Self Criticism

Kristin Neff, Ph.D., says that it’s time to “stop beating yourself up and leave insecurity behind.” Self-Compassion: Stop Beating Yourself Up and Leave Insecurity Behind offers expert advice on how to limit self-criticism and offset its negative effects, enabling you to achieve your...

How to Fully Accept Yourself—Just As You Are Most of us have plenty of experience with self-blame and guilt—but we are often at a loss when it comes to forgiving ourselves. According to Colin Tipping, this is because our idea of forgiveness usually requires a victim and a perpetrator—which...

Turn self-criticism into clarity, fear into guidance, and self-sabotage into confidence. Change begins when you choose to be your ally. Have you ever felt that just when you are about to move forward, something inside you suddenly hits the brakes? You procrastinate, hesitate, push yourself too hard, or fill your mind with excuses that sound logical… yet leave you standing in the same place. It is not a lack of discipline or a sign of weakness; it is your mind trying to protect you from fear, rejection, or the possibility of failure. This book invites you to understand that mechanism from ...

Perhaps you want to be nicer to yourself but don’t really know how to get there. Or maybe you’re someone who assumes self-criticism is a permanent part of your personality. Rest assured you’re not alone. Millions of people struggle with the toll that excessive self-criticism takes on their minds, energy levels, jobs, and relationships. And problems with self-talk vary dramatically from one person to the next: they can appear as mild but persistent inner criticism, full-blown self-loathing, or the pain of internalized oppression or abuse.

NATIONAL BESTSELLER Here is the Nobel Prize winner in her own words: a rich gathering of her most important essays and speeches, spanning four decades that "speaks to today’s social and political moment as directly as this morning’s headlines” (NPR). These pages give us her searing...

After writing the runaway best seller Not Nice, Dr. Aziz returns to tackle the biggest killer of confidence: your own inner critic. That voice in your head tells you that you can’t achieve what you want or be loved for who you are, because you’re not enough. Unfortunately, most people don’t realize just how much that negative voice is running their lives, creating stress, anxiety, perfectionism, relentless business, and overwhelm.

Living with Avoidant Personality Disorder can feel exhausting, isolating, and painfully misunderstood. Managing Avoidant Personality Disorder is a compassionate, practical guide for people who struggle with social fear, rejection sensitivity, low self-worth, and the urge to withdraw even when they deeply want connection. Inside, you’ll find realistic coping strategies for managing anxiety, handling criticism, understanding emotional triggers, building healthier thought patterns, and taking small, workable steps toward stronger relationships and greater confidence. Whether you’ve been ...

What if the problem isn’t that you’re failing at life—but that you’ve been using the wrong definition of perfection all along? In 2010, psychologist and author Pavel Somov introduced the idea of “ordinary perfection” in his book Present Perfect—a counterintuitive approach to self-acceptance that challenged the shame-driven logic of perfectionism. Over the next decade and a half, Somov continued testing, refining, stress-testing, and translating that idea into real-life clinical work with therapy clients, workshop audiences, and mental health professionals around the world. ...

The Self-Compassion Blueprint : How To Improve Self Compassion. A 30-Day Science-Based Plan to Stop Self-Criticism, Build Emotional Resilience, and Develop Lasting Confidence. This book is organized into four parts and a 30-day daily practice section designed to move you from understanding self-compassion to actually living it. Part I lays the groundwork. You'll get to know your inner critic — where it came from, why it sounds so convincing, and what it's actually costing you. You'll also confront some of the myths about self-compassion that might be keeping you skeptical. Part II builds ...

“Psychologist and therapist Ellen Hendriksen has a likable, easygoing narrating style that holds together the impressive amount of useful information in her latest audiobook.”—AudioFile This program is read by the author. Are you your own toughest critic? Learn to be good to yourself with...

INTERNATIONAL BESTSELLER ""Stomach stress gurgles are no match for this spinning rolodex of chill pills."" Neil Pasricha, #1 bestselling author of The Book of Awesome and The Happiness Equation Life is stressful as f*ck. But it doesn’t have to be. It’s no wonder you can’t calm down: your...

Break free from relentless perfectionism and crushing anxiety to reclaim your peace of mind and embrace self-compassion. If you are an exhausted professional, a stressed student, or an overwhelmed parent trapped in endless loops of checking, this is your way out. Stop letting emotional paralysis...

Break free from anxiety and OCD loops with actionable tools to quiet intrusive thoughts and overcome overthinking. If you feel trapped in a relentless cycle of mental review, this gentle guide offers immediate relief for your nervous system. Perfect for your stressful morning commute or when...

Uncover your hidden assets—you can fill each day with excitement and a sense of satisfaction! Even if you love your work, you probably have days when almost nothing goes right. Bestselling author Dale Carnegie shows you how to make every day more exciting and rewarding—how you can get more...

Transform emotional trauma and chronic anxiety into lasting self-trust through the power of inner child healing. Whether you are navigating relationship struggles or seeking emotional regulation during your daily commute, this grounding guide offers immediate relief. Uncover how past unmet needs...

A dazzlingly original and ambitious audiobook on the history of female self-portraiture by one of today's most well-respected art critics. Until the twentieth century, art history was, in the main, written by white men who tended to write about other white men. The idea that women in the West...

Break the exhausting cycle of overthinking and conquer anxiety with practical self-help tools designed to rewire your mind. If you are a perfectionist, procrastinator, or people pleaser feeling stuck in painful cognitive loops, this compassionate audio experience provides a realistic escape...

What follows is not a translation in the ordinary sense of the word. It’s more like a paraphrase. Rather than worry over the letter of the text, the goal has been to illuminate the large scale patterns that structure it. The King James Version, for instance, renders Paul’s letter with uncanny beauty but is opaque as an argument. Modern translations tend to have the same problem. Their overriding concern is with the letter of the text, not with its logic. As a result, Paul’s forest is always getting sacrificed for the sake of his trees. But Paul’s work is too important, his good news...

Rich in clinical examples, this book offers a fresh perspective on the roles of shame and guilt in psychological distress and presents a step-by-step framework for treatment. Martha Sweezy explains how the principles of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy are ideally suited to helping trauma...

In today's fast-paced world, where self-criticism and burnout have become endemic, the science of self-compassion offers a revolutionary path to emotional well-being and resilience. This book bridges the gap between cutting-edge neuroscience and practical application, providing you with evidence-based tools to transform your relationship with yourself. Drawing from decades of clinical experience and research, we'll explore how self-compassion can revolutionize your response to life's challenges, from workplace stress to personal setbacks. Discover how this transformative guide connects ...