When I called the emergency vet to ask a question about my dog Barnaby, her answer gave me an important insight into the challenge of decision-making.

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As part of the Move 26 in ’26 Challenge, we’re sharing a listen-along episode to pair with your 26 minutes of daily movement. Michelle Obama and her brother Craig Robinson discuss the role movement plays in a happier life and share favorite clips from podcasts like IMO and The Second Opinion with Dr. Sharon that explore how movement, discipline, and mental health shape who we become. Great listening for a walk, a workout, or any way you like to move.

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We talk why it’s valuable to “go for the no” instead of avoiding rejection and failure. Plus we give our suggestions for excellent same-day books and a hack for making email more efficient.

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A famous quip illustrates an important point: Small debts burden the borrower; big debts burden the lender.

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We talk about the power of reframing—specifically, reframing the meaning of a siren. We also talk about a passage from the novel “Little Women” that illuminates our experience of our father’s death.

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• Happier in Hollywood newsletter on Substack
• Find tips and hacks for No-Spend February here

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In honor of No-Spend February, we talk about why it’s a good time to turn in your coins and to use up your gift cards. We also talk about the juggler vs. aerialist distinction, and how the Four Tendencies framework can illuminate an experience of family estrangement.

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• Coinstar
• Wall Street Journal article by therapist Rachel Glik
• Elizabeth is reading: Strangers by Belle Burden (Amazon, Bookshop)
• Gretchen is reading: Pnin by Vladimir Nabokov (Amazon, Bookshop)

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The traditional Russian practice of “sitting on suitcases” is an excellent ritual for anyone setting off on a trip.

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Why is it so hard getting yourself to do what you want to do? This overview of the Four Tendencies explains why motivation works differently for different people and how understanding how you respond to expectations can make follow-through easier.

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