• Don't Believe the Swipe

  • Finding Love Without Losing Yourself
  • By: Mandy Hale
  • Narrated by: Emily Ellet
  • Length: 6 hrs and 17 mins
  • 4.7 out of 5 stars (109 ratings)

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Online dating. Dating apps. Texting. Social media. Endless swiping in search of forever love. It seems like the more ways technology offers to "connect" us, the less connected we actually are. Modern dating is not for the faint of heart!

Don't Believe the Swipe is not your mother's dating guide. It isn't about "landing a man" or learning to "think like a man" or "getting any man to fall in love with you"; it's about falling in love with yourself and then extending that love to every aspect of your life - including your love life. It's about learning to date without surrendering your power. It's about choosing yourself, regardless of whether someone swipes right or swipes left.

Funny, fresh, and relevant to today's crazy dating world, this book is sure to become your go-to modern dating guide. New York Times best-selling author Mandy Hale draws on her own hilarious and often jaw-dropping experiences to illustrate what it means to stop believing the swipe and start finding love without losing yourself.

There is a way to date with dignity, to refuse to let the swipe rule your life, to stand confident in your worth, and to not settle for less than you deserve. This book is that way.

©2021 Mandy Hale (P)2021 eChristian

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Loved it

I wish I read this sooner. this was an amazing guy to online dating and a great help to empower yourself and boost your confidence. every woman should read this who is dating online.

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The book I thought I didn't need!

Dating is exhausting but thank you for the courage to not let the swipe rule my life.

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Excellent listen!!

Loved every minute of your story! Thanks for sharing! Lots of great nuggets in here.

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Loved it

I absolutely loved this book! I wish it had been out last year when I decided to start dating! Thank you, Mandy, for this handy-dandy book because it has already come in handy! ❤️📖

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Amazing

Best book I’ve consumed in a long time! It has changed my life! 10/10 I recommend.

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I'm a guy and this is incorrect

The author was wise to write a book for women because if they wrote it for men I doubt it would have gotten any good ratings. Online dating is far harder for men so she took the easy way and wrote it for women. In the book she says men can have several women hit like on them...that is a lie. Often men must swipe on thousands of women just to get a like. This is why good quality men who have a job and things to do don't use the apps. I am only reading it to learn what tactics women on apps use but my advice is unless you are meeting good quality men on a consistent basis on the apps then it's best not to use them. Dating apps will make you lazy and fill your head with lies. All these men saying you're beautiful and acting nice just want to hit it and quit it. If you are not careful it will turn you into a crazy delusional woman. Again use it if you are meeting mostly good men but run if a majority are bad . Stick to the real world and like the book says don't believe the swipe.

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NEEDED THIS.

This book was presented to me at the perfect time. 10/10 recommend!! Go get this, even if you are in a relationship, single or just like me, coming out of and healing from a horrible breakup! I'm serious. If you THINK you might want to read it, that means you should!

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A Must Read For Single Ladies

I absolutely loved this book. Being single and dating can be emotionally draining and exhausting. Mandy really helped me understand why things happened and what they meant . This book is very empowering and informative.

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Good book

Good insights, good advice, “you are the Sun” never forget. I could relate to some of the experiences, and reading the book gave me a new perspective on dating and expectations. It was a good book, and I really enjoyed it. Great job!

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GREAT advice for single women

I feel like the best parts of the book came several chapters in...but man, once I got to the meat of the book...Mandy really punched me in the gut with some truth. I loved this book...so much that I will probably listen to it over and over again to really have some of these things sink in.
Only part that annoyed me was the way she prounounced “remember” in her “Rules to Remember” at the end of each chapter 😂 Small annoyance for an otherwise powerful read.

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