• When Things Fall Apart

  • Heart Advice for Difficult Times
  • By: Pema Chodron
  • Narrated by: Christy Meyer
  • Length: 5 hrs and 18 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (149 ratings)

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When Things Fall Apart

By: Pema Chodron
Narrated by: Christy Meyer
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How can we live our lives when everything seems to fall apart—when we are continually overcome by fear, anxiety, and pain? The answer, Pema Chödrön suggests, might be just the opposite of what you expect. Here, in her most beloved and acclaimed work, Pema shows that moving toward painful situations and becoming intimate with them can open up our hearts in ways we never before imagined. Drawing from traditional Buddhist wisdom, she offers life-changing tools for transforming suffering and negative patterns into habitual ease and boundless joy.

©1997, 2016 Pema Chodron (P)2022 Shambhala Publications

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  • 07-28-23

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When you want to send one out (or don’t want to because you’re too scared, ashamed, whatever), this book will be one of your best friends. Just need Yourself and this book. I recommend listening more than once and tracking how it sounds diff each time through❤️sending peace and love and my greatest appreciation to pema and her teachers for sharing their wisdom

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Much needed read.

Found this book the day I was broken up with and definitely a good read if you’re going through a hard time. There was a lot useful advice and reassurance. Enjoyed the soft spoken narration, too.

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I loved it all- mostly Tong Lin and other meditation techniques all I will apply and use

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Love listening again

Wonderful voice for the content. Beautiful flow and amazing material to connect with. It often helps me sleep!

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Wise and insightful

This, like many other books sharing the Dharma, provided wise and insightful thoughts, provided new perspectives on how to find peace and belonging, and helped me be more mindful.

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Good advice.

Love this book. Very informative. So many good techniques. Will listen again. Thank you for sharing.

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  • 01-04-23

Wonderful

Many great lessons. I highly recommend it. Here’s a few of my favorite quotes:

“The Path is the goal”

“Fear is a natural reaction to moving closer to the truth “

“Don’t take anything for granted and don’t believe everything you’re told”

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Are certain parts of the book repeated?

This book resonated deeply with me, capturing the essence of its philosophy with simplicity and clarity. However, I found myself encountering repeated passages throughout, leaving me uncertain whether this was intentional within the book's structure or a flaw in the recording. Nonetheless, the recurring messages served as potent reminders, reinforcing the book's timeless wisdom. Classic Pema ❤️‍🩹

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  • 07-17-23

Life changing. Read 5 times.

Totally worth it. Read it 5 times. Will read again. So much wisdom. Yes. Yes. Yes.

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Meditation as a tool

Excellent practical advice for dealing with every day life stress. Great resources for using you stress and trauma to get to a better place

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