On a date, you might find yourself smiling and nodding along while he talks—and talks—and somewhere inside, you’re feeling… invisible.Instead of pushing through or pretending you’re fine, try this:“You know, I really followed you through that story. I could feel how frustrating it was for you… and I’m actually starting to feel a little frustrated myself. I think I’d love to feel more connected—is there anything you’d like to know about me?”This isn’t about confronting him.It’s about tuning in to you—before the irritation builds, before you go quiet, before you disappear.You’re not trying to impress him. You’re inviting him into connection. If you’d like support in staying soft, open, and real on your dates (without losing yourself or your voice), Siren Island is here for you.Come join us for live classes, tools, and real-time coaching:https://blog.havetherelationshipyouwant.com/siren-island-community-program/Love,Rori

Something feels off on the date—but what is it, exactly? Why do some moments feel like magic, and others fall flat?

What’s really happening when things don’t go as hoped? It’s not about him.

💔 You’re wondering why he talked your ear off and never called again.

💬 You’re replaying the moment he kissed you goodbye but asked zero questions.

🌪 You’re stuck in your head, trying to decode it all.

Most of us aren’t actually on the date. We’re in the future. We’re strategizing, performing, and abandoning our own experience.

If you’d like more help dating that feels good, on Siren Island, with monthly classes, real support, and feminine energy coaching— for just $33/month—you’ll have a space to come home to yourself again and again and have more love.

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Love, Rori

Everything in Modern Siren has a slightly "spiritual" leaning bend to it.

Everything is metaphorical, nature-influenced, and based on your emotional, deepest self, while also being authentic to that.

It's essential to rely on the fact that even if you're not deeply feeling into yourself, who you are in that moment is also authentic.

This might sound like a mistake, but from a spiritual view, it's all the same.

Our judgment of ourselves often falls into a nearly religious context.

So let me try to clarify this perspective, and then we can take your questions and see how we can move into this arena.

I believe I’ve always been in the spiritual arena, but the difference lies in trying to connect with a man on a spiritual level, which often leads us down the wrong road.

For us, spirituality has largely been a masculine arena, wouldn’t you agree?

It’s primarily run by masculine energy and thoughts. The spirit resides up here, in the upper chakra, around where your thinking is—essentially at the top of your head.

When we occupy that space, we often dampen the earthiness of femininity.

Come back to your feminine energy !

On Siren Island, we laugh, cry, learn, and rise together. Monthly classes, real support, and feminine energy coaching—all for just $33/month.

Siren Island is here:

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Love, Rori