When Effort Kills Attraction Why Trying Harder Pushes Men Away - and What Actually Keeps Them Close The Psychology of Desire

Why Men Fall in Love and Why They Leave. Why Boundaries Create Attraction

By: Morgan Moore Hartwell

Narrated by: Virtual Voice

This book is written for women who want clarity, dignity, and emotional power - not strategies that compromise self-respect.
Why do men lose interest just as things start getting serious?
Why men fall in love through emotional investment - not persuasion
Why do strong, intelligent women struggle to be chosen - while others seem effortlessly adored?
Why does love feel so fragile, confusing, and unstable?
The Psychology of Desire reveals the hidden emotional laws behind attraction, attachment, and commitment - laws most women unknowingly violate while trying to “do the right thing.”
This book explains:

• Why men fall in love through emotional investment - not persuasion
• Why availability, reassurance, and effort often backfire
• Why desire fades in relationships - and how to keep it alive
• Why men pull away, avoid commitment, or suddenly change
• How boundaries, emotional self-control, and self-respect create attraction

Grounded in psychology, attachment theory, and real-world relationship dynamics, this book offers a calm, intelligent, and empowering perspective on love - without games, shame, or manipulation.
You will not learn how to chase love.
You will learn how to be chosen - without losing yourself.
For women who are done trying harder -
and ready to understand what actually works.

Published by Breakthrough Threshold Press, a publisher dedicated to uncovering the hidden psychological and behavioral laws that shape attraction, power, money, and human relationships.

What stood out to me is the resemblance of the situations he spoke of my own.

This book really help me to understand what I lack in my life! Healthy Boundaries! Is also explained all lot about why my partner(s) would behavior the way they would and what might be going on inside their heads. It totally fit and makes sense. I had to listen twice so some of the advice would stick. I will read it several more time so that I may be able to use what I’ve learned into my everyday life and relationships. Awesome read/listen. I’m searching for more books from Morgan Moore Hartwell.

Excellence book marred by the use of virtual voice

This book is so good, but would be multiple times better if narrated by a real person.