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She Comes First

The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

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She Comes First

By: Ian Kerner
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""She Comes First is quite simply the best guide to oral sex out there."" —AskMen.com

The essential guidebook to oral sex, She Comes First offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women

As women everywhere will attest, men are ""ill-cliterate."" But in the pages of She Comes First, the mystery of female satisfaction is solved, and the tongue is proven mightier than the sword. According to Ian Kerner—sex therapist and evangelist of the female orgasm—oral sex isn't just foreplay, it's coreplay, and is simply the best way to lead a woman through the entire process of arousal time and time again.

Fun and informative, She Comes First is an encyclopedia of female pleasure, detailing dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman and ensuring mutual sexual fulfillment.

 Education Personal Development Sexual & Reproductive Health Psychology Psychology & Mental Health
Comprehensive Information • Practical Techniques • Clear Instructions • Educational Content • Detailed Anatomy Explanations

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I purchased this audio after learning about the author in the byline of an article he had written in the past that I really got some benefit out of. This book is great if and only if you are looking to learn ONE thing, and that's how to be pretty darned good at pleasing your spouse (or any other willing woman I guess) with your tongue and fingers, etc.

It seems that the author has something against vaginal intercourse, and this comes through in his writing. My take away is that he considers intercourse as secondary to cunnilingus, and this book focuses entirely on the latter, and almost seems to downplay the enjoyment a woman is able to get from intercourse. My wife, although not someone who generally enjoys oral over actual intercourse, requires penetration to orgasm even when she gets "revved up" by oral sex.

Ladies, if you like receiving great oral, buy this audiobook for your man. Guys, if you like giving it and your lady does too, get the book. It has a wealth of information, probably more than most textbooks on female anatomy. It's pretty clear the author has done his homework in that department.

Actual "case studies" I'm not so sure about. There is definitely a slant, and the author seems intent on making cunnilingus the norm as the primary source of sexual pleasure for a woman. He may correct in that most women can get off easier using these techniques than via penetration, it just doesn't apply too much to my particular relationship.

He's passionate about the subject though. I've gotta give him that!

Not quite what I expected....

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This is not a "porn" type book. It is an actual manual. It is VERY, VERY specific....and VERY, VERY accurate.

Must have

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If you can put up with a nasally sounding Beta male trying to speak in flowery words about oral sex on a woman, this one is for you. some good information, but he should stick to writing and leave narrating to someone better.

The voice is awful.

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Simply put, this book helps you understand her body’s ebb and flows of sexual tensions and feelings. Very well narrated and down right humorous at times. Definitely something that can be added to my arsenal in trying to better please my Love. Who could argue with “better”? 😉

Glad I purchased this book 📚

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My wife thanks you as well as i. Wish i would have known this when i was in twenties.

Mmm mmmm good

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