Self Criticism

The relentless pursuit of high self-esteem has become a virtual religion - and a tyrannical one at that. Our ultracompetitive culture tells us we need to be constantly above average to feel good about ourselves, but there is always someone more attractive, successful, or intelligent than we are. And even when we do manage to grab hold of high self-esteem for a brief moment, we can't seem to keep it. Our sense of self-worth goes up and down like a ping-pong ball, rising and falling in lockstep with our latest success or failure.

Perhaps you want to be nicer to yourself but don’t really know how to get there. Or maybe you’re someone who assumes self-criticism is a permanent part of your personality. Rest assured you’re not alone. Millions of people struggle with the toll that excessive self-criticism takes on their minds, energy levels, jobs, and relationships. And problems with self-talk vary dramatically from one person to the next: they can appear as mild but persistent inner criticism, full-blown self-loathing, or the pain of internalized oppression or abuse.

After writing the runaway best seller Not Nice, Dr. Aziz returns to tackle the biggest killer of confidence: your own inner critic. That voice in your head tells you that you can’t achieve what you want or be loved for who you are, because you’re not enough. Unfortunately, most people don’t realize just how much that negative voice is running their lives, creating stress, anxiety, perfectionism, relentless business, and overwhelm.

Arguably the most celebrated and revered writer of our time now gives us a new nonfiction collection - a rich gathering of her essays, speeches, and meditations on society, culture, and art, spanning four decades.

Perfectionism is a character or personality trait that causes life to feel like a never-ending report card. A perfectionist feels as if they are being forever graded on their accomplishments, appearance, organization, and just about everything else. This audiobook explores the ways in which perfection can have positive and motivational impacts, like providing the drive to overcome adversity or achieve certain goals.

If someone asked you, "Who do you love?" would you ever think to reply, "Myself"? For too many of us, the answer would be no. That's why Mary Jelkovsky, author of the bestselling book The Gift of Self-Love, created this guided journal to help you give yourself grace even on the hardest days.

Experience unshakeable confidence in just weeks, even if self-doubt has defined you for years! Are you constantly battling self-doubt, no matter how hard you try? Does peer pressure and social media make you question your identity and self-worth? Do you find yourself wondering how others seem so confident while you feel stuck? If any of these questions resonate with you, you're definitely not alone. Teens everywhere face the same struggles, facing a whirlwind of expectations, judgments, and comparisons. But here's the reality: You can break free from the shackles of self-doubt and start ...

What follows is not a translation in the ordinary sense of the word. It’s more like a paraphrase. Rather than worry over the letter of the text, the goal has been to illuminate the large scale patterns that structure it. The King James Version, for instance, renders Paul’s letter with uncanny beauty but is opaque as an argument. Modern translations tend to have the same problem. Their overriding concern is with the letter of the text, not with its logic. As a result, Paul’s forest is always getting sacrificed for the sake of his trees. But Paul’s work is too important, his good news...

In today's fast-paced world, where self-criticism and burnout have become endemic, the science of self-compassion offers a revolutionary path to emotional well-being and resilience. This book bridges the gap between cutting-edge neuroscience and practical application, providing you with evidence-based tools to transform your relationship with yourself. Drawing from decades of clinical experience and research, we'll explore how self-compassion can revolutionize your response to life's challenges, from workplace stress to personal setbacks. Discover how this transformative guide connects ...

So many leadership and compassion books seek to remind leaders to "behave human" and treat those around them with care. But the truth is that leaders are human. They're not playing at being human or calling forth their humanity on demand. Their struggle in marrying leadership and compassion stems from leaders ignoring self-care-the lack of compassion toward their subordinates is just a symptom. Human First, Leader Second introduces leaders to the practice of self-compassion through a six-step framework.

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The Unfiltered You - A Brutally Honest Guide on How to Not Care What People Think, Escape the Comparison Trap, and Live Life on Your Terms Do you ever feel like you’re living life through a filter? You’re a high-achiever, you’re capable, and you do everything right. But you’re also exhausted. Exhausted from constantly second-guessing yourself, from the crippling fear of judgment, and from the endless, draining task of managing what other people think. You replay conversations in your head, wondering if you said the wrong thing. You see someone else’s success on social media and ...

In sixteen dazzling, expansive essays, the acclaimed essayist and poet Elisa Gabbert explores a life lived alongside books of all kinds: dog-eared and destroyed, cherished and discarded, classic and clichėd, familiar and profoundly new. She turns her witty, searching mind to the writers she admires, from Plath to Proust, and the themes that bind them―chance, freedom, envy, ambition, nostalgia, and happiness. She takes us to the strange edges of art and culture, from hair metal to surf movies to party fiction.

For the first time, Appetite for Self-Destruction recounts the story of the precipitous rise and fall of the recording industry over the past three decades, when the incredible success of the CD turned the music business into one of the most glamorous, high-profile industries in the world - and the advent of file sharing brought it to its knees.

Tired of feeling like you're never good enough? Do you constantly set unrealistic goals for yourself and then beat yourself up when you don't achieve them? If so, you're not alone. Millions of people struggle with perfectionism, and it can have a devastating impact on our lives. This book reveals the hidden costs of perfectionism and provides practical strategies for letting go of your need to be perfect. You'll learn how to: * Set realistic goals * Manage your time effectively * Overcome procrastination * Build self-compassion * Accept yourself for who you are If you're ready to break free...

No matter whether your self-esteem is just a bit bruised or entirely torn apart, this audiobook can help you begin to develop a clearer picture. You may feel like you are unsure if an audiobook can help you fix something that has been broken for years, but if you are willing to give it a try, you will find that your self-esteem can be repaired.

Unlock Your Potential: Overcome Doubt and Achieve Your Dreams Are you tired of feeling stuck and held back by the relentless voice of doubt? Do you long to turn your passion into a thriving business but find yourself paralyzed by fear and self-criticism? Unlock Your Potential is your essential guide to breaking free from the chains of uncertainty and stepping boldly into your future. In this empowering book, Barry J McDonald, a seasoned fiction writer, blogger, and podcaster, reveals proven strategies to silence your inner critic and harness your true potential. With warmth and authenticity...

The Marriage of Desire and Self-deception puts William Blake’s The Marriage of Heaven and Hell in the context in which Blake intended it to be read. Going by the text, The Marriage of Heaven and Hell is written specifically to attack biblical truths and replace them with what Blakean mythology considers to be truth as it is understood in Hell. Bertrand’s Marriage may sound destructive but, then, the very nature of the work on which he comments is destructive. Blake clearly states that he is on the side of the Devil in the on-going battle against God of the Bible and all that He stands ...

Discover the power of mirror meditation to help you awaken self-compassion, increase self-awareness, and gain the confidence needed to thrive.

Unlock your potential as a leader and manager with the "Handbook on Feedback and Recognition." In this practical guide, you'll learn how to give and receive feedback effectively, communicate with impact, and create a culture of recognition in the workplace. With insights into the psychology of feedback and the importance of recognition, this book offers a comprehensive approach to unlocking the full potential of your team. By reading the "Handbook on Feedback and Recognition," managers can expect to see a significant improvement in their career prospects. With the skills and knowledge ...