• For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition

  • What You Need to Know About the Inner Lives of Men
  • By: Shaunti Feldhahn
  • Narrated by: Shaunti Feldhahn
  • Length: 4 hrs and 8 mins
  • 4.6 out of 5 stars (1,659 ratings)

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By: Shaunti Feldhahn
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Discover the truth he wants you to know! The man in your life is keeping secrets. They’re so deep inside he barely knows they're there, much less how to talk to you about them. Yet he genuinely wants you to "get" him - to understand his inner life, his fears, his needs.... In her landmark best seller For Women Only, Shaunti Feldhahn reveals what every woman - single or married - needs to know. Based on rigorous research with thousands of men, Shaunti delivers one eye-opening revelation after another, including:

  • Why your respect means more to him than your love
  • How he feels deep inside about his role as provider
  • What it means for a man to be so visually "wired"
  • Why sex for him is primarily emotional, not physical
  • What he most wishes he could say to you

Now, in this expanded and updated edition, you'll find insights from the latest brain research plus an all-new chapter that shows what’s really going on when he seems to "check out". (You’ll be surprised and pleased.) Millions worldwide have already experienced dramatic change in their relationships because of the "aha!" moments and practical ideas in this little audiobook. Discover how to love your man for who he really is - not who you think he is.

©2013 Multnomah Books; Rev Upd edition (P)2013 Oasis Audio

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Finally a book to help me understand men!

Very informational and enlightening. Something I plan on listening to again and again to keep reminding myself of the contents. Definitely a book I will recommend to all my female friends and family!

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Passionate and Well Thought Out

What made the experience of listening to For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition the most enjoyable?

The author was also the narrator, which made listening great.

What did you learn from For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition that you would use in your daily life?

I mostly got this since I wasn't meeting my hubbys sexual needs, but wanted to. This book really opened my eyes, and has made things much better between us. He is way happier now.

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Women: You think you know how men think, but this book will open your eyes and probably answer alot of questions and cause you to ask alot more to your hubby. Totally a game changer.

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Wonderful!

As I prepare to become a wife, in an age where independence for women is so vital, it is helpful to know how to have a successful and lasting relationship. 

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Recommended this to all my female friends

Would you listen to For Women Only, Revised and Updated Edition again? Why?

Yes. There's lots of new insights and also things we already (sort of) know but need to be reminded of.

Men really are very different than us women, and this book has helped me understand mine a bit better.

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book is amazing

I learned sooo much that I didn't know. I now feel like I have a better understanding of my man, and I feel like I can love him in a way that matter to him.

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eyes opened

this Audible opened my eyes concerning men's thoughts. it showed me where I went wrong.

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Must Read For All Women!

This is the best book to read to understand how men think. There were so many areas where I had to pause it just to ask my husband if what she just said was true, and it was! Now I have a little bit of insight on how his brain works and a better picture of what he needs from me to make our marriage unbreakable!

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Amazing Insight!

I'm so glad I took the time to read this book. I believe I have a deeper understanding and appreciation of how God "wired" my husband. I feel compassion for him because of my lack of support over the years. Now I'm motivated to better meet his needs because he's expressed to me several times how much he loves me and wants to be the man God wants him to be. I truly believe now that my support, respect and unconditional love for him will aid in him becoming the man God created him to be.

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Awesome and REAL!

Loved it. I had several "lightbulb" moments! I recommended it to all of my social media friends! Very thorough presentation of necessary facts.

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prepare for a self esteem book next.

I have a debilitating disease. I know my man loves me but now when I'm feeling down and out or in a wheelchair these words of inadequacy will reverberate through my mind. not at all happy with the message here.

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