneurship, fatherhood, and grief. He also shares how poetry helps him reflect, recounts his time in prison and anger management, and speaks about the trauma from a past sexual relationship.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    Host: @expressyourselfblackman
    (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @matt___capone (https://www.instagram.com/matt___capone)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    9 m
  • BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 152 with Matt Capone

    BEST MOMENTS of Ep. 152 with Matt Capone
    Mar 16 2026
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 152) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 152: The Invisible Battle Black Men Fight Daily with Matt Capone" — it was released on March 9, 2026.

    In XYBM 152, we sit down with Matt Capone, known for his savvy wordplay, outgoing personality, and captivating stage presence. Matt opens up about several recent losses—friends, a godbrother, and his 90-year-old grandmother—while balancing entrepreneurship, fatherhood, and grief. He also shares how poetry helps him reflect, recounts his time in prison and anger management, and speaks about the trauma from a past sexual relationship.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    Host: @expressyourselfblackman
    (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @matt___capone (https://www.instagram.com/matt___capone)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    7 m
  • Ep. 152: The Invisible Battle Black Men Fight Daily with Matt Capone

    Ep. 152: The Invisible Battle Black Men Fight Daily with Matt Capone
    Mar 9 2026
    In XYBM 152, we sit down with Matt Capone, known for his savvy wordplay, outgoing personality, and captivating stage presence. Matt opens up about several recent losses—friends, a godbrother, and his 90-year-old grandmother—while balancing entrepreneurship, fatherhood, and grief. He also shares how poetry helps him reflect, recounts his time in prison and anger management, and speaks about the trauma from a past sexual relationship.

    Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.

    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
    ————————————
    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    Host: @expressyourselfblackman
    (https://www.instagram.com/expressyourselfblackman)
    Guest: @matt___capone (https://www.instagram.com/matt___capone)
    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ExpressYourselfBlackMan
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/expressyourselfblackman
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    2 h y 15 m
  • XYBM Clips: Black man, you’re carrying too much again

    XYBM Clips: Black man, you’re carrying too much again
    Mar 4 2026
    If you want to listen to the full episode (XYBM 151) from this clip, search for the title: "Ep. 151: God has NOT ABANDONED you" — it was released on February 23, 2026.

    In XYBM 151, I open up about a season I recently went through where I genuinely felt abandoned by God — and the uncomfortable truth I had to face about what was actually happening beneath that feeling.

    I talk about what it looks like to shift disagreements before they turn into destructive arguments, how betrayal trauma hits men differently when you’ve been cheated on or crossed by someone you trusted, and how to heal without becoming hardened or passing that pain onto the people you love.

    If you’re in a season of spiritual and mental growth that feels heavy or confusing, this episode will meet you there. Tune in on all podcast streaming platforms, including YouTube.
    Leave a 5-star review ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ if you found value in this episode or a previous episode!

    BOOK US FOR SPEAKING + BRAND DEALS:
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    Explore our diverse collaboration opportunities as the leading and fastest-growing Black men's mental health platform on social media. Let's create something dope for your brand/company.

    Take the first step by filling out the form on our website: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/speaking-brand-deals

    HOW TO FIND A DOPE, BLACK THERAPIST:
    ————————————
    We are teaching a FREE webinar on how to find a dope, Black therapist – sign up for the next session here: https://event.webinarjam.com/channel/black-therapist

    All webinar attendees will have the opportunity to be paired with a Black mental health professional in Safe Haven. We have had 5K+ people sign up for this webinar in the past. Don’t miss out. Slots are limited.

    SAFE HAVEN:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven is a holistic healing platform built for Black men by Black men. In Safe Haven, you will be connected with a Black mental health professional, so you can finally heal from the things you find it difficult to talk about AND you will receive support from like-minded Black men that are all on their healing journey, so you don’t have to heal alone.

    Join Safe Haven Now: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven

    SUPPORT THE PLATFORM:
    ————————————
    Safe Haven: https://www.expressyourselfblackman.com/safe-haven
    Monthly Donation: https://buy.stripe.com/eVa5o0fhw1q3guYaEE
    Merchandise: https://shop.expressyourselfblackman.com

    FOLLOW US:
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    6 m