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Self therapy is actually a practice used by thousands of years by the humans … to analyze, define and why not even redefine the inner souls … for simple becoming a better self … on the scene of life. Can be used by anyone … with only one condition …. to not lie yourself anymore … and become in the same time the therapist … but also the patient. It’s a non ending process … but i guarantee you … it worth to bother doing it. Realizing the connection with the self … it all becomes different and the answers to all our questions ….will come by themselves … helping us to ...

I have this obsession of writing about love relationships and the weird algorithms which are defining the dynamic of such a story. And ... i do it by years. Writing my own life experiences ... being obviously that i am actually defining the nonsense in its absolute form. So ... i keep writing ... all being sort of a journal. Any new day ... is a new experience ... and i allow my soul to be part of that. Many believe ... i am already insane ... cause any story is about love and hate, not being so clear if i actually love or ... hate that woman. But ... yes ... i am confused. So ... as a ...

Defining the connection … that sometimes looked like illusory … i’ve realised it all became a concert … of complains. I’ve wrote a lot about … defining … and its importance so that we could have a beautiful existence. In fact i do believe … and that’s my main message that analysing and defining with honesty all we like and dislike … we could reach a point when we could actually redefine our lives … into a better way. And this theory could be available into any of the areas of our lives. In our careers, with our friends … and even into a love story. The only real ...

1+1=1 ... losing our identities Being in love ... is a totally different way of experiencing life. Being in love ... is amazing. But … love is not for everyone. Yes ... Not any of us can understand and accept the illogical rules of love. And ... the truth is ... we are afraid of getting lost ... of losing our souls ... our identities ... our minds. I was in love. ... not only one time. I dare to write about love ... cause i was into that ... heaven ... but unfortunately the emotional balance made me feel ... the hell too. Love is ... duality. I've felt it. I've strongly felt it. And I've ...

We have the chance … but also the duty … to play lots of roles during this life time. We like some of those roles… and maybe even adore it … but also dislike many of the things we have to do .. as actors on the stage of reality. If i would analyse myself into an honest way … i would even dare to say that i played one million roles …. being an angel … but also many times … a devil. Like all the others …. i’ve played so, so contradictory roles … that into the end … i would not even know how to define myself …. So … was i a good person?! Or was i … a bad person?! ...

We speak so, so much about connections …. but …. maybe the real truth is that we most probably have no idea what that is. I’ve been meditating a lot on the subject … but the only thing i can honestly declare is that … i had one million perceptions about the subject … but could not reach the absolute truth. All my ideas … were simple perceptions… and nothing more. I’ve imagined the connection itself as a … bridge … between souls. Then … as a flame. Later on … simple as the beauty of being together. But later on …. I’ve realised that the connection is more about ...

“Parallel lives … a way of enjoying our fantasies” … might sound as a title of a book that reveals … immoral facts. But i haven’t defined … only that. I’ve dared to go deeper into a journey of analyzes … as a very simple … ordinary person … that dreams about lots of … fantasies. Love … fantasies. … spiritual. … sexual. … financial. But … all was about … an amazing reality that had nothing to do with my present moment. Cause … yes … maybe the first step is … to allow ourselves to dream … and have any kind of fantasy. … no matter what it is about.

There are many which cannot exist ... outside duality. But i've also realised, even into my private life that actually ... love relationships are too complicated. Someone told me, just after i've finished this book .. "The better you know a person, the closer you are to a separation from him. Knowledge detaches one being from another and cancels the grains of mystery that are in any existence no matter how flat/linear it may be. I think we resist knowing the other for a short time because after that period, his/her presence becomes fatigue and irritation." Maybe i had to hear this, before ...

Truth be told we don’t understand so well the world we live in. And it’s not that we suffer of an absence of intelligence… but because we don’t really have the ability to connect to the universe we are living in. We don’t understand the people that are around us. We can’t really understand their reactions …. their way of being … and in fact … almost nothing. We live in here by so, so many years … but … Well …. we don’t even understand ourselves either … In times of calmness all looks ok … but the second a very little change appears in the parameters that define...

Daemons are well hided into the unconscious There were many times into my life when all looked perfect. Well … until something happened and the dynamic of all became different. Having again an ugly existence. Even … pathetic. And i was trying and trying and trying to understand what is going on … but … Today i trend to believe that all is related to the fact that me or someone around me access some weird energies. I have the tendency to call them … negative energies, but i am not doing it anymore. All being a story about energies, some of them being beneficial to me … and some ...

The book is trying to define the beautiful and the dark side from a man and a woman, that are in love of each other, but not as theory ... but as a result of analyzing facts that are happening on the timeline of the love story. It’s a book about a fairy tale, with 2 lovely characters that are not understanding, but also are not accepting that the meaning of an abstract love ... or an imposible story is to enjoy only the beauty of what is going on. The 2 people from the essays get lost so many times, that not even the people around them can’t see if the story itself is real or not. But ...

All my writings are kind of a … self therapy And i was writing on and on and on …. defining my feelings and thoughts … But it was a little bit funny realizing the contradiction between what i thought, what i felt deep inside of my soul … and how i was acting on the stage of life. … analyzing and defining myself … the one that i thought i was … deep into my soul … and the one from the outside world … i was realizing it’s such a huge difference. And still … i was trying to be better … but all i was doing was … pretending … on and on and on. But why?! Why … this ...

In many of the occasions in life, we see everything in a simple dogmatic way. We are used with different kinds of results and believe that these represents the only case scenarios that can happen. We want something else, but don’t really believe that life can bring us the ... goodies. We predict the future, according to the past. But you know, same story, with the same elements can also have a different result than we are used to expect. We can influence reality ... just by expecting something totally different that we used to have. For example ... there are cases when the Universe is ...

I had no idea about the fact that life is a lot related with the energies beyond ourselves. The ones generated by our ideas, thoughts, feelings ... and in fact all is in our heart ... or mind. I was not aware of the influences came from this side ... not even thinking for a second that soon ... all these energies will be metamorphosed into ... dominance. And i continued my life like that for years. ... having no idea what the nonsense is. Believing ... it's real ... ... and also that its appearance on the scene of life... it's normal. ... us not being able to do anything against that. There...

I had in mind to write the book “I was the prisoner … but also the guardian” … as the desire of revealing the truth about the prison where i was living … by a long, long time. But i did not knew how to define … better. I was not understanding completely the subject … and i’ve tried so, so much to clarify with myself … what it’s wrong …. Suddenly… one day … i’ve realized … that i was just pretending i did not knew why my life was looking that way. I felt like a prisoner of a reality with i hated … but i was not seeing the guardians … any of them. And the ...

Between a lie and the real truth ... we'll always prefer the lie. The human being is ... illogical. It always was .... and will always be. Allowing ... the nonsense to dominate all the time. Somehow ... is a paradox. But in the real life ... we paint so, so nicely the lies ... into an abstract way .... that we might even believe all is ... good. I've believed the same. ... many, many times. Obviously ... ignoring or rejecting the real truth. And ... i try to understand myself. See ... the logic of my behaviour. Unfortunately ... all is a total nonsense. I just prefer ... the lies. ...

We always try to understand our thoughts and emotions regarding the relationships we are involved in. And so many times … we fail in interpreting the meaning behind all what is going on. We simple don’t understand it. We believe it’s a love story … or even the love story of our lives …. or a very good friendship … but it always has an ugly end. And damn it … it was the perfect case scenario of a connection between 2 souls. The meaning of all what happened …. becomes a nonsense. Someone that used to be a good friend … or a soul mate if it’s about a love story … becomes ...

Sometimes we see life ... weird. But there are times when we also see it in a beautiful way. This balance will always be there. I became a writer, by writing simple quotes on my phone. Writing on and on and on. I was meditating a lot ... what life is about ... and in fact ... what my life actually means. After almost 3 years i started to look to all those thoughts ... which were simple ideas ... but were mine. There were defining me. And i became deeper and deeper. I was exploring all my thoughts and feelings. Today ... reading again all those things i wrote ... i just smile. I see the ...

Rule number 1 in … self therapy. Whatever happens …. happens for a reason …. but it’s never what it looks like. Even if we agree … or not. A very wise thing which i realised by the passing of time is that i should accept all what happens into my life … cause there are certainly things which i don’t clearly understand …. and most probably i won’t be able to do it so very soon. “Thinking like Freud” …. is a way of expressing my influence to the public … of following the path of a so called self therapy … and always keep in mind that we should analyse and define all...

The weird thing is that even if we are free beings … we feel like prisoners … trapped into an unwanted reality. And all looks a lot with a … nice concentration camp. Today … i see unhappiness everywhere. At poor people … but also at people that have all what they ever wanted. All look like prisoners into a weird prison … generated mainly by their thoughts. Unhappiness… is not depression. No… Hell no … This unhappiness i am talking about… is simple the result of the fact that happiness is not there. Is not such a big suffer …. but people are conscious that life is not ...