Relationships over Rules

Seven Principles to Lead Gracefully and Love Generously

By: David Hoffman

Narrated by: David Hoffman, Ruby Fay Harris

Length: 4 hrs and 46 mins

Publisher's summary

Your path to purpose begins with people.

Relationships. We know that we need them, but busy schedules, financial pursuits, and self-serving agendas often distract us from the people God has placed in our lives.

Overcoming a childhood that lacked true relationships, CEO David Hoffman successfully broke the rules of a transaction-based world by founding a real estate company focused on meeting people where they are.

In Relationships over Rules, David shares his journey and seven principles you can adopt to build authentic relationships that will help you:

• Welcome opportunities for growth and service.
• Reach your potential regardless of your past.
• Live with perspective and gratitude.
• Fulfill the great plans God has for you.

Guided by true stories and application exercises, watch your life transform as you pour yourself into those around you. You can achieve lasting success when you put relationships first.

©2023 David Hoffman (P)2023 BroadStreet Publishing Group LLC

Must Read Book! Powerful personal story and message from David Hoffman

Relationships over Rules" by David Hoffman is a profound exploration of the power of human connections and the transformative impact they can have on our lives. Through his own personal journey and experiences, Hoffman offers readers an invaluable guide to building authentic relationships that can foster growth, resilience, and gratitude.

Hoffman's book is not just another self-help guide but a heartfelt testament to the enduring significance of human connections. He distills his wisdom into seven core principles that serve as the foundation for developing meaningful relationships. These principles resonate with authenticity, and as a reader, you can't help but feel that these are not just empty words but a genuine reflection of Hoffman's own life experiences.

One of the most compelling aspects of "Relationships over Rules" is the emphasis on personal growth and service. Hoffman underscores the idea that relationships should not be transactional but should be rooted in a genuine desire to help others and grow together. This perspective is a refreshing departure from the often superficial interactions that have become the norm in our fast-paced world.

Moreover, the book provides hope and encouragement to those who may feel hindered by their past mistakes or circumstances. Hoffman's message is clear: your past does not define your future. He offers inspiring stories and practical advice that demonstrate how anyone, regardless of their background, can reach their full potential by nurturing authentic relationships.

Hoffman's writing is both accessible and heartfelt, making it easy for readers to connect with his message. He seamlessly weaves personal anecdotes, real-life examples, and practical exercises into the narrative, making the book not only informative but also engaging.

"Relationships over Rules" ultimately invites readers to live with perspective and gratitude. By embracing the principles laid out in the book, individuals can transform their lives and develop a deeper appreciation for the connections they forge.

In conclusion, David Hoffman's "Relationships over Rules" is a compelling and inspiring read that challenges conventional notions of success and happiness. It reminds us that the true value in life lies not in rigid rules but in the genuine connections we cultivate. This book is a must-read for anyone seeking to enrich their relationships and find purpose and fulfillment in the process.

One of my new favorite books

I am grateful to call David a friend. He truly lives by the principles he has explained in this book. We need more people in this world like him and his wife that are not just concerned with satisfying themselves and their own interests. My favorite part is when David describes that in every relationship or goal that we have in life, we should not be concerned with what we can get out of it, but what we would be able to give through it. Great story and principles to live by.

Relatable

David’s storytelling and real life examples make his shared insights easy to apply in your own life. Highly recommend this read!

Great book and reminder of what is important

I have followed David for years. His perspective on relationships is something I’ve always admired. I never knew the whole story, and now I can even dig deeper in my own personal relationships.

A Life-Changing, must-read

Excellent, simple, and yet profound! Each principle and story was fresh, and when implemented will have a significant, lifelong impact on my life, family and business relationships!

David intertwined practical business/entrepreneurship experiences with biblical principles. One of the many new tools I found was the application of being an Expert, Friend and Present.

David’s courage and transparency to share lessons learned through personal experiences was captivating, keeping it very real. There was humor, ‘wow’ moments, and some tears shed.

This is a must-read to improve the quality of your relationships through proactive and generous sharing of our gifts. I can’t wait to listen again, and read the book!

Good read

Solid points and great story of redemption and how far one can go. Leadership principles are solid.

Inspiring and Challenging

If you are searching for a book that stands at the intersection of faith and business, David Hoffman’s new book “Relationships over Rules” is for you. I started working with David at his firm in Charlotte last year. After listening to this audiobook, I am so grateful to call David a friend and colleague. David doesn’t just talk the talk, he walks the walk. He is an unabashed Christian and the impact his faith has had on his life and the lives of those around him is shared powerfully in this book.

David’s story of his childhood is hard to listen to at times. But he draws you in and shows you through each season of life how he wrestled with God, his faith, and his purpose. It is a good reminder to all of us, especially entrepreneurs, that redemption and success can be found in every situation—although it may mean that we redefine what success means to us. David shows us that money, growth, and expansion are just one part of what it means to contribute to the marketplace, but those metrics do not add the most value to the business or the consumer.

Instead, David argues that we find real value by investing in the relationships we form with everyone God places in our lives. Even if you don’t think of yourself as a person of faith, the principles in this book are invaluable. They will not only prove successful in your business but will help you find balance and fulfillment as you do the work you were put here to do.

The audiobook is short, well-read by the author, and something you can listen to over and over again.

Embodiment of Leadership

This book proves to be an indispensable resource for faith-based leaders and individuals vested with the task of shaping organizational culture. David's portrayal of genuine success, achieved through the profound power of love and compassion towards others while building cohesive teams, serves as an inspirational model.

David's narrative exemplifies the central role of honoring Christ through mutual respect and empathy to foster a strong and thriving organization.

Instilling and embodying this spirit among all our leaders is vital to drive positive change.

I Speedily Read This Because I Wanted David To Overcome!

You will be engaged and challenged in every way.

Be careful. Once you start it up, you won’t want to turn it off. I even fast-forwarded to the end within the first hour of reading the book because I wanted resolution for David for the abuse and neglect he endured.

It is profound but understandable.

It is illustrative without being exhaustive.

It is contextualized according to the expertise of the author, but extends into every arena of life with ease.

It is authentic and genuine without gushy-ness and self-therapy.

It will inspire your life for positive change to change the lives of those you encounter.