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Does God really expect us to put up with a lifetime of abuse from the bullies, liars, manipulators, abusers and users we know, just because we were born into a toxic family or were deceived into befriending a narcissist who hid his true self from us at first? Christians often feel stuck in abusive relationships with narcissistic or psychopathic friends or family, either haunted by guilt or plagued by Holier-Than-Thous who think they have the right to judge us for finally getting away and staying away. In this book, you will learn about going No Contact from a biblical perspective. You will ...

*** NEW REVISED EDITION *** 1ST PLACE READER VIEWS LITERARY AWARDS: RELIGION *** WINNER READER VIEWS REVIEWER’S CHOICE AWARDS *** 4.5 ON GOODREADS ADULT CHILD ABUSE: Child abuse that did not end when adulthood began. The continuing victimization of grown children by their abusive or controlling parents, siblings, or family members. Where do folks get the idea that Christians have to be meek and mild, silently enduring mistreatment, tolerating anything abusive family members do, and timidly standing by while toxic relatives trample all over us and other innocent victims? Narcissistic ...

Have you ever been pressured to forgive before you felt comfortable about it? Has something not sat right with you all these years about the concept of biblical forgiveness? Is it just not making sense for God to require us to grant blanket forgiveness on demand, or even if it hasn’t been asked for, including to those who are downright wicked? As Christians, we all know our Father wants us to forgive. However, forgiveness and the requirement to forgive are not necessarily what we have been taught by our abusers and their enablers, or by others who are either misinformed or trying to ...

In an ideal world, sisters and brothers are friends forever. They love and support each other throughout their lifetimes. Loving siblings share one another’s joys as well as sorrows. When we cry, they cry. When we celebrate, they celebrate. They defend us and protect us. They are loyal. We can trust them. They always have our backs. But sadly, many of us have siblings who choose to be our enemies. When we cry, they gloat, and when we celebrate, they pout. They resent us, compete with us, gossip and lie about us, turn other people against us, ignore us, swindle us, steal from us, sabotage ...

*** FINALIST USA BOOK NEWS BEST BOOK AWARDS *** FINALIST USA BOOK NEWS AWARDS *** 4.1 on Goodreads 48 Ratings PLEASING GOD WHILE PROTECTING YOURSELF Adult Children of narcissistic families often find themselves stuck in predicaments that people with normal families never have to face. Featuring The 21 Rules of No Contact and 102 Questions to Ask Yourself When Deciding Whether to End an Abusive Relationship, Narcissistic Predicaments has the answers you’ve been looking for. When you try to set boundaries, do your abusive relatives accuse you of not being a “good Christian” because: * ...

SAY GOOD-BYE TO GUILT AND HELLO TO NO Is there a freeloader in your family? Are you tired of being constantly hit up for money, invitations, and favors? Are you fed up with always being the host and never the guest? Do your family members think they’re entitled to your help, but don’t think they ever have to show any appreciation, pay you back, or return the favor? Are you worried about not being a “good” Christian if you say “No” to a freeloader’s request? Written with humor, wisdom, and a healthy dose of common sense, The Family Freeloader is just what you need! In this book...

*** Winner Reader Views 2nd Place Reviewers Choice Award, Religion Category *** 4.1 on Goodreads 48 ratings BE PREPARED FOR YOUR NEXT ENCOUNTER WITH THE BULLY IN YOUR FAMILY OR CHURCH In this Revised Edition of her award-winning book Narcissistic Confrontations, Sister Renee Pittelli will teach you about abusive battle tactics, recognizing poisonous people, toxic group dynamics and helpful strategies for handling toxic birth-families as well as abusive church families, with invaluable insights and information about phony “Christians” and toxic churches, the biblically in-error “...