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She Comes First

The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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She Comes First

By: Ian Kerner
Narrated by: Ian Kerner
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""She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there."" —AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are ""ill-cliterate."" But in the pages of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun and informative, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

©2004 Ian Kerner; (P)2005 HarperCollins Publishers, Inc. Education Personal Development Psychology Psychology & Mental Health Sexual & Reproductive Health
Comprehensive Information • Practical Techniques • Clear Instructions • Educational Content • Detailed Anatomy Explanations

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Super educational and informative, even for a woman. Can't wait to test this out with my husband...

Don't leave your sex life to chance

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There is little doubt that the author knows what he's talking about, and he is disarming at admitting his own shortcomings until he discovered cunnilingus. His advice is detailed and supported by anatomical descriptions. The book is considerably too long, and repetitive in places; it would have worked better as a long article. But it is the best available. My only reason for downgrading was these style issues; as to content it is excellent. In the second edition he should get a female co-author to supplement his (admittedly) second-hand descriptions of how it all feels to the woman.

Good stuff

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pretty much what everyone else is saying its an okay read but the author does sound a bit out of place reading it, still he helps with some toppics....

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An author narrating his own book is almost always a bad idea and this book is no exception. This book would have greatly benefited from a professional reader. Additionally, while it contained a fair amount of useful and interesting content, the author’s use of language was stilted and his injection of quirky humor, including chapter headings like “Raindrops keep falling on my head”, seemed inappropriate and made it a less than optimal listening experience.

Interesting content, poorly presented.

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My friend recommended this book to me several years ago. I finally listened to it. It completely gave me a new outlook on how to please my wife. My wife has told me that the techniques I apply have really elevated here overall sexual experience and bettered her climax.

Eye opening

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voice was funny but the info was great. even came with some routines to build practice

great and informative

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No me gustaron las metáforas que usa, muchas instrucciones y la voz no es muy agradable.

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This book is great. It help me understand the anatomy of the body. It teaches technique and suggestions. And it helps its readers to understand the woman's perspective.

Great Book

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I choose this book mostly because I was curious about what the author was going to say. I was surprised to realize I actually knew very little about my own “parts” or the process of arousal itself.
The narrator’s voice was both the best and the worst thing about listening to this book versus reading it. The tone and inflections he choose ensured it felt much more academic than voyeuristic - but the tone and the inflections...man.
I’d still recommend it. I learned a lot.

Informative even for women

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I wasn't sure how much an comprehensive an audio book would be on this topic, but Ian is very descriptive in his dictation and the enthusiasm and tone he uses in his instruction definitely reinforced the joy of cunnilingus and left me looking forward to my next tasty meal.

Great listen. Very educational, descriptive, and entertaining.

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