Harriet Lerner
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Harriet Lerner

Harriet Lerner, Ph.D., is one of our nation's most loved and respected relationship experts. Renowned for her work on the psychology of women and family relationships, she served as a staff psychologist at the Menninger Clinic for more than two decades. A distinguished lecturer, workshop leader, and psychotherapist, she is the author of The Dance of Anger and other bestselling books. She is also, with her sister, an award-winning children's book writer. She and her husband are therapists in Lawrence, Kansas, and have two sons.

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    • The Dance of Anger

    • A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships
    • By: Harriet Lerner
    • Narrated by: Barbara Caruso
    • Length: 6 hrs and 50 mins
    • Unabridged
    • Overall
      4.5 out of 5 stars 341
    • Performance
      4.5 out of 5 stars 291
    • Story
      4.5 out of 5 stars 290

    In this engaging and eminently wise book, Dr. Lerner teaches both women and men to identify the true sources of anger and to use it as a powerful vehicle for creating lasting change....

    • 5 out of 5 stars
    • Quick, concise, tactics and a good narrator

    • By Mallin on 05-18-18

    Regular price: $23.95

    • Why Won't You Apologize?

    • Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts
    • By: Harriet Lerner PhD
    • Narrated by: Cassandra Campbell
    • Length: 4 hrs and 36 mins
    • Unabridged
    • Overall
      4.5 out of 5 stars 383
    • Performance
      4.5 out of 5 stars 338
    • Story
      4.5 out of 5 stars 329

    Renowned psychologist and best-selling author of The Dance of Anger sheds new light on the two most important words in the English language - I'm sorry....

    • 5 out of 5 stars
    • I'm sorry

    • By D. Thomas on 10-19-17

    Regular price: $11.33

    • The Dance of Connection

    • By: Harriet Lerner
    • Narrated by: Harriet Lerner
    • Length: 4 hrs and 38 mins
    • Abridged
    • Overall
      4.5 out of 5 stars 251
    • Performance
      4 out of 5 stars 206
    • Story
      4.5 out of 5 stars 199

    In her most affirming and life-changing book yet, Dr. Harriet Lerner teaches us how to restore love and connection with the people who matter the most....

    • 3 out of 5 stars
    • Listen at 1.5x speed

    • By Tanya on 12-08-15

    Regular price: $15.96

    • The Dance of Intimacy

    • A Woman's Guide to Courageous Acts of Change in Key Relationships
    • By: Harriet Lerner Ph.D.
    • Narrated by: Harriet Lerner
    • Length: 2 hrs and 52 mins
    • Abridged
    • Overall
      4.5 out of 5 stars 167
    • Performance
      4 out of 5 stars 121
    • Story
      4.5 out of 5 stars 119

    The Dance of Intimacy takes a careful look at relationships where intimacy is most challenged by too much emotional distance, too much intensity, or simply too much pain....

    • 3 out of 5 stars
    • Dissapointing

    • By Ingrid on 05-26-12

    Regular price: $15.96

    • Marriage Rules

    • A Manual for the Married and the Coupled Up
    • By: Harriet Lerner Ph.D.
    • Narrated by: Natalie Ross
    • Length: 5 hrs and 15 mins
    • Unabridged
    • Overall
      4.5 out of 5 stars 78
    • Performance
      4 out of 5 stars 63
    • Story
      4.5 out of 5 stars 61

    Following a unique format perfect for today’s world, the renowned author of The Dance of Anger gives us more than 100 rules that cover all the hot spots in long-term relationships....

    • 5 out of 5 stars
    • an excellent read!

    • By Melinda on 02-13-12

    Regular price: $19.99

    • Fear and Other Uninvited Guests

    • Tackling the Anxiety, Fear, and Shame That Keeps Us from Optimal Living
    • By: Harriet Lerner, Ph.D
    • Narrated by: Harriet Lerner
    • Length: 3 hrs and 44 mins
    • Abridged
    • Overall
      4 out of 5 stars 91
    • Performance
      4.5 out of 5 stars 55
    • Story
      4.5 out of 5 stars 51

    Unhappiness, says best-selling author Harriet Lerner, is fueled by three key emotions: anxiety, fear, and shame....

    • 5 out of 5 stars
    • very insightful and realistic

    • By Marty on 12-27-07

    Regular price: $15.96

    • The Dance of Deception

    • A Guide to Authenticity and Truth Telling in Women's Relationships
    • By: Harriet Lerner PhD
    • Narrated by: Harriet Lerner
    • Length: 2 hrs and 59 mins
    • Abridged
    • Overall
      4 out of 5 stars 57
    • Performance
      4.5 out of 5 stars 39
    • Story
      4.5 out of 5 stars 38

    From sexual faking to family secrets, Dr. Harriet Lerner reveals how the struggle toward truth-telling is at the center of our deepest longings for intimacy, authenticity, and self-regard....

    • 4 out of 5 stars
    • Good Message

    • By Gina on 09-01-15

    Regular price: $15.96

    • Life Preservers

    • Staying Afloat in Love and Life
    • By: Harriet Lerner
    • Narrated by: Harriet Lerner
    • Length: 3 hrs and 1 min
    • Abridged
    • Overall
      4.5 out of 5 stars 12
    • Performance
      4.5 out of 5 stars 11
    • Story
      4.5 out of 5 stars 11

    A practical and invigorating compendium of instruction from one of America's wisest self-help writers....

    • 5 out of 5 stars
    • Direct, clear wisdom

    • By Karen Edmondson on 02-08-18

    Regular price: $12.54

    • The Mother Dance

    • How Children Change Your Life
    • By: Harriet Lerner
    • Narrated by: Suzanne Toren
    • Length: 9 hrs and 38 mins
    • Unabridged
    • Overall
      4.5 out of 5 stars 11
    • Performance
      4 out of 5 stars 10
    • Story
      4.5 out of 5 stars 10

    From the celebrated author of The Dance of Anger comes an extraordinary book about mothering and how it transforms us - and all our relationships - inside and out....

    • 3 out of 5 stars
    • Decent information with slight author bias

    • By Classic Movie Mom on 10-23-17

    Regular price: $28.51

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