On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Jordin Wiggins. Jordin is a Naturopathic Doctor, Pleasure & Intimacy Coach, and author. She teaches high-achieving, successful women how to be as badass in the bedroom and relationships as they are in business. She is the CEO of the Pleasure Collective, a coaching community for women reclaiming their pleasure as well as the host of The Pleasure Principles podcast, where she dedicates her time to exploring and understanding pleasure, health, and sex in today's society. Jordin maintains a small private practice in Ontario to help entrepreneurs and professional women feel their best.

Key Points:

- Jordin introduces herself

- Differing perspectives on pleasure

- Barriers to experiencing pleasure

- The importance of self-exploration

- Navigating pleasure in relationships

- Broader implications of prioritizing pleasure

Relevant links:

Jordin’s website: https://www.thepleasurecollective.com/

Jordin’s Instagram: @drjordinwiggins

From episode #64 with Bek Antonucci. More from that episode:

- Bek shares about her personal story

- Living with herpes

- The stigma of STIs

- Normalizing conversations about sexual health

- Talking about sex online

- Intention vs impact

- Sister wounds and brother wounds

- “What do men need to know?”

- Attention seeking

- Advice for being a sexually embodied person on the internet

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with author and men’s coach GS Youngblood. He wrote a book titled “The Masculine in Relationship”, which offers a model called the Masculine Blueprint for men to become grounded in their own power and more relational with their Feminine partner. The premise of his work is that many relationship problems are actually rooted in a lack of Relational Masculinity - which is a combination of groundedness, leadership, and relational skills. This is what he

teaches to men. GS's work draws inspiration from various disciplines, including psychology, men's work, spirituality, martial arts, tango, meditation, and BDSM.

Key points:

- GS introduces himself

- Overcoming emasculation

- What is The Masculine Blueprint?

- Applying the Blueprint

- Recap and Call-to-action

Relevant links:

GS’s website: gsyoungblood.com

GS’s Instagram: @gsyoungbloodmir

From episode #63 wit Betty Martin. More from that episode:

- Betty shares about her career

- The inception of The Wheel of Consent

- Giving/Receiving and Doing/Done-To

- The four quadrants

- The 3 Minute Game

- Learning how to take pleasure

- You can’t make someone surrender

- Practical advice for men using The Wheel

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jenna Love. Jenna has been a sex worker in Australia for over a decade, mostly as an independent full service sex worker and online adult content creator, but also with experience in brothels and massage parlours. She is the President of Scarlet Alliance, Australian Sex Workers Association, and is the co-host and Producer of sex industry podcast Somebody You Love, which was a finalist in the Australian Podcast Awards Sex & Relationships category in 2021. She is a pansexual polyamorous cat mum who lives with her husband of 15 years on Dharug & Gundungurra land in the Blue Mountains, NSW.

Key points:

- Jenna introduces herself

- Decriminalization vs legalization models

- The “whorearhcy”

- Challenging misconceptions about clients

- The range of client experiences

- Pleasure and sex work

Relevant links:

Jenna’s Instagram: @jennaloveaus

From episode #62 with Julieta Chiara.

More from that episode:

- Julieta shares some of her journey

- Sexuality related career pathways

- Discovering your authentic sexual self

- Sex industry expectations and assumptions

- Introducing kink and BDSM

- Male submission and surrender

- Male dominance and assertiveness

- Creating safety to sexually explore

- Experimenting with power play

- Tantra and Shibari

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Destin Gerek. Destin is a Certified Sexologist through The American College of Sexologists International. Destin is a globally recognized coach in masculinity, sexuality, and personal empowerment. He is the author of the best-selling book, The Evolved Masculine: Be the Man the World Needs, and the One She Craves and the creator of the film Seductive Devotion. Destin hosts the podcast Diving Deep with Destin: Sex, Love, & Evolution.

Key points:

- Destin introduces himself

- Creating safe erotic spaces through consent and care

- Impact of mainstream porn on relationships and sex

- Transforming masculinity through self-mastery and care for women

- Working with high-achieving men through somatic sexology

Relevant links:

Destin’s website: https://destingerek.com/

Destin’s Instagram: @destingerek

From episode 61 with Lindsey, Katie, and Sugar.

More from that episode:

- Lindsey, Katie and Sugar share the origin story of Clit Talk

- Competition vs collaboration

- Polyamory, jealousy and compersion

- You can’t fulfill all your partner’s needs

- What is a pleasure-positive lifestyle?

- Pleasure practices and advice

- How can women get their men to open up?

- Stop coaching your partner

- An unfiltered look inside women’s minds