Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy.

Thanks for joining me on this episode of Spectrum in Camouflage. Today’s show is a bit heavier than usual, and I want to share something really personal. Our local community lost a brother—a firefighter named John Saunders—someone I’ve known and worked with for nearly a decade. This tragedy shook us deeply, and it's left a weight that’s hard to put into words.

In this episode, I talk through the guilt, grief, and mental load that can come from loss—especially when you feel like you should’ve been there but weren’t. I reflect on what it means to show up for others, even when you're not sure how. I also draw a connection to our journey with our autistic son, Wyatt, and the regrets that can come from decisions we made before we knew what we know now.

I want to be real with you—grief isn’t linear. Whether it’s grieving a loss, a diagnosis, or the feeling that you could’ve done something differently, it takes time. And if you’re in that space right now, you’re not alone. Your pain is valid. Your questions are valid. And your healing matters.

This one’s for John, for his family, for my brothers on the department, and for every parent out there carrying unseen weight.

• Grief and guilt often come together, especially after sudden loss or difficult decisions.
• "Pain shared is pain divided" — reaching out matters more than you think.
• It’s okay to question the past, but we must keep moving forward with hope.
• Stress is relative—what overwhelms one person might not affect another the same way.
• There’s no shame in wanting your child to be as healthy and expressive as possible.
• You’re not alone in wondering “what if?”—especially in the autism parenting journey.
• Your story, your strength, and your healing can help someone else later on.

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Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy. Today’s episode is a raw, emotional rollercoaster as I share from the heart about what’s been on my mind lately. From thanking YOU—the listeners and supporters of this show—to calling out what I see as a health crisis affecting our kids, I get honest about the rise in autism, the controversy surrounding causes, and why I believe we need more accountability in medicine, food, and government.

I talk about RFK Jr.’s recent claim that we’ll know the cause of autism by September, and yes—it’s controversial. But whether or not you agree, the fact that someone is shaking things up might just be what we need to move the conversation forward.

I also give a huge shout-out to the people helping me on this journey—Dr. Matt, Dr. Tony, my friend Josh, and producer Joe. You guys keep me grounded, keep me pushing, and most of all, keep me believing we can help our kids thrive.

If you’ve ever felt like the system failed you or your child, or you’ve questioned how we got here—this one’s for you.

• Thank You for Your Support: From social media encouragement to personal messages—your support keeps this podcast going.
• RFK Jr.'s Bold Claim: He says we'll know the cause of autism by September. Controversial? Yes. But it’s bringing attention to a much-needed issue.
• Tommy’s Personal Belief: He saw his son change after a cluster of vaccines and believes it was the final straw in a perfect storm of health struggles.
• Rising Autism Rates: From 1 in 150 in 2000 to 1 in 36 in 2020—and even lower ratios reported in some areas.
• Skepticism and Frustration: Tommy challenges the idea that better diagnosis explains everything. He believes there’s more to the story.
• The Medical System vs. the People: Tommy makes it clear—he doesn’t distrust the people in medicine, but the system itself.
• The Emotional Toll: The weight of advocacy, doubt, and pushing against the norm is real—but Tommy’s not backing down.
• Hope in Action: Whether it’s early intervention from doctors like Matt and Tony, or bold voices like RFK, Tommy is here for any real movement that helps our kids.

If this episode stirred something in you—whether agreement or disagreement—I welcome the conversation. Visit spectrumincamouflage.com or email me directly at tommy@spectrumincamouflage.com.

Let’s keep fighting for our kids. Let’s demand answers. Let’s do better—together.

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Together, we can create a community to support autistic kids and their families. If you have questions or ideas or want to share your journey, email me at tommy@spectrumincamouflage.com.

Let’s learn, grow, and make a difference—one step, one piece of the puzzle, one child at a time.

Hey, What’s Up! It’s Tommy. This week on Spectrum in Camouflage, I finally get to sit down with Dr. Matt Hamilton—someone I’ve been meaning to bring on the show for a long time. Dr. Matt is a neurologically focused pediatric chiropractor, a dad of four, and a powerhouse when it comes to understanding the nervous system, stress, and how they relate to autism.

We cover so much in this conversation—from what inspired Dr. Matt to pursue chiropractic care to how his life-changing injury as a teen opened his eyes to the body’s ability to heal without medication. He breaks down his approach to treating the nervous system, not just symptoms, and how this can impact everything from allergies to ADHD to non-speaking autism.

We talk about “the perfect storm”—a term Dr. Matt uses to describe how layers of stress (physical, chemical, and emotional) build up over time, beginning even before birth, and how those stressors can lead to neurological dysfunction. He also walks us through the importance of scans, vagus nerve function, and sequencing care correctly—not just throwing everything at a problem but healing in the right order.

This episode is full of hope, not false promises. If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the medical system or unsure what “alternative care” really means, this one’s for you.

• Dr. Matt’s personal story: A sports injury and unexpected chiropractic success launched his career.
• Chiropractic isn’t about cracking backs—neurologically focused care aims to unlock your body's natural healing power.
• The Perfect Storm: Stress doesn’t start at diagnosis—it builds over time, even during pregnancy and birth.
• Vagus nerve health is essential for things like sleep, digestion, mood, and speech development.
• Scans matter: Dr. Matt’s practice uses real-time nervous system scans to guide care and track progress.
• Chiropractic care isn’t about “fixing” autism—it’s about unlocking potential and improving quality of life.
• Hope and healing take time: Patience, sequencing, and consistency matter more than quick fixes.

• Maximum Potential Chiropractic – Dr. Matt Hamilton’s practice.
• PX Docs – Find neurologically focused pediatric chiropractors near you.
• Experience Miracles Podcast – Hosted by Dr. Tony Ebel, a mentor to Dr. Matt and a deep dive into pediatric neurology and healing.

If this episode struck a chord or raised some questions, don’t hold back—send them my way. Head over to spectrumincamouflage.com or email me at tommy@spectrumincamouflage.com.

We’re all trying to do the best we can—and together, we’re stronger. Let’s keep building that support system.

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Together, we can create a community to support autistic kids and their families. If you have questions or ideas or want to share your journey, email me at tommy@spectrumincamouflage.com.

Let’s learn, grow, and make a difference—one step, one piece of the puzzle, one child at a time.